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writes:a guy i've been talking to thru internet and texting for a month says he loves me and wants to meet me so we r meeting in a few wks. i know he is who he sez he is cos met him thru a friend. on hif facebook. he has 500 friends. i'd say he knew bout 50 of them and the other 450 are pretty girls. i dnt know whether he talks to them or not but i aske dhim why he kept adding them and he sed cos they sed add me so he added them. he sed he will do anything for me to meet him. do u think i'd be unreasonable to ask him to delete the people he dont know?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you 4 answers i've text him and told him to leave me alone. he sed they just random girl i added i sed i dnt care and now i've got a new number and hes blocked on facebook. xxxxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2010): it's unreasonable to ask anyone to delete anyone apart from your boyfriend x
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (15 April 2010):
 Everyone else is right - you are just another one of the 450 girls and my bet is he is trying to meet all of them too, telling them that he loves them etc. This guy is clearly a bit of a player who loves women, and wants to try and have as many on the go at the same time as he can.
There are plenty of guys out there that are like this, and believe me they are not worth your time. All these things he is saying to you, he is most definitely saying to these other girls too.
Dont believe a word that comes out of his (cyber) mouth, he is just feeding you lines so that you will fall for him and he can use you like he uses the other girls. Ditch him, and fast! You can do better!
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for ALL the answers. i'm gonna ask him tongiht how many of the people he knows on his facebook and if he says like 70 i'll say delete the others u dont know cos on my facebook i dont have people i dont know on it and if he dont then i will know he was using me and i'll delete and block him. x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (15 April 2010):
No. Firstly, they could just be friends. You can't pick and choose your partner's friends. Secondly, no disrespect, but if the other 450 are all girls, chances are you are one of many and he's just trying to use you like he is the others. I think you can do better.
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reader, jaime90  +, writes (15 April 2010):
 you are another one of those 450 girls. you haven't even met so yes you are another one of those randoms on his list.
sigh, he does not love you. how can you love someone you have not met? and known for a month? sorry not true.
and yes it would be unreasonable you are already trying to control they guy and you don't even know him.
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reader, terrifenby +, writes (15 April 2010):
 What you have to think about is how many people does he say the exact same thing too! My ex could be the guy you are talking about. He has laods of stunning lasses on his facebook, chats them all up arranges to meet up with them tells them all the things they want to hear. My advice to you would be stay well clear. You would probaly end up as just another notch on his bedpost! Your a young girl and whether you met him through a friends fb or not, meeting up with this guy is a bad idea. Sounds to me like i said you are just another one of the girls that he is chatting up! You want to talk more just message me. I really hope you listen to this advice. Dont what to see another girl getting hurt by the facebook flirts!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (15 April 2010):
 It would be unreasonable to ask him to delete those girls .The order to delete must come from himself.
It would be better to just leave them alone at this stage. If you ask him to do that, it would show that you are a jealous and controlling freak.
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