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Archived questions from: December, 2012 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Nauseated after rough sex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

31 December 2012 (F) - I was just wondering if this has happend to anyone. My bf just got out of jail and we had rough sex, but since then I feel so nauseated and dont knw why.. Plz help.....

My girlfriend's past threesome never bothered me before but now it does

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

31 December 2012 (M) - I've been seeing this girl for about a year now. She told me about 6 months ago that she had been involved in a threesome. It'd happened about 15 years ago. It honestly didn't really bother me at all. I know girls experiment and everything and it ...

How can I bring my girlfriend to orgasm without intercourse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4332 days ago

31 December 2012 (M) - How should i give orgasm to my girl friend? we are in relationship but we didn't made sex. we just work on activities like handjob,fingering, kissing etc... i want to please her as much as i can. please help me.......

My ex said we can get back together if things don't work out with her current boyfriend, but I can't handle the thought of her giving her virginity to someone else.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

31 December 2012 (M) - The relationship with my ex-girlfriend is a long and complicated one so I’ll try to explain it as clearly and concise as possible. (The names used are not the real names of people involved) We first started dating during our sophomore year o...

Had an amazing date with my friend but now haven't heard from him for a week. Was he making excuses when he cancelled another date? We are both in relationships with other people.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

31 December 2012 (F) - Hi I have this friend L, we to talk to each other/hang out with friends etc. Nothing ever happened as he has a gf and I have a bf and he was moving to another country. However, we were both unhappy with our relationships and we do talk to each oth...

Any advice? My GF tells me on sms chat she want sex, but then won't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

31 December 2012 (M) - I am in relationship. i and my girl friend make romance frequently.. but not sex. she always tell me that she wanted to have sex on sms chat. but when we are together, she don't allow me to do so. we had given each other hand jobs. any advice?...

Short with small penis - what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

31 December 2012 (M) - I’m a 22 year old virgin male – cause I only want to date when I am financially stable. My problem is that I’m short (5'4) with a small penis (3 and a half inches erect). I look like a hobbit. Plus girls always say I’m cute and sweet, which ...

Did my boyfriend's fear of getting caught make him react differently during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - my boyfriend and i love each other very much, yet he doesn't have his own house, so usually we wait until his parents are out of his house then we go cuddle, have sex, talk and sometimes times cook and eat together while watching tv. his fathe...

My wife has not had vaginal orgasms with me and it makes me feel very bad.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4332 days ago

30 December 2012 (M) - I've been married for 3 years. This is my second marriage. I do love wife very deeply and she loves me. She has had many previous sex partners (around 25) and we met each other when she was 40. There is something I can not get over: She does not...

In love with my step mom's step sister but it's a secret. Curious what to do and say?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4330 days ago

30 December 2012 (M) - Ok the situation is I have a STEP mom who has a STEP sister and her and I believe that we love one another. Through the family we believe family. But, at the same time we are no blood relation what so ever. Is it right or is it wrong? I don't kn...

I'm 13 and feeling pressured by my own longings to have sex with my Bf. But I'm scared of getting pregnant. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - okay so im a teenage girl and i kind of feel pressured to have sex,not by anyone though, i have a certain longing for it.i want to wait till im married because im still a virgin but sex is so tempting to do. And i have the guy i want to do it with ...

My Coworker says he's a "relationship kind of guy" but I think he's rushing things. Does he want more a FWB than a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4332 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - I have got involved in a coworker. We have been sexting and sending each other pics... I was really against this but he eventually twisted my arm. Thing is, hes only just recently broken up with his gf and says he wasn't bothered about the breaku...

Seeking advice as considering getting an IUD. Can you explain any issues to consider? Side affects?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - I am a 22 year old female considering getting an IUD implanted. I have had one sex partner, and we are exclusive. I am wondering, if this things are so good...why does not everyone get one? I want to get one, but I am quite tight down there...

We're not looking to have sex but how can we make passionate moments more interesting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - me and my boyfriend, we have been good mates for years and have been going out for 2 months, we are in year 10, and love being passionate, we dont want to go into anything like sex or anything going in places... etc... but we do love a good snog and ...

Is he just playing games with me? He denies, to others, that he still likes me. He claims to think of me sexually, still.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - My ex and i had had the longest conversation recently, since we broke up. Word got around that he likes this other girl now. But he told me how he still has had sexual thoughts for me, not her, but me. I questioned why me instead of her. He told...

Is my female boss taking advantage? She wants me to provide her with sex. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4333 days ago

29 December 2012 (M) - it is with big pain and confusion I write this. I have never told this to any one. I have been away for a month for work and my boss (female, may be around 38-40) was also there. Though she was my boss, we were in good friendship. As the bed was...

How do I get this guy interested in me without him expecting sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - I have this guy I've liked for three years now. It's kind of pathetic I've admired him for this long and haven't had the guts to ever do anything until now, but let's say I've let him no I'm interested but not enough for him to no I REALLY like him ...

