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writes:hi...about 2 years ago, during the summer i met a really nice guy my age, 17 at the time online and we became fast friends.we both lived in the Caribbean but he lives on another island which is nt to far from mine.he was really sweet to me and as we exchange pics and talk more he fell madly inlove with me (n i mean madly!!).i began to also fall for him mainly because of the overwhelming affection he gave me.anyways the following christmas i began to have feelins for my old crush, who had always had a crush on me and decided to break off my online relationship. at the time i felt that i had no rite to allow him to move from where he lived all his life with his fam to eventually live with me(we spoke bout the future), a girl he has never met in person, in a strange island.so i broke it off by not talkin to him for months and finally we both exchange emails that broke it off.he was really hurt by this break up and i knew that. i regret what i did for when i pursued my crush i realized that he was still inloved with his ex that cheated on him and so decided to leave him be.during the following months i was very sad and regret what i did to my online friend and decided the only way to get over was to get a bf.so during the summer i met a seemingly nice guy however after 5 months he cheated on me and i broke it off..(good thing i didnt lose my virginity to him like he wanted me to:P)and so heartbroken again i vowed to stay away from guys until i finish university.but then my online friend( who i haven;t spoken to online for a whole year!!) worked up the courage to say hi. i was overjoyed and happy when he said hi and we began to talk and catch up like old times....he too found a gf who cheated on him and they broke up so you can say we both are back to square one...he has forgiven me and hopes that we can get back together... but it has been 2 months since that surprise talk ( mainly cuz of school) and i dont know if i should pursue this relationship or just let him be cuz of my earlier fear of him leaving his fam for me......what do you guys think?....i would really appreciate the advice :)
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reader, princessofGod43  +, writes (30 April 2010):
 If you like this guy...this is your second or third or fourth it sounds chance...don't sound immature by going around and around again...if you like him and he wants to move...it's his decision ....so let him make that difficult decision...and you be supportive girlfriend or future wife...stop messing around with destiny as they say...crap or get off the pot...but don't keep messing with this guys life if his life you don't want in yours
God bless!
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