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Archived questions from: April, 2010 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

Experiences with meeting people online

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

30 April 2010 (?) - Hi, what do people think about meeting people online!? Has anyone ever done it? What was it like?...

Should I pursue this relationship with my online boyfriend or leave him be because of my earlier fears?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5349 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - hi... about 2 years ago, during the summer i met a really nice guy my age, 17 at the time online and we became fast friends.we both lived in the Caribbean but he lives on another island which is nt to far from mine.he was really sweet to me and as w...

Does he really care for me... or does he just want inside my pants?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5350 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - I met this guy through an online dating site, we emailed back and forth for about a nite and texed about a week, went out on the first date and was instantly attracted to each other. We are both busy with school around this time of the year so in ...

Did I take this the wrong way or was he really just tired?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - I have a lover who lives in another town but works long hours, when we dont see each other we do email each other every night,and this can go on all evening.Anyway we were meant to meet up this friday but couldn't because he had to cover someone ...

Is there anyway I can help my on-line friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5352 days ago

27 April 2010 (M) - Im having contact with this girl I met trough the internet for about 3 years or so now, first everything was ok and just for fun.. but I have fallen in love with her.. but that isnt the real problem, the thing is that she might have some mental ...

He's stressed, no contact..should I contact him or will it cause more stress for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - I ve tried the internet dating thing for a good two years now with a varying degree of success. Several weeks ago I started chatting to a guy and we got on really well. Over the Easter holidays we decided to meet up and had a great time. Since the...

His kinkiness is freaking me out a little!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - I met a man through a friend. We have not met yet. We have been trying to get to know oneanother though emails and text for several months. I am very attracted to him probably because opposites attract. i am on the conservative side with a little ...

Does he really like (have feelings for) me or am I just some form of "female companion"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5354 days ago

25 April 2010 (F) - This is going to be long, but I will try to keep it short. So I met this guy about two weeks ago through an internet dating site, we talked for about a week before finally meeting up. Our date went perfectly well, a lot of talking/getting ...

Very confused, am I over analyzing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

25 April 2010 (F) - Hello Sorry if this is long winded I "met" a nice guy online 6-7 weeks ago and we began online chatting, then texting(lots, quite flirty too), email and a few long phonecalls, seemed to get on well and have a laugh, so finally met up two weeks ago...

Do you think he's afraid to fall in love with me because of how he's been hurt in the past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

25 April 2010 (F) - Sorry this is so long!! Help meeee! I've been with this guy I met almost a year ago (we're in an online relationship), and when we met I really, really liked him. I crushed on him like a little kid.. always wanting to be around him and make him...

I cant get over his past! Why sleep with so many women when he is gay, not bi?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

25 April 2010 (M) - I'm a twenty-year-old gay guy. I'm a virgin and I've waited my entire life to find that one right person to share sex with - something so important to me. I understand that sex doesn't have to be something extremely important and that lots of people ...

My g/f considers himself infallable and the best a girl could hope for

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F) - Hi I am 25 year old working gal.. 2 years back :i have been a wonderfull gal.. smart.. intelligent, lively and confident..I have been chat freak and got into a relationship with one of my chat friends.. we met and i really fell in love with the gu...

Sneaking around on Adultfriendfinder, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - A while back and I got the Mail and I just open the credit card bills and I just found out that he was charging by adultfriendfinder and he was telling me that I cancel it . so yesterday, I just found out that he still on it. so I don't think he...

He talks to me on MSN, but ignores me in real life? What's up with this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - Hi. I need some advice with the guy I like, please?? A guy from college texts me and talks to me on msn every day. If we’re not on msn, he texts me and if he’s online he usually starts a conversation straight away. He remembers stuff about me, teas...

Ways to make my online dating add stand out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

23 April 2010 (M) - Hi, firstly the problem i have is i like a more mature women mentally that is, my idea of a night out is not to go to a club and get wasted (To me this is something i'd do with the lads, Not my gf, im not saying i wouldnt do it im just saying its ...

How do I get this girl to hang out with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

23 April 2010 (M) - There’s this girl I work with who I have a crush on (we’re both grad.-student/teachers). I never see her at school, but we talk on Facebook chat frequently--I usually initiate the conversation. At any rate, she seems receptive, and always has a ...

My online friend...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

22 April 2010 (F) - I met a man online four months ago. We have been communicating steadily. We are meeting in two weeks. After we exchanged pictures of each other and started getting to know one another the sparks were flying. I have not had sex in years as I am ...

