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writes:Hello, I have been having an issue for about a month. I am in a Long Distance Relationship (LDR) and I really only do believe in LDR's more than I do in real-life-all-the time-dating. The situation:I have a lovely boyfriend in Denmark and he's very nice, sweet, true, and does everything I say. He's atheist, four years older,and he respects everything. He's open and loving.The thing is, he spends a lot of time working and or in school, and that's all he does. He's working really hard to get over here to visit me for the first time. We've been in a relationship for over a year, now.And... I have a new love interest. He's not closer. Perhaps further. He's an Indonesian man. He's 7 years older, and he's Muslim. He's really nice, and wants me to be his English teacher. I had no idea I would start to build feelings for him until a few weeks after we started talking to each other. I wish I could tell him how I feel without feeling totally guilty since I do have a boyfriend, and I don't know about the Muslim religion, so if he were to say he likes me too, would I have to leave my boyfriend?That's also something I am scared of. The Danish man is my first real relationship that I haven't had any troubles with. I don't want to hurt his feelings...I need help on what to do, please help! I am so scared, in love, and lost.Please help.
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reader, petina1  +, writes (13 November 2010):
 Have you actually met these two in real life or is it via internet? Reading between the lines you are on dodgy ground when you are in LDR with men from far away. You dont' know the Indonesian man only what he tells you. He could be making you promises that are'nt real. I think you should think very carefully and be safe about what you are doing. Run this by a close friend and see what they say about it.
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reader, Clover.Wildgust +, writes (13 November 2010):
Well you seem to care about your boyfriend alot and he's working hard too see you but your new love will care about you so you just have to hide your emotions and just act like your just friends and when your boyfriend comes you can talk about it and show him that you would never leave him.
Clover. Wildgust xxx
Good Luck
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