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Archived questions from: October, 2009 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

Should I ignore him or ask him about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - There is this guy I have had a crush on for two semesters now, he is really outgoing, he knows a lot of women and flirts a lot too. I can not even got back into the Art Building without him "flirting" with me. So I was walking on the opposite sid...

Why has she gone cold on me suddenly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

31 October 2009 (M) - I met a girl online and we talked for two days and REALLY hit it off, like the best i have initially ever gotten along with a girl we chatted things up and thursday morning i texted her same continued but i had school and she had work so i finished ...

What do you class as cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - OK, I wanted the aunts views on this.... What would you class as cheating?.... naughty phonecalls, texts, emails, pictures, thinking about someone else, a kiss, or full sexual contact?... My reason for asking is that I checked my bf's emails o...

Should I give it a try?

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28 October 2009 (F) - Basically i met a guy (guy A)via the internet nearly 5 months ago it was great he would give me attention and it wsnt fantasy. i recognised his good and bad bits... but it was a bad time espeically for me and i ended up leaving him or trying to push ...

Can online romance be real?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - Hi everybody. I just want to ask you guys question. Do you guys believe in online love? I met this guy who have same birthday,same satuition about pass relationship and almost everything are same.We chat on the internet for couple times. Yesterday ...

Should I persue this girl and our internet "relationship"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5534 days ago

28 October 2009 (M) - me and this girl I know have been in a sort of internet relationship for about 2 or 3 years. Well actually we were in one for about 5 months and then we lost contact. So I guess you can say it was over. This was in 2006-2007. Forward to may 2008 and ...

What gift can I get my online boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - I have an online boyfriend, the only problem is I want to get him something for his birthday, and he's isn't comfortable giving me his adress. Any ideas for what I can get him? ...

How do I break up with my "back-up" boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5534 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - I wanted to break up with him because there was so much I didn't know about him - we met on the internet and you know, people don't really like posting personal information about themselves. So yeah, I got prepared and got a "back-up" boyfriend just ...

Is there a way I can tell him about my weight gain?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - A guy added me on myspace began talking to me. We have been talking for about a month and have similar interests, good conversation, and he is very interested in me. He wants to meet me, but there is one catch. All of my myspace pictures...

Any ideas on what to do here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

26 October 2009 (M) - During my high school years, I had a crush on a classmate. However, I was never able to bring myself to reveal those feelings to her. It was enough for me at that time that we were on friendly terms and that she didn't treat me as a loser like most ...

Should I look for the guest house or end the relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

26 October 2009 (M) - am a young guy of 22, i met this girl on the net. i asked her to send her picture to me and she refused. as time goes on, we see each other face to face.she's not the type i want because i need a reasonable and responsible girl. when we are ...

Why won't he respond?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - my first question is so me and this guy have been talking for awhile on facebook and texting and at school he always sayings hi to me and he smiles but when i asked him to hang out he stops talking but when i said happy birthday he replied but h...

I'm thinking of joining a dating site to get some practice in as I'm not that great with girls!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

23 October 2009 (M) - hi everyone, im a 25 year old final year dental student in the uk. i play a lot of rugby and go to the gym regulary, about 4 to 5 times a week. ive never realy had a girlfriend and im not that great with girls. so my thoughts are if im bad at ...

My disabled boyfriend is using the internet to have an emotional affair. I feel worthless!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - my parnter and I have been together 6 years, I am 25 he is 29. we live together, about 5 months ago he asked me if it was ok if he used the internet to make some friends, I said this was ok, because he is disabled and it makes it hard for him to ...

I flashed him online and now I'm worried he'll put it on Youtube...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - Hi.I have something worry about last night. I had met with that guy on the internet. We chat at online last night. Its our first time chatting. We was chatting about 3 hours and we have little conversation about sex. And I've show him my upper body ...

Is he just leading me on? Why doesn't he call me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - I have a childhood friend (guy) whom I lost contact for so many years. We weren't close though but we used to sat together in primary school. Somehow around April this year we were re united again through Facebook. He lives in United States ...

Does online dating always have to go south?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

21 October 2009 (M) - I dont know what to ask here. I am alone in my life, and everytime I meet a new woman, I always become possessed with thoughts. Like its all I think about and it drives me mad. I think its because Im a lonely person, but I cant help that. I me...

