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Archived questions from: June, 2012 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

He left his wife for me but misses his children

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I fell in love with a married man. We are right for each other. He left his wife and children and moved in with me, but told his wife it was a trial separationn and she has no clue what he has been doing. Now a few months in, he has become depre...

Do I leave the man I love and return to a life I hate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I need some help with a choice i have to make. I have no idea what to do so please help me. I had a boyfriend for a year and a half. Lets call him X. We were really close. I moved in with him and his family because i was having trouble at home....

I never get a break from him bitching at me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I don't even know where to begin. I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 years in December. We have a 6 month old together and are living together. I'm constantly trying to make him happy. He's VERY OCD, so I try my best to keep the house clean, ...

I have been having an emotional affair

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

30 June 2012 (M) - Mine is related to an emotional affair. I am married andI work 4 hours from home. I have an apartment i maintain 4 days a week. There is a woam I work with, and I am her boss. I am deeply attracted to her. We have gone to lunch, have gone out for ...

I got a friend to test him and now he has shut me out!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4523 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - i feel really bad, my on off partner of 18 years and i were in the process of what i thought trying to work things out. he has always been there for me until i messed up, i played a silly trick on him and now its kind of back fired and he refuses to ...

What to do about my husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - I am 30, 31 next week. I have this problem with my husband. Saturday night is date night. We went out to eat and then to a movie. He does not do this the rest of the week, but on date night, he is picky about what I wear. When we got to...

My husband had an affair while he was working in a different country. Should I stay or leave?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4515 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - we've been married for 17 years with 2 kids, we are happy family, but one day i just found out that my husbandhad an affair to the other while he was working in a different country. He lied to me he said he never had anothet girl while he was away ...

How do I save my marriage after all this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - I have been with my husband for 2 years.We have only been married for 5 months. We have seperated about 4 times for about two weeks each time during our two years together.This last time we seperated I honestly thought it was the end I even asked ...

We soon will be going to therapy but I am concerned he will never 'get me'.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - Been married 6 years. I am 30 and husband is 31. My emotional needs are not being met. I blamed myself of these feelings due to growing up in a dysfunctional and emotionally unavailable family, and not experience in relationship. During t...

My separated husband is ill, do I still proceed with divorce proceedings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - I've been physically separated from H for 8 months now,10 months in total including in-house separation. Been married for 14 years, I'm currently living with my 2 sons.The separation resulted from H's emotional infidelity, 4 emotional affairs I know ...

I love my wife so much that I worry too much!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4529 days ago

28 June 2012 (M) - I'm married for just about 5 years and I feel like I'm over protective over my wife,and insecure. Like when she needs to go work out of town once or twice a week,we always have arguments because I don't approve her going so far. The dangers and risk ...

A question for any woman who has caught her husband cheating

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - after a long day of sketchy and questionable behavior from my husband he *finally* came home *late*. ive been having this uneasy feeling lately that theres foul play going on but aside from all the red flags, this is what i came here to ask. SO, my ...

Guilty of leaving my wife and son for my mistress! What should I do?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 2587 days ago

27 June 2012 (M) - This is a tough one. I been separated from my wife of 10 years for 9 months now. We have a loving 2 year old boy. The reason for the separation is because I fell in love with my mistress. I been living with her now and we now have a relationship ...

After five years we just don't talk about 'us' anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

27 June 2012 (M) - Hello. This may become a bit longer post, I am sorry for this. Help is needed because I'm 26, and I must start to figure out what I'm gonna do with my personal life If I am to do anything at all. Excuse my bad english. Five years ago I had a cl...

Problems! Hubby leaves me so confused. Not affectionate :( What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - I love coming here. I've been getting great advice. :o) So I'm back again. My hubby and I (ok mostly me) seem to be having on going issues. I really need someone to help me understand because my hubby can't (or won't). Let me say that my h...

Why would he go away so far, with a woman 24 years younger? And leave his devoted loving wife?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - so i know this is out there a lot but my husband left me for a younger girl 24 years younger. they are living together oh and she has a 2 year old. Anyway just wanted to know if anyone could shed light on why he would leave a good wife that woul...

Still searching for answers....why is my wife like this now we have moved to Australia?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

26 June 2012 (M) - I have never met this kind of person in my life. Neither have any of my friends and family. In China, my wife wasn't as abusive as she has become here. A brief history of me: I left Australia to be with her for two years over there and we wen...

I cheated on my husband with his brother. How do I fix things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - my husband and i separated while we were split up i had an affair with his brother. I understand wat i did was wrong. I wanna fix things with my husband, but he keeps telling me he doesnt know, and he has another girlfriend. How do i get him back ...

My husband belittles me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - Ok so I think my husband is belittleing me but I also think he just gets mad ezly as well...I'm not 100% sure but heres an example So my husbands mother wanted to have a small bbq with her fam (my fam now) over our house..so we did n I invited ...

How do I help my bipolar husband realize he loves and misses me and his family?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - My husband is bipolar and has left his family including me (his wife) 3 children from me and 2 from his first marriage. He has taken off to another province to go to a friends. He says he is not coming back and he can't be with me anymore. He has a ...

I found these email and now I can't shake the feeling that I should no longer trust him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

25 June 2012 (F) - my husband and i have a wonderful relationship but the one thing that bothers me is that i have found certain emails where hes told one woman that she was hot and another one where he states that hes horny too and cant open up the website and what ...

My head is going in circles, is my wife cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4515 days ago

25 June 2012 (M) - hi im 54 and my wife is to , this is killing me we have sex once a week now and for some reason she wont let me suck on her nipples like i use to never real got that rough where it leave scab on the base of her breast where the nipple start to ...