Married in 1975 and then in 2011 he cheated. He blames me for the break-up. Could we ever get back together?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4332 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - my husband and i met when we were 16 and 17 he was my only boyfriend. We married in 1975 and been married for 37 years. In June 2011 he did something unusual that he never did before it was only a phone call to me and said he had rang the wro...

What are the options to introduce more sensuality, more excitement and delight him more when we make love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - How can I make sex more exciting for my boyfriend? We havent been going out too long and have sex a handful of times.. For me it gets more amazing every time, he is a lot more experienced than I am, so he knows exactly what to do.. Genera...

LDR: Attention seeker? Hypochondriac? Or really sick? Cheated in the past. Am I wasting my time with her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3940 days ago

28 December 2012 (M) - I've been dating this girl for a while now. Today makes it 5 months. She's in a different country from me, so there's the first problem of distance. However, we try to overcome it. First of all, I found out she had sex with a friend of mine, ...

Is it only me who gets upset that some people cheat, and then want to keep that fact a secret from their partner?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4332 days ago

28 December 2012 (M) - Some Posters seem to be condoneing cheaters and ex promiscus people. Why do people think that its ok to lie to their husbands or wifes??? I just read where one agony aunt said "don't beat yourself up over it you just felt a connection so yo...

We've endured a rough time together. I still love her. Yes cheating occurred. Should I try to get back with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

28 December 2012 (M) - So, my story starts a year ago when i first met my ex with whom i just brokeup, i immediately fell in love and told her so on the next day, she also really liked me. everything was perfect and fun, and we really rushed sexually ( which was foolish....

How long should we wait before having sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

28 December 2012 (M) - It seems to be the biggest dilemma in dating today. With no hard-and-fast social rules, men and women are on their own to determine when is the best time to introduce a physical component to their budding love relationship. The good news is tha...

Sex! Is it that I have a sign on my head that every guy I'm interested in sees only that? How do I change that focus?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4337 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - There is this guy who I've liked for three years now. It's kind of pathetic I've admired him for this long and haven't had the guts to ever do anything until now, but let's say I've let him know I'm interested but not enough for him to know I R...

Why am I having sexual dreams about a guy that I don't like in that way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4338 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - Hello. I keep having these sex dreams about this guy I like. I like him a lot, but not in a sexual way. I don't understand why I keep having these dreams. They are making me somewhat uncomfortable. Are my dreams trying to tell me that I'm secretly...

Unfaithful in my marriage. Why did I do this? Can I keep this secret forever?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - I have been married for over 20 years and have always been faithful with the exception of one man, twice. I met him 15 years ago at the gym and I was immediately attracted to him but kept it to myself. After a while, we began to talk and before I kn...

Slept with him, but he became a jerk. Broke up. Later slept with his brother. If they know will they both hate me now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - I know I will be judged for this but I really need help please? I slept with a guy a year ago. After I slept with him, he was a jerk to me and left my life, until recently. However, I recently slept with his brother. Now my ex has just started tal...

I can't tell my family about our relationship. Is it wrong to date my cousin? Is it wrong to have sex with him??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - I have always like him(My cousin) he like me ... He is my boyfriend too but the problem is that i cant never show it in front of My family. Me and him want to tell our family but i dont now how to tell them ?? Is it wrong to date him? And is...

I want to have sex with this guy, but I'm scared he won't want to if he finds out I'm still a virgin. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - I'm 20 years old and have always been really insecure when it came to guys, so I had never dated anyone until four months ago. Then my attitude changed and I met a nice, sweet guy. I had my first real kiss with him, and I was really ready to explore ...

We meet up, have sex and then he doesn't call! Whats it all about?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - I am in a dilemma here. I met a guy in September at a party, both drunk. We kissed and talked. I bumped into him at a bar 2 weeks later and we just went straight home and jumped into bed. 3 weeks later we meet again at a party and home again. We ...

He needs to accept that NO is an answer. Surely, if he cared, he's stop asking for anal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - So I've been with my partner 2 years. He wanted to try anal since we got together but until a few months ago I said no. Well a few months ago I let him try and I hated it. Add to this I was in pain for 3 days. I thought to let him try twice mo...

We are both 18. He's a virgin. But his technique needs work. How do I teach him without offending him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - I'm a 18 y/o female, not a virgin. I've only had one sexual partner but he was a lot older and more experienced guy, so the sex was great! He taught me a lot... However I'm now going out with an 18 year old virgin, who hasn't done Anything sexual.....

He "remembers me how good the sex was"? Was that all I ever was to him? I'm so hurt by this.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - So it’s been 1 1/2 months since my ex and I broke up and I've slowly started to rebuild up my strength until he decided text me last night out of the blue . He was just asking what I was up to and if I like any boys. He mentioned how word got out...

