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anonymous
writes:I met this girl online and we have been talking for a while now. It was really great, we connected so well and I always loved talking to her. Ever since she started her job she has been working a lot and doesnt really go online that much. We have been talking on the phone and its been alright. I just dont really talk as well as I wrtie so its easier for me to talk online. Now the only way we talk is on the phone. I try to send her messages and things online, but she never replies. I just miss how we used to talk online. I feel like we are drifting apart and I dont know what to do. Its hard for me to talk about it on the phone, but I dont want to send her a message to talk about it cause I dont even know if she will get online. How do I reconnect with this girl and motivate her to talk to me online more? I just miss how we used to be and the affection she used to give me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2009): You sounds so similar to me. I met a girl online for years. We chat everyday for hours. Seeing each other through webcam, how she excited she is with her new clothes etc.
Things changed, now she online less and even if we do meet online, she rarely talk to me.
She no longer call that often and started not to pick up mine. Reading all the questions here, I started to give up on distance and online relationship. It works but for how long?
I understand how you feel. Like Miss Comm. said, if she cares about you, she will make time for you.
I went through hell and I hope you can consider to lift yourself from her. If it is turns out bad, you won't get hurt that much.
Best of luck.
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reader, Miss. communication  +, writes (5 October 2009):
 dear anon,
i read your question and i feel so sorry for you. personally i think that you should com clean about being more comfortable typing to her, but make a balance of phone calls and internet time so she can have it the way she likes it to. if this girl likes you as a friend or something more, she will understand and make the time to go online and talk to you. good luck
signed
Miss. Communication
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