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Archived questions from: November, 2012 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

What are my chances? I thought it was mutual love from the start. But is she having doubts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

30 November 2012 (M) - I met this girl a few months ago love at first site on both sides. She is still married and has a kid with this Guy. He lives in another state so I'm not worries but they saw each other a few weeks ago at their daughter's birthday party a...

I'm pretty sure he cheated on me but he wont admit it, what do I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - I am married 24 years, and recently found out that my husband cheated on me, but he won't admit it. I have been going through treatments because I have cancer and he started a new job. Because of the chemo I was very sick and not thinking clearly so ...

My husband seems to prefer watching porn over having sex with me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - My husband and I got married within a year of knowing each other and we have only been married for 6 months. Since I've had our daughter he seems to prefer watching porn to having sex. we only have sex if i basically tell him to have sex with me. a ...

I feel that I am not the best lover for my wife

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

28 November 2012 (M) - First of all, I give my excuses for my English. I am from Argentina. I got married 3 years ago when I was 44 and my wife was 42. We met each other one year before our marriage. The thing is that I am extremely jealous of her sexual past. She insis...

My husband cheated, the marriage is over but I'm afraid to end it

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4394 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - Dear cupid My husband had cheated on me in the past a few times i for gave him and we have tried to put it behind us. His affairs went on all though our marriage until he got caught,(20 yrs) no doubt he would still be cheating if he had not been...

What am I dealing with? His drinking problem or something else?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - please help, my husband of 14 years has had a drink problem for years which has got worse over the past 3 years [he has been drinking 3/4 of a liter bottle of vodka a night and gets "out of it" does stupid things like texting/messaging girls/wo...

My wife told me she would leave me if I didn't stop seeing my friend.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

26 November 2012 (M) - Back in May of this year my wife and I had new neighbors move in after being introduced to each other we came to find out he was from England and I grew up in Ireland we instantly hit it off seeing as we both had so much in common as far as sports ...

She says she hates me and that I have no empathy! What do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 November 2012 (M) - i never thought id be doing this but here i am. Im in a 2nd marrage and have been for 10 years. No bio children but 5 between us, mine are 25 to 30. my wife recently told me she's had enough, hates me, and i dont give anything back while she give...

Does she want to come back to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 November 2012 (M) - My wife suddenly walked out on me 4 years ago without notice. She had her reasons and I was relieved after a year without her anger and her insanity after feeling incredibly hurt by her.My daughters think she's nuts and lived with me until 1 married ...

My husband has a drinking problem, and I'm unhappy in my marriage.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 November 2012 (F) - I am mostly unhappy in my marriage. I am 27 in a 10 year relationship with 3 kids. My husband has a drinking a problem which he recognizes. He tries to improve and he does, but when he falls back it is horrible. He is a controlling manipulator. ...

It happened ten years ago -But I'm still unsure.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

24 November 2012 (M) - My wife had some relationship issues about ten years ago that caused us to split and she moved out. Her move was sudden, and a surprise while I was at work. We didn't talk for about six weeks, during this time she was living with another man. After ...

My wife says there is no love for me and she has fallen for some man online

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

24 November 2012 (M) - i have a problem. my wife and i have been together for several years now and we have always had our ups and downs. we have both done things in our time together to hurt each other and we both dont like it. the problem now is that we drifted apart ...

How do I get over my married lover who is also the father of my daughter? I've tried, but it's so difficult.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 November 2012 (F) - MY daughter's father and i broke up 9 months ago. I'm still not over him. We have a 15 month old daughter together, he is married and is having another baby. I know you might think what do i want with him? It's not that i want him its more so i c...

She says there is no love for me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 November 2012 (M) - so where to begin. my wife and i have been together for 5 years married 10 years together. we have 2 children together. we have struggled for years. it all started we had our first child when we were young she was 18 and blames me for taking aw...

I'm in a unhappy marriage, and I've fallen for a man I met online.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

23 November 2012 (F) - Hi. I am in a mess of a situation. I am a married woman of five years and I have 2 children. I'm 26 years old. I have been with my husband for 10 years total. He was my first and only boyfriend and my first and only for everything. Since the ...

My husband is terrible with money and blames me! I've tried talking to him but it doesn't work, what can I do next?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

20 November 2012 (F) - My husband makes bad decisions when it comes to money. He will buy any thing from any body. We have a business in the city but he insisted on moving 1 1/2 hour away from work. We spent months driving to houses and land. Some of the were 2 hrs a...

Why can't I see my husband's computer screen? Why is everything a secret?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

19 November 2012 (F) - My husband and I had to live apart last year after he lost his job. He admits to having girlfriends while he was away. Now he is always reading twitter on his Ipad, and when I asked if could see what he was laughing about, he went ballistic. He ...