My Bf is totally reluctant to have sex. At all. How do I approach a conversation with him about this so we can work it out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

27 December 2012 (M) - So my boyfriend is not interested in sex. I know it has nothing to do with me. This is just who he is. His previous relationships have had the same problem. One relationship ended because of it. I have no interest in breaking up with him as ...

Why is my wife's family and my wife keeping big secrets from me? Why is my wife saying she loves me when clearly saying otherwise to others? what are my options?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

27 December 2012 (M) - Hello, My wife and I live across a ocean! She is doing her post grad studies back home and I am working in Europe. Two months after I left for work and medical reasons (operation) my wife started seeing some guy. She had told her friends th...

He did this in the past, before we met. The image of this in my head is disturbing. How can I get over my disgust that he once had a threesome?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - My boyfriend recently admitted to me that he has had a threesome in the past. I questioned him some about it, and he had went into some detail and even said that at the end the both of them "sucked him off and shared his load." I felt comp...

I'm in love with two people and I don't know what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

27 December 2012 (M) - I've been having a sexual relationship with a close family friend for almost a year now. We treat eachother like cousins and have done for years. We spend every new year and birthday celebrations together. The thing is this family friend is a guy. ...

Questions about orgasms and squirting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

26 December 2012 (F) - Ladies.....I am new to g spot stimulation and am in need of help. I have a vibrator which has helped me to find my g spot since now I can find it with self exploration. I can squirt which I love the urge to pee feeling and then just letting mys...

Was it wrong to send a message, instead of seeing him or calling?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

26 December 2012 (F) - I feel terrible... I've known this guy for about four months, two of which we've been dating. He was really sweet to me, I'm still a virgin (and almost 21 y/o) and he was so nice and patient. We did some stuf, but he would never push me and made ...

Long distance relationship revolving around sex good or bad?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

26 December 2012 (F) - Hi, I have a man I met on this blogging website. Naturally people tend to meet kindrid spirits there. I met a man and we both wanted to meet so bad. So we did and hit it off hard. Now we are in a long distance relationship, from florida to idaho...

I'm too insecure about my body to get physically intimate with my boyfriend. Any suggestions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

26 December 2012 (F) - So, I'm really insecure about my body to the point where I mostly wear dark colours, slouchy materials in clothing etc. I have my moments when I wear form fitting pieces and I get a lot of compliments but I never take it seriously. Anyway, back on ...

My B/f doesn't last very long in bed

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

26 December 2012 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for about a month now and it doesn't last very long. We do some foreplay but almost as soon as he's inside me he has to cum. We've tried taking breaks, I usually don't give him oral before we have sex beca...

I am having panic attacks after having oral sex. Is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

26 December 2012 (F) - A night or so ago, my husband and I were getting ready for bed and started fooling around. This is normal, except we decided to try something new this time. Neither of us had participated in oral before so we figured it might be fun. Since then ...

Do I try anal sex or not?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

26 December 2012 (F) - My boyfriend wants to try anal sex with me but I just don't know about trying it. Do I let him have his way or what? and anyone that has tried it can you please explain it like what do you have to do and how does it feel? I only really care about th...

Early days dating her. But I think I've revealed too much about me too soon. How do I stop a slide into the 'friend zone?'

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

25 December 2012 (M) - I've been dating this woman for just over a month and I'm really into her for so many reasons. The problem is I have almost turned mushy or wussy by being too open about my emotions, my past, and what I like about her. I feel embarrassed ...

I'd like to meet a virgin woman but where and how can I do this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

25 December 2012 (M) - So after coming on this site off and on every few months for nearly 4 years now (mostly for affirmation that I wasn't the only soul in my predicament), I have finally decided to post about my situation and seek help. So anyway, my story is similar...

Would he really leave his baby's mother for me? Or is he just telling me what I want to hear?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

25 December 2012 (F) - I have been with this guy for seven years and during the process of five years we were facing problematic issues because he was cheating. It happened that he made love with this other gal and she became pregnant, I left this guy immediat...

What can I do? I love my wife. I miss her. It's no no no too often. It hurts.There is no romance or passion in our marriage

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

25 December 2012 (M) - To start with I know woman like to say stuff like "your wife just needs you to be more affectionate" on these types of forums when men say they have this problem. This isn’t one of those situations at all...let me explain. Me and my wife have been ...

FWB offends me. Is FWB just a cheap way to get easy sex instead of paying a sex worker? Does FWB stand for anything else other than sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

25 December 2012 (F) - FWB I don't really like this game because what if the other person start to have feelings? To me it seems to be basically about money. Where does one draw the line and say this is not what I want? I really think FWB is a trade off for free sex. I c...

Our marriage deteriorates day by day. Sex is almost non-existent. Problems beset us. What can you advise? Because we need help now.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

25 December 2012 (F) - I am having difficulty sleeping with my husband. We have been together for the past 6 years but our relationship seems to deteriorate by the day. In the beginning we couldn’t keep our hands off each other but these days the very thought of bein...