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Is it cool to text a date request?

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Question - (17 April 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 18 April 2010)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have a crush on this guy at work, he knows about it. I think he likes me too, but has never admitted it like I did. Well yesterday I texted him to see what he was up to, and got no reply. 30 minutes later I jokingly (but it was text- hard to tell, right?) text him again and say relax I'm not asking you out! Just wondering what you're up to. Lightning quick response from him says he is at mall. I leave it at that and go meet up w/other friends.

This morning at 0h dark-thirty in the morning he texts me to see if I want to go to the movies with him on Friday, May 30!!??!

I always hoped he would ask me out, but I feel weird it's a text request, not to mention it's 6 weeks away! And to top it off, I see him ALL The time! He could've asked me in person.

Some info on our relationship, we've known each other for 6 months, we are becoming great friends But have nothing in common Tho we look forward to spending time together, he is a flirt and prankster, but when someone tried to start some crap at work with me, he had my back. I think that's when I knew he felt a little more than friendly for me. he hugs me is very affectionate with me. I haven't replied to his text, because I don't know if he is serious or joking around.

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A female reader, Aunty BimBim Australia +, writes (18 April 2010):

Aunty BimBim agony auntmaybe its a special movie he wants to take you to, maybe he has other committments until the end of may, maybe he has a girlfriend he needs to get rid of first

just text him back and ask if he would like to get together for a coffee or something before then

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