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*dpet23
writes:I meet a woman 2 months ago, through the Internet.We talk over the phone just about everyday. The problem isshe wants to spend the night with me.The problem is that I am scared of her showing up un-announced, Is it ok to sleep with a woman I hardly know? Should I even let her know where I live. The man in me wants to do her but another part is cautious. Is she a nympho I should avoid sleeping with? Please help
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reader, Edpet23 +, writes (15 October 2009):
Edpet23 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you very much!! I did see her, if I would have not meet yher I would have lost out on a fantastic person. Everythintg is running smoothly, we are planning to take a cruise to the Bahamas when we each get our vacations. We are going "Dutch". She pays her own. Once again thank you very much!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2009): If you've spent as much time on the phone as you say, I would expect you to feel a little more comfortable about the whole thing that you sound right now.
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (6 October 2009):
 It is simple,
'If in doubt...DON'T'
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2009): She could be a bunny boiler... ever seen that film? I guess it would be more appropriate to meet on neutral territory and learn to like each other before you just get straight to the sex. It would be safer and more'normal', whatever that is...
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reader, hijacked_dignity +, writes (6 October 2009):
 You just have to assess the situation. There is some risk in allowing someone you don't really know into your house, especially when it comes to the internet. For men it's more of a threat of thievery and what not. Have you actually met this woman yet? How do you know she's what she says she is? You've also got the threat of STD's and other issues when it comes to having sex with someone you juts don't know. You're going to use a condom, right? What about unwanted pregnancy?
Sure it's an ideal for a quick lay or whatever, but there are also consequences that could occur, more so than someone you just meet through day to day contact. If you are already feeling uneasy about the situation, I would suggest not doing it. Just go with your gut and not your...well, you know. There are other ways of getting a fix, and if you are really not feeling this one, then I would pass.
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