Should I be alarmed by this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - ok me and my boyfriend have been together for awhile even though we live in separate countries..recently he hit my cousin up on facebook sayin..i love ya pics keep lookin good love... he didnt kno she was my cousin... so when i confronted him he ...

Why does he tell me he still has feelings for me when he goes on online dating sites?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - I dated this guy for a year, but we broke up when I found out he had a girlfriend back home (he is not originally from my town). We remain friends, although there is still very much an attraction b/w us. I have been just been taking it ea...

How do I stop this silly jealousy in my LDR?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - Please help me. Thanks, don't know where else to turn :( This is in relevance to my last post... I met this guy on the net about just over a year ago, we built up a good friendship etc on the net and on the phone, and then met in reality ho...

Shouldn't a husband and wife feel free to discuss everything?

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17 October 2009 (F) - i had an affair like 3 years back i had a break up with him bcoz he was too passasive abt me and never use to trust me....bt now it is a year i am married to some one else...i met this person online actually after my breakup i was veryupset so i did ...

I'm afraid she's upset and I don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (M) - Hey all, This isn't really my kind of thing, but I found this site on Google, and it looked like the kind of site that I'd get a good answer from, so here's my question/problem. I've met this woman on the internet who's older than me, and it wa...

Did I do the appropriate thing by telling the truth?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 October 2009 (M) - Hey Agony Aunts! Well, I have this serious problem. I am involved with two girls, but they don't know that I am with both of them. One of the girls is more secretive and has hide a lot of things from me(even though she was a very nice girl), while ...

Turns out I'm not the submissive sex bitch he thought I was. Now he wants to end things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

16 October 2009 (F) - I need some advice please. I have been in contact with a guy over the internet since January of this year. We have been sharing pics etc and msn. The last month he suggested that we go on Skype. We have exposed ourselves over Skype as he has a major ...

I'm nervous about the intentions of this guy from Myspace!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

16 October 2009 (F) - dear cupid, i need your help. so this guy requested me on myspace and i never add people unless i know them. he knew me from high school and also knows my brother so i added him. i started to put sad statuses on my myspace(because of my boyfrien...

Online guy that lives in another state is not ready for a girlfriend....did I scare him off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

16 October 2009 (F) - so i was talking to a guy (my best friends childhood friend from another state) i had never seen him, he lived far away (7 hours) we talked for 5 months, we'd talk on the phone for HOURS at a time...but he'd call every other week to once a week, ...

Why doesn't my long distance boyfriend want to make me his world?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. We met on myspace and he lives in Oregon. I live in California. We are 16 years old and almost 17. We met over summer and really connected the days he was here. Before meeting each other we ...

Is my online, long distance guy for real? He's spent a fortune already!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - I dated this guy (andrew-not real name) 4 yrs ago but remained friends because I had a bf that time and lost contact with, I broke up with my bf (now ex) late last year after suffering a very unstable relationship with him. Now, andrew and I has a ...

Was I taken for a ride by a younger woman I met online? I'm heartbroken..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

15 October 2009 (M) - I am a male approaching mid 30s and I met this young woman (early 20s) on an asian e-dating site about 5 months ago. We were just chatting and talking on/off until about 2 months ago, and that's when I started having some sexual relation with ...

Is this LDR for real or will it pass?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5547 days ago

14 October 2009 (F) - So basiclly i'm 14 and hes 19 and hes my bf hes a dj and stuff quite rich has his own house 5 bedrooms big garden pool ect..Hes living in another country atm and i'll be seeing him soo i've spoken 2 his aunt , uncle one of his brothers and their a ...

I feel like he is using my lies as a way out of our relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - So i met this guy online. and he and I have talked for over a year now. we got to the point where I loved him and he loved me, and we never hid that. we'd say "i love you" quite often. Im from the states and he from Canada. Im 20 and he's 33. the ...

I feel like I am competing for attention with her online guy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

13 October 2009 (M) - I recently posted pertaining to my ex girlfriend who I have been hanging out once again after a 5 year hiatus. Here is a piece of it: "She communicates online daily with a guy she used to be CRAZY about back in college 6 years ago. I mean CRAZ...

Did I misread her signals?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 October 2009 (M) - Well where to begin.I am 19 i will be 20 shortly and ic never had a gf..nor have i ever been on a date or even had my first kiss yet.i dont know if im what you would call picky but it's just when i feel a connection with someone is when i like them ...

