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anonymous
writes:I have dated this guy for 2 years, and all of a sudden he just changed. He flirts too much on facebook, it was more like i didn't exist at all. Ok, i know i did a bad thing when i created a fake facebook account about a month ago, and jeez, he said all sorts of things in just a matter of two days. Said stuff like he had broken up with his other gals like way back and is single and would like to go on a date with the gal i had faked. When he eventualy found out it was only me he had been talking to, he got all nuts and said he wantd us to break up. We did break up, i then asked him back cuz i was stil in luv wth him so he said yes. Still, evrythng went cold, i had no other option but to let go. Just last week, we met at some party, and he forced me to be with him all night. It was a lot more like we were back, spent the whole night with him and i left the following morning. The next thing i hear is that he jst doesnt want me anymore, he says he stil loves me but we are just friends. I've tried in evry way possible to make things work, i stil love him so much despite everythng and i realy want to be with him, but all he says is "there's no other girl in my life, i stil luv u but i think we just have to be friends." he turns it all into a laughing matter when i call to talk to him about it. Its more like he's happy to see me cry ova him. realy this hurts but i just dont know what to do next, its realy hard to get over him and i thnk i'm losin myself already....Somebody please help..
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAaw! U guys are awesome. You really are helpin me a lot...Just when i thought i was losing everythng, u'v made me realise theres more to life...Thank u so so so much, ur realy helpin...
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reader, Polaroid93  +, writes (14 April 2010):
He shouldn't flirtyou shouldn't spyyou need to drag yourself out from under his thumb
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (14 April 2010):
 Don't be his puppet on a string , where he will tear your heart to shreds and after he has done it,he will discard you anyway.
Have more self worth and self esteem. He is not the right material for you .
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reader, rambini +, writes (14 April 2010):
 i guess making a fake account and tricking him wasnt the nicest thing to do, however i dont blame you and it certainly gives him no right to turn the tables and get angry at you!! he is clearly a lying cheating scumbag, and you deserve better. it will be hard, but you need to retain your self respect, and being with a guy who treats you like shit is not going to do that. walk away and it time you will feel better. the only man worth crying over is the one who will never make you cry, good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2010): get the hell out.
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