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writes: Help me please. I like this girl and I text her all the time. We aren't going out with each other. I fancy her but she doesn't know. I would say we are good friends with each other as well. I asked her if she wanted to meet up and go out and she said yes but wanted to bring a friend with her so I said she could. Anyway we all had a good time. What I want to know is how should I ask her without looking like a loser, if she wants to meet up somewhere and hang out for a bit so it is just us two. But I also don't want it to sound like a date. Help please.
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reader, Anastasia +, writes (17 August 2005):
I think you guys should do something together, not like a date, if you have to go out to buy something or anything of the sort..tell her you just want company to go along with...casually. Making jokes with her and making her realise that you are comfortable with her will help. You just basically show that you are not intimidated by her or the fact that you are attracted to her. Just be yourself. If she still wants to bring along a friend..no probs...be cool with her too. Don't try to hard to be alone and don't try to impress anyone.You are there to have a good time with her or them as the case may be. Take care...ana
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