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writes:How can I make sex more exciting for my boyfriend? We havent been going out too long and have sex a handful of times.. For me it gets more amazing every time, he is a lot more experienced than I am, so he knows exactly what to do..Generally I'll start of giving him a hand job, blow job, then we'll have sex.. But I feel for him during sex I just "lay there and take it" (which feels amazing for me but) he is doing most of the work.. How can I spice it up and make it more exciting for him?? I'm not saying he doesnt enjoy it, we both always climax... I just want to spice it up and surprise him.. What can I do? I don't think he'll be into tying up etc though I will ask him.. Its more what can I do to him that will feel awesome for him? Thanks for your help, Ace
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2012): The good thing about being a girl is that you don't have to try hard to make him feel good. There is nothing wrong with "lay there and take it".
Here is what comes to my mind:
Don't be too predictable. for example, HJ and BJ are good, but occasionally.
If you really feel good, let him know, either by words or by facial expressions or body language. It's a big achievement for a guy to make his female partner feel good, so let him know.
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (28 December 2012):
There are so many things you can do other than "lay there and take it".
Guys are VERY visual (maybe from porn), so being a little of an exhibitionist is a turn on. I don't want to get too graphic but show him what he's going to get/is getting.
Talk dirty to him. Make sure you stay within your comfort zone or you might sound silly.
Get on top, you can initiate this by turning him around and pushing him on the bed.
Initiate sex outside of the bedroom/house, maybe on the couch, in the hall, etc. Use your imagination.
You're inexperienced, so this is a good opportunity to grow with him. Be sure you don't freak him out by doing a whole bunch of wild things at once.
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