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writes:So, my story starts a year ago when i first met my ex with whom i just brokeup, i immediately fell in love and told her so on the next day, she also really liked me.everything was perfect and fun, and we really rushed sexually ( which was foolish..), until i made a mistake and chated with a girl who studies with me in college, i got carried away and we flirted for a while. some time later my gf discoverd about it and after some hard time she forgave me( but never forgot it)...and this is when all the problems started....weve endured so much together and both cried a lot...there were two more times she found out about...eventually i was able to convince her i changed, and i really did, until now we both took some breaks because we wer both confused with our feelings, mainly because of the past...i was more confused because she was really manipulating my feelings and played stupid mind games with me to get my attention, the funny fact i was giving her attention 24/7... on a recent break she cheated on me with some guy, four times in a row, she said it was only kissing, i tried to believe her but my imagination goes crazy about it...after some time i was trying to get pass it and forget about this, i just couldnt take it any more because she again started to say it wasnt her fault, that she was confused and tought her feelings switched for the other guy...yesterday i finally brokeup with her, and told her im just not the right guy and everything...istill love her, and i want to call her really bad and hug her, but i know that all the manipulation i sufferd will come back again, and its just immposible for me to give up on all the things weve passed together and i cant move on...the thing that made me even more mad is that she told me she doesnt see the thing she did as an afair and blames me for everything..should i maybe get her back together or let the time do its work?... because i still love her and cant see things being enjoyable without her.
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reader, AndrewDaFlipman +, writes (28 December 2012):
AndrewDaFlipman is verified as being by the original poster of the questionalso i must mention she kept telling me it wasnt ment to hurt me and she did ut only because she was confused...and i know this girl will do everything...i mean she even stayed garde because was helping me with something...and now its friday night and even going out with friends seems bad for me...
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reader, AndrewDaFlipman +, writes (28 December 2012):
AndrewDaFlipman is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank u both for your answers.
the fact is she begd me not to end this and couldnt stop crying about it, she said she want me to be her, and she wants this relationship...its me who brokeup with her and could not stand it, i just got ok with every thing, and felt good with her, and on the next day i found out about it...it just broke me. and may i think about what she did i get imidiate pain and it makes me feel she will continue cheating, thou im 2 days without her and all the stuff i brokeup of seems stupid and even the cheating looks like its no big deal...im very confused and desperate to call her..
its very hard to explain here through text because theres to much details..
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reader, Jake95  +, writes (28 December 2012):
Hello Andrew.
From the beginning, you told us that your girlfriend get angry when she discovered that you have been flirted with another girl. I've had to say this fact is important in a relationship, and maybe, that's the right moment when problems started.
Lately, as you can see, she did something similar with another guy. I really believe your girlfriend wanted to make you jealous, as you did in the past.
I have to tell you true love does more than just wait. If you feel this girl can be the person who will give you all, don't loose her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2012): it sounds like your relationship was very unhealthy and even though you love eachother sometimes its not enough, a relationship also needs honesty, trust, respect for one another and it sounds lk you had none of that, if you both were not happy then you did the right thing by breaking up because your both just hurting eachother and probably not ready for a commited relationship
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