Shouldn't she inspire me to get my driver's license?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 October 2009 (M) - I really fell for this girl I met online. We dont live too close by, but its not that far either. About 30-40 minute drive. We have been talking for months and we planned on getting together a few months back, but things didnt work out. Then we ...

How do I go about asking him out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5552 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - Hi, i hope you can help with this situation.My Grandma joined a theatre group recently, she isn't a part of the group now though.When i saw one of the plays she was in, i started to like this guy in the play. We have kept intouch on Facebook. He has ...

How would I go about telling my parents about my LDR?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

9 October 2009 (M) - Hey, it's me again. This is a Long Distance Relationship Question. Just to give a little background information, I live in the US and she lives in Canada (579 mile[932 km] separation). We are both 16 years old. We met on a teen dating site 6 months ...

Do all these excuses mean he's not into me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5553 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - ive been dating my guy for 8 months now, we are in a long distance relationship, for the first few months everything was great he was so passionate, it was Hot and heavy, now all of it has slowed down. he says that he is just stressed out, and ...

Getting over an online affair...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

8 October 2009 (F) - I'm a 27 years old muslim woman, and I was married at age 17 (it was an arranged marriage as I didn't know my husband at all). my marriage has been more bad than good, and due to the 10 year age gap between me and my husband, we have never really ...

Met on the net should we date

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

8 October 2009 (M) - Hey, I just came across this site and I thought I just put my question out there. Oh and this is a Long Distance Relationship Question. I live in the US and she lives in Canada (555 mile[996 km] separation) I'm going to tell the story and then a...

Should I move on or email him? It's an online, LDR.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - I have been talking to a 45 year old man (I'm 23) over the internet for about 5 months now. He lives about 13 hours away from me and I plan on moving to the state he lives in, in about 3 months (for college). Hes not married (is divorced). So we ...

Does he really care for me? Or are my friends right about him being a 'player'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - Over the past few years I’ve developed strong feelings for a friend of mine. We originally met over the internet, but we’ve met up a few times since, sometimes I go to see him, and sometimes he comes to see me. Every time we meet up, we act like ...

How can I get my netfriend to be in love with me rather than just lusting after me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - Hey everyone, Im 24yrs old and met this great guy on the net.We had started off with cybersex ,but our chemistry was so bang-on.Its fireworks each time still.Moreover he's so romantic.he leaves me the most amazing messages each morning telling ...

Is it ok to sleep with a woman I hardly know?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

6 October 2009 (M) - I meet a woman 2 months ago, through the Internet.We talk over the phone just about everyday. The problem is she wants to spend the night with me.The problem is that I am scared of her showing up un-announced, Is it ok to sleep with a woman I hardly...

Should I just end it and focus on my career, or will I be giving up a nice guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

5 October 2009 (M) - So I did something I thought I'd never do. I've met someone on an online gay dating site, I never thought I would but I did. I spoke to him online for a good month and a bit before i got the confidence to actually meet him, as ive never really don...

How do I reconnect with this girl and motivate her to talk to me online more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

4 October 2009 (M) - I met this girl online and we have been talking for a while now. It was really great, we connected so well and I always loved talking to her. Ever since she started her job she has been working a lot and doesnt really go online that much. We have ...

My online guy of a month wants to marry me! Is it really meant to be?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - OMG..I have a problem I'm so confused idk what to do..so here I go!! Ok I met this guy through the internet and we have been talking for a while now close to a month but we talk on the phone and txt and send pictures of eachother but you see he ...

Will I even satisfy her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

3 October 2009 (M) - Hi um... this isn't very standard for me. I mean, I've watched tutorials and what not, but nothing happens to me in real life. Not physically anyway. And I'm not one to ask these kinds of questions mainly because I've never gone through most of the ...

We have been dating but I found him back online asking to meet up with other women!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) - Ok here goes Typical story, one of which I have not been in before and kinda need advice I met a guy around 3 months ago from a site. Chatted for a good while and then met up. Got on great and he asked to see me again. Had another date. Dat...

Is he in love with me or a pedophile?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) - He is always talking to me at least more than 20 comments a day. He's a couple years older than me though. I know this isn't safe, but I met him online. Well anyways, each time we have a conversation, he'll be talking about how he wants to see me in ...