I'm a virgin but seek to have an orgasm

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

21 April 2010 (F) - I am a 17 year old female and im still a virgin. I always masterbate with my boyfriend with phone sex but i cant seem to give myself an orgasim and make myself cum. I rub my clit and put 1 or 2 fingers in and it feels good but i really want to ...

Is she lying or being overly self-conscious?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5357 days ago

21 April 2010 (M) - Hello Although i recently asked a question, another issue from this arose. Basically, the girl i met online who says she loves me, and also who i text and speak to everyday. She commented on my facebook status, and my mates started to as well ...

Should I keep my account a secret from my family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

21 April 2010 (M) - Hi I asked a question about a week ago 'Am I Gay or Bi?' and gave read the answers and most if you said Im Gay so I was happy that the decision is made so I joined a Teen Chat Site for Gays and I'm happy chatting and stuff but I hate sneaking around ...

Why is my boyfriend going on dating websites?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

21 April 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, Ok, so I've found out since a week ago that my boyfriend has set up an adultfriendfinder account. We've been together for almost three years, and the thought of this ruining our relationship is heartbreaking.. But on the other hand, I ...

Is his 'busy at work' an excuse?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 April 2010 (F) - For 4 months I chatted to a man over the internet, things had been going really great. Then all of a sudden he stops emailing, texting and calling…completely. 2 weeks went by and I had had not seen him online at all which I thought was rather str...

I've started liking one of my old crushes again! I found him on Facebook!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (F) - Hi . I hope you can help . I have a boyfriend at the moment , and obviously i have dated quite a few guys since school , as i left 10 years ago , but i recently found one of my old school crushes on facebook , and i've started liking him again. He ...

Facebook romance-ish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (M) - There’s a girl (we’re both student teachers) who teaches down the hall from me. We chat online fairly frequently--I usually initiate it, but she’s receptive and sometimes does. She says she doesn’t want a boyfriend or anything. It does seem like a ...

My friend keeps dragging me around then leaving me for someone else

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

18 April 2010 (F) - Hi, A year or so ago my friend came out as bisexual. At first I was okay with it, but now its going over the top, she's 14 years old and talks to girls she doesnt know over the internet and arranges to meet up with them, she asks me to go...

He tells people we're married but we're not even going out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

18 April 2010 (F) - During the summer when i was 13 i was asked for my phone number by an older boy when while i was at the pool with mu best friend. i shocked myself because i gave him my phone number and i never did that before. When he called we both found out ...

Is it cool to text a date request?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5362 days ago

17 April 2010 (F) - I have a crush on this guy at work, he knows about it. I think he likes me too, but has never admitted it like I did. Well yesterday I texted him to see what he was up to, and got no reply. 30 minutes later I jokingly (but it was text- hard to tell, ...

I have a boyfriend, and I love another... just as equally, I assume?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

17 April 2010 (F) - Hello, I have been having an issue for about a month. I am in a Long Distance Relationship (LDR) and I really only do believe in LDR's more than I do in real-life-all-the time-dating. The situation: I have a lovely boyfriend in Denmark and...

The love of my life actually hates me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

17 April 2010 (M) - I was in a relationship with somebody for a year. Don't laugh, but it was only ever an online relationship. We talked on the phone, we talked every day on messengers, we had webcams, all of that stuff. Honestly, she was the first person I've ever ...

How can I approach this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

17 April 2010 (F) - Hello and thanks for reading my post.I'll try to keep it as short as I can.(wee!) I've been talking to this guy on a website,he always initiated the conversation.We sent messages back and forth,never talked on IM or phone.He's smart,with a goo...

Should I have an affair with this man or would my ex-boyfriend think badly of me if I did?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

16 April 2010 (F) - Well,my problem is somewhat weird. I broke up with my bf few months back. I thought i would never get over him but i guess i am over him though not completely. During this time,i met a guy online. I have known him for years. He asked me about my...

We have not met yet so would it be unreasonable to ask him to remove other girls from his facebook?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

15 April 2010 (F) - a guy i've been talking to thru internet and texting for a month says he loves me and wants to meet me so we r meeting in a few wks. i know he is who he sez he is cos met him thru a friend. on hif facebook. he has 500 friends. i'd say he knew bout ...

Is she faking her attraction?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5365 days ago

14 April 2010 (M) - Im trying to figure out what to do here. I have known this girl for just over 3 years now. We met online originally but have built quite a friendship and have been together in person many times now. I have fallen for her. Before meeting her in ...

Is my boyfriend on a dating site?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

14 April 2010 (F) - I recently found an Adultfriendfinder.com email in my boyfriends yahoo account. I have not asked him about it yet but the user name is his initials and some numbers. It looks like he's had it for a while. The only thing he put on the site was the ...