How can I make him commit to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

18 November 2012 (F) - I am emotionally drained. I love someone who I have a child with. We have a 27year old on and off love affair. He always says his life is to complicated to commite to anyone. But continues to want to spend time with me. I'm not fulfill with ...

I flirt with my wife's slutty friends. Could this be a reason for her going cold on me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

17 November 2012 (M) - My wife has friends who are slutty and easy but when we go out I tend to flirt with them and carry on like i'm interested, but really I only like the thought and sometimes the occasional petting. I dont want my wife to freak if I'm ever caught in a...

Is he gambling? Having an affair? Something's wrong and I know he's been lying to me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

16 November 2012 (F) - I think I'm at my wits' end with my husband. We've had issues for a few years now (he was emotionally abusive towards my children and I), and went to counseling for it. He was told to get on meds for his temper. He did. However, that was back in...

My husband talked about me to his female friends and now I don't trust him and feel disrespected

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

16 November 2012 (F) - Need advise please, I'm a very happy person with 3 kids until one of my husband female friends decided to email my husband on an email we both get acsess to badmouthing me "his wife" trying to tell him I'm crazy jelous...., I confronted him about ...

Would it be alright to invite a platonic lady friend to my office party?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

16 November 2012 (M) - I am in the final stages of ending my 31 year marriage to the love of my life. While the marriage is over the friendship is not but I am trying to find a way to afford for me to not live in the same house as her for reasons not relavant to this que...

Help me leave my wife

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

15 November 2012 (M) - I am not happy in my marriage. My wife is my best friend, but there is no real desire or passion. In addition, she is an alcoholic. We've struggled with these issues for a long time and I have reached the end of my rope. My problem is that I...

My husband is the jerk not me, so he should have to move out, not me..right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

15 November 2012 (F) - My husband recently had a small stroke. Before this and after, he had been acting weird; staying out all the time. spending money (even though there wasn't money in the checking account), lying all the time, moody and depressed, never wanting to go ...

My husband flipped out because I wore a male co-worker's jacket! Is he making it too big of a deal?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

14 November 2012 (F) - Hi everyone. Pretty quick question: Is it okay to wear a male coworker's jacket if you are married? My husband found out that my coworker let's me wear his jacket at work and totally flipped out. I don't see the harm in it. Let me know what you th...

Problems with our sex life, does he need help or is it me with the problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

14 November 2012 (F) - hi, i have been married now 12 years, with the same guy for 15 years. our sex life is very difficult, i have a higher sex drive than his, and am never sure if he really wants sexs, he does but its very quick and very one sided, a few kisses, a blow ...

Caught my husband watching porn, what should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

14 November 2012 (F) - dear all, i feel devastated after i caught my husband watching porn and masturbating. we just came back from a vacation in italy and had a blast! im 27 and even though i hav 2 kids i have a good thin body . i. wat happened is that i woke up and w...

We had an incredible week long affair and now 3 months later nothing! What happened?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

14 November 2012 (F) - It's the usual affair story....I've been married for 19 years to a good man, hard worker, who would do anything for me. The problem is, he is extremely negative, has no friends, is suicidal at times, is a drinker and his family is rotten. I have ...

I don't know if I want to leave the stability of my marriage for this guy, but I don't trust my husband either!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

13 November 2012 (F) - Here's my story. I am married, have been for almost 2 years. We have a 2 year old together. I found out I was pregnant only month after I met my now husband. While I was 6 months pregnant I found out my husband was cheating. I took him back and he ...

Having feelings for my ex- do I tell I tell my husband?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

13 November 2012 (F) - I am currently married to a great man with whom I have three children and I also have an older daughter from my first marriage. My older daughter sees her father a lot, and as such, I often see my ex-husband when he comes to pick her up and drop her...

I left my wife for a woman half my age. Now I hear crap like she will leave me one day, how do I stop it and what do I do if she does leave?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

13 November 2012 (M) - let me start out by saying that i usually dont need advice but im truly upset. i am 49 cheated on my wife with a girl half my age, left my wife for her, got a divorce, got engaged, and now im going to be a father for the first time, to my own child. ...

Should I leave my frigid husband of 20 years?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

13 November 2012 (F) - I need advice on whether to end my marriage of 20 years. I have 2 kids, age 11 and 14. I am a Stay at Home Mom. My husband does not initiate sex, has no interest in sex but keeps me around. Probably to do the housework and childcare. Strange ...

It seems all we do is argue

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

12 November 2012 (F) - I am 28 years old married for two years with a 15 month old son. My husband and I have been arguing a lot. To me it seems like he isn't happy but when I say anything he says its me, that I'm always miserable and start fights with him. I see things ...

Long-term marriage but sex has faded ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4422 days ago

12 November 2012 (M) - Me and my wife have been married for 40 years, we're in our 60' but haven't had sex in over 1 year. Is there any advice on how to spice it up?...

