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writes:So basiclly i'm 14 and hes 19 and hes my bf hes a dj and stuff quite rich has his own house 5 bedrooms big garden pool ect..Hes living in another country atm and i'll be seeing him soo i've spoken 2 his aunt , uncle one of his brothers and their a really nice family and everything so that isn't the problem i've told my mum but she proberly thinks it's just someone who will pass (by the way i tell my mum everything me and her are really close she'll never lie to me and always support me).We've been speaking for a while and only dating recently but we both feel the same way about each other so thats no problem either so like recently hes saying he really wants to be with me and everyone says to him when he mentions me that im "The one" and stuff hes really popular and everything and i don't really like to be around loads of people where as he enjoys it as for his job is a Dj so he has to like to be surrounded by people right?.So he has a picture of me on his phone aswell and when people see and ask who i am he goes "My girl" which is no problem because any guy would proberly do the exact same thing also, When hes at work or out someone mentioned me (because , a few of his friends knew about me already) and he tells me they all ask about me and wanna see pictures then are amazed ( i aint being vein just saying what is said and everything so you all get a better understanding so please don't judge on anything) and then i was speaking to his brother which is my age who seemed interested me in the same way as his brother (my bf) about me so thats kinda awkward but i've just got over that because he accepts that i'm with his older brother and his happy but then it's his friends making comments and that makes it more worse i don't want him to lose friends over me.Then we was speaking a few days ago and he was bringing up marriage (And hold up before you all start judging) i was suprised as well so we was speaking then he said when i come over to visit him in 2 years or something that i should move in with him and marry him and like i would just like to hear everyones point of view on this because , none of you know me so why lie? Please don't be horrible because of my age and thanks for any comments or anything i'm sure everything would be a help good or bad.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2009): When I was about 14, i met a guy online just like this, in fact i met a few and i fell for them so hard (im currently 19). In the end it was all a haux. For me it was a 26 year old guy who I fell for. After throwing my life away for an online guy for 2 years almost my eyes were open. Also, now that I'm 19, i realize how impossible it is to make alot of money no matter what kind of job you have at that age... I'm not saying to distrust everyone you meet on the internet b/c my boyfriend now, who i live with, I met on the internet. he lived 2 states away from me. Just don't believe bullshit like that, be extremely weary. For one, if he isnt prepared to come to you, then its fake. (my current bf drove all the way to see me a few days after Christmas last year)
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