My boyfriend went nuts after I checked up on him using a fake facebook account. We have split over it, but I want him back!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

14 April 2010 (F) - I have dated this guy for 2 years, and all of a sudden he just changed. He flirts too much on facebook, it was more like i didn't exist at all. Ok, i know i did a bad thing when i created a fake facebook account about a month ago, and jeez, he said ...

I confessed I had sent fake pics to my online boyfriend, ..now he wants to see the real me but I am scared he wont like what he see's.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3344 days ago

14 April 2010 (F) - I've been in a long distance relationship for 9 months. We're recently broken up, and I showed my boyfriend fake pictures, and only JUST showed him my actual self a few days ago. I was terrified to tell him, but he actually took it MUCH better than ...

He stopped contact, suddenly..did I offend him..did he get bored with me? Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

13 April 2010 (F) - Hi I started chatting to a man over the internet about 3 months ago, now all of a sudden he has stop communicating with me. We usually have some form of contact at least every day or every second day either by phone,text or email. But its bee...

Should I continue to try and see him even though he has said he is very happy with his girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5367 days ago

12 April 2010 (F) - I met this guy from germany through an internet and now he's here in the same country as mine.However, he will only stay here for like 12 months for a community service. Months after, he arrived in my country and we've been texting each oth...

Suspect husband is cyber-cheating

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5367 days ago

11 April 2010 (F) - ok here goes i suspect my husband of 15 years is involved with another woman the best part i know her and she is a cousin of his the better part is she lives very far away so physiacl contact is out of the question unless vacations are arranged with ...

I don't trust her reassurances

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5368 days ago

11 April 2010 (M) - OK so my gf is a tour guide. The problem is that she meets a lot of guys that she keeps in contact with through msn etc. It's making me feel very jealous. Just tonight she was chatting to one guy from Egypt and he was starting to get very suggest...

Cyber Cheating

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5369 days ago

11 April 2010 (F) - I need help !!! :( i need advice on how to get over pain caused by your boyfriend and or husband. back in december my boyfriend cyber cheated on me , he was doing shit on cam with other chicks and i cant seem to get over it. we talked it out and all ...

Why would he bring up E-dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 April 2010 (?) - Hey So i met this guy online and we spoke to each other for the longest time and we liked the way each of us looked. But, at the end of the conversation, he brings up the whole thing of E-dating !!! what is that supposed to mean ? He's really go...

Does he really love me or does he have another woman back in his country?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 April 2010 (F) - hello! i have a boyfriend i meet him in internet he visited me twice last year(2009),when he get back back from canada he left me his loptop and i found out he was chatted a lot of girls from febuary(when he get back from his first vacation...

Should I tell my online friend I have developed feelings for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

9 April 2010 (F) - hi, i would really appreciate any advice you can give me as i'm stuck on what to do. i recently met a guy online, i didnt expect anything to happen as i live in ireland and he lives in scotland. for some reason we just clicked in every aspect, we ...

I don't want to lose my husband, but I don't want to hurt the 'online guy' by telling him I am actually married either.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5367 days ago

9 April 2010 (F) - i'm 23 years old and married for 2 years now, recently me and my husband has been addicted to this online game, we haven't really have time for each other anymore, we don't go out like we used to. Well, I met this guy from an online game, he was ...

LDR making me sad how do I make it a healthy relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 April 2010 (F) - I've been in this long distance association for 1 long year now. We met through internet but we're incredibly connected. We like each other a lot and we care for each other. I first fell in love with him and asked him out, But he turned me not. It'...

I think I'm holding on to something I should let go of

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 April 2010 (M) - OK so this is the final question I have about my ongoing relationship... She won't stop using the dating website and reckons she wants to meet people from all over the world to chat to them. I think it's wrong to be using a dating website if she's...

It seems like he's keeping his options opened!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

8 April 2010 (F) - Hi I have been dating a guy for about 4 wonderful months. we saw each other every other week because he lives 3 hours drive from me and he has custody of his 2 children every other week. He was the one to tell his family and kids even his ex abou...

Caught my husband on a swinging site and don't know what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

8 April 2010 (F) - Last month I discovered on my partners computer whilst he was at work that he had joined a swinging site upset and confussed i decided to join myself to view his profile once i found him I became heartbroken as his relationship status was single and ...

Wondering where this online relationship could go.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

8 April 2010 (M) - Heyy In december last year when i was on windows messenger, this girl randomly started a conversation with me. I had no idea who she was or anything, but we started to speak. Although it was just online, we got on really well. She was 15 and I was...