Should I stay with a violent husband for the sake of the children?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

12 November 2012 (F) - My husband has violent outbursts about 3 -4 times a year. Something small will usually set him off, but everyone in the family knows to run for cover. I have three children (8,11,13) who have witnessed him exploding in a rage. The last time it ...

How to get my wife in a thong

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4333 days ago

12 November 2012 (M) - Trying to get my wife to wear anything even a little sexy to bed. Nothing elaborate- would be thrilled for 5 min in a thong or anything beside cotton boring briefs. Been married 15 years- she is beautiful. Don't feel like this should be asking...

I would like to hear from other adult children of bitterly divorced parents

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

11 November 2012 (F) - My parents got divorced when I was 10. I feel like I'm only now (10+ years later) just getting over it and all the intentional hurt my mom caused me afterwards because of her hate for my dad and my likeness to him. Did anyone else have parents who...

My wife has been cheating on me for 3 years. How do I get her to want me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

10 November 2012 (M) - Where do I start? I've been married for 12 years but been with her for for 18. We have 3 boys who I wake up for every morning to make all the money I can so they have everything. My wife doesn't work, I was raised thinking u should support the ...

My wife is in her mid 40's, she doesn't want sex and says her body has changed and menopause is kicking in. Should I buy that crap?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

9 November 2012 (M) - I have a little problem, my wife is a hard working woman and does alot for our household but for the past few months she has been dead in the bed if you know what I mean. I have tried many things to bring our sex life back into action but shes ...

While my wife and I were seperated she slept with someone else, how do I let this go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

7 November 2012 (M) - I'm having a hard time getting rid of the past. My wife and I split for almost two month quite a few years ago. During this time she had a fling with another man. This man was a disgusting excuse for a man. He's a drunk and almost 15 years older ...

How can we get our sex back on track so we're both climaxing?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

7 November 2012 (F) - I'm a bit sexually frustrated. My husband doesn't last a long time in bed these days. When we used to have sex more frequently, it was rarely an occurrence, but now, he might last a minute or two, not enough time for me to climax. He's not into the ...

I want to go back to the feelings I had for my husband when we first got married

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

6 November 2012 (F) - Hi, just need some little advice or help. I dont understand my self. Im 40 years old and my husband is far older than me. i love him dearly i have no doubt wid that. but after nearly 10 years of marriage, things change. he is always loud and ...

My parents don't get on. It makes me mad at myself. Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 November 2012 (F) - Hy. Since i was born, i never saw my parents together. They quarrel everyday, first thing that i hear every morning when i wake up is their noise. My mum is not at a good position right now. She is always complaining about my dad (when he is not ...

How is it even possible? My husband lost his erection just like that and never got it back!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

4 November 2012 (F) - I really feel very curious,if Im alone with my problem,or there are others out there suffering like me. So long story short, Im very attractive , and I live in a marriage, but I have no sex, or affection at all at the last 6 years. Its unbeliev...

Marrige problems..sex and dating sites..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

4 November 2012 (F) - I need help i do not knw what to do..i caught my husband on dating sites talking to other women i do not knw for how long..and he has lied about it....i do not knw if he has met them .i dont know what to do could this have happend cuz we stopped ...

Husband made weird comment about 2 co-workers who have cheated. They are going on a business trip together. Should I worry?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

3 November 2012 (F) - I need some advice on why my husband with say some things he said before leaving for a busines trip. He has a job that requires him to travel from time to time. He woke up this morning and was reading some work emails and he said he hated the idea...

Does my wife want me back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4431 days ago

3 November 2012 (M) - I was married to my wife for over 20 years. She walked out on me 4 years ago.We haven't divorced and we have 2 college daughters. After she walked out we didn't talk for over 2 years.I started forcing divorce on her, she's been a liar and a cheater ...

My husband would prefer I not take medicine for my anxiety. I stop and we suffer in our marriage!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

3 November 2012 (F) - Firstly, I understand nobody's perfect. Within each and every one of us lies a chemical imbalance of some sort. Mine is Generalized Anxiety Disorder. This is caused by my Attention deficit Disorder. ( ADHD) I recently learned this from my Psychiat...

I love my husband but he shows me no affection

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4431 days ago

3 November 2012 (F) - i have been married for 4 yrs now i love my husband but he doesnt touch or hug me or kiss me or sleep with me we have slept in seperate beds for over 1 yr i love him he is a wonderful guy i feel he gives me everything but what i really ...

My wife has violent outbursts. Should I get out of the relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4431 days ago

2 November 2012 (M) - My wife and I have been married 5 years and have been trying to make it work for 4. She has put me in some tough positions, I have brought them up and feel no closure on them after the arguments that followed. During my bachelor party I didn't w...