My husband left me because he thinks I cheated, but I found texts from a man to my husband saying 'I love you' and suspicious receipts for restaurants.....what is going on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

25 June 2012 (F) - My marine husband of 4 years who by the way was abusive verbally and accused me of cheating when he got back from Iraq. was always paranoid. He said we had orders back home where i grew up. 1 day after closing he said he got orders changed to go to ...

He 'doesn't know what to do,' now that his wife does not want a Divorce. What should I do about my Bf''s response to his wife's edict?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

24 June 2012 (F) - My boyfriend's ex wife has said she still loves him and doesn't want a divorce. We have been together for 18 months and are very much in love but now he said he 'doesn't know what to do.' He was married for 30 years and still feels guilty about hi...

Could my partner be having an affair or even be gay????

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

24 June 2012 (F) - Hi, i'm 31 and my partner of 12 years is 30 and quite frankly we just dont have a normal sex life anymore. Currently we havent had sex in probably over 4 months (maybe longer!!) and i'm starting to think he maybe having an affair. His line of ...

I still love my wife even though I've slept on the couch for the last 5 years. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

24 June 2012 (M) - dear cupid.I have a marige problem, and don,t know what two do.I have been married 2 my wife for all most 12yrs and it was good for the first five, or untill after her mother died, my wife is frim russia but met her here. are age,s are different I ...

Will my ex go back to his ex wife? Can marriages work after such a long separation?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

22 June 2012 (F) - I wrote before about my boyfriend being reluctant to divorce his wife that hes been seperate from for two and a half years. He was involved with me for the last ten months and she was involved and living with a guy for the whole duration of the ...

My husband has come out of prison after 4 years and is now angry all the time!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

21 June 2012 (F) - my husband just got out of prison.he was in for four years. i was happy hes home but its like hes very angry and demanding now .he yells at me and tells me awful things that keep me up at night. he has not hit me idont think he will but i am ...

My husband always brings his daughter into our conversations, what should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

21 June 2012 (F) - I love my husband and my step-daughter. The problem I'm having is that when me and my husband get into adult conversations, he always feels the need to bring his daughter into the conversation to get her opinion, mainly when he is trying to prove ...

My wife has been spending time with a younger man for years despite my protests, so should I start something with the younger woman interested in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

21 June 2012 (M) - Hi thanks for your time, my wife of 30 years enjoys the company of a younger man she says nothing is going on. I halfway believe it but the pattern of disrepect is really getting to me. I tell her I don't want her going out with him and she laughs ...

No sex or affection from my husband, but he doesn't want a divorce either! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

21 June 2012 (F) - My husband is not affectionate with me, or want any sex with me. He is totally cold with me. But does not want to divorce. He says he loves me,and he has no idea what happened to him. This is the 7 th year like that. Started suddenly, and never ...

I masturbate and then don't want sex with my wife

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

20 June 2012 (M) - I don't seem to be sexually attracted to my wife very much. I'm not not sure if its a labido thing or what. I do masturbate to porn though when she's not around but as soon as she's back and wants sex I'm not interested. I do love her and want her ...

My wife's ex-sister in law is flirting with me, how do I find out if she wants to take this to the next level? Or should I remain faithful despite not getting any sex from my wife?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

20 June 2012 (M) - Dear Cupid I only have been married for 5 years now (I got married when I was 50) I figured I only wanted to get married once in my life. I wanted to grow old with someone I loved. When I was younger I was wild child. I had a diffrent g...

Can money keep a cheating marriage together?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

20 June 2012 (F) - When there's cheating in a marriage what can hold it together? If man is cheating but there's fancy cars, house and baby will that keep family happy? ...

He's told me he's open to a relationship down the road, but there is the problem that he's married. Input is needed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

19 June 2012 (F) - I met this guy through a sort of "friend of a friend" thing and initially didn't give him much of a second thought, as he was married with kids and almost 10 years older than I am (I'm 20, he's 29). We talked on and off for a few months, but it was ...

Should I make him happy and leave?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

18 June 2012 (F) - hello again, need help. my hubby is to friendly w/girls on facebook he has them sending him pics and flirting plus hes friends w/ ALL his ex`s. he tells me that me and the kids are 1 of the reasons why he wants to start drinking. i ask him fif he ...

My wife drags her mother along with us on vacation.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

18 June 2012 (M) - I am a 39 year old male. My wife of 20 years is 41. My problem is that my wife invites my mother-in-law along on almost every trip or vacation. Sometimes she is unable to go (thank the heavens for that!) but I'd like it if it could just be the two ...

Tired of waiting for love to return

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

18 June 2012 (F) - husband left me for a 24 year old with a 3 year old. they are now living together and are engaged. our divorce is not final, and i found out he has not payed my attourney yet. they seem to be getting along pretty good. but everyone tells me it wont ...

He's separated from his wife. But now he's shutting me out. Should I give him space?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

17 June 2012 (F) - My friend and his wife recently seperated, and now hes without a job, and might be relocating to Texas. I think he starts to feel depressed and shuts me out, I try to be inspirational and give him kind words but he doesnt really respond , as if he ...

Should I tell my wife that I cheated on her once?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

17 June 2012 (M) - I need advice on an age old question. To tell or not to tell. I cheated on my wife one time. After 1 year of marriage. I felt horrible and vowed to never do it again. Promised myself I'd make up for it by being an amazing husband. And I have been....

My husband of one year shows me no love or affection is it time to leave?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

16 June 2012 (F) - my husband have been married for almost a year, our anniversary is in 2 months, and i think we are on the verge of a divorce. He shows me no love or affection, but only tells me he loves me when i bring it up. i cant even remember the last time he ...

I saw my husband groping and touching his younger friend! Is my husband gay?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

16 June 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid My hubby and I have been married for 30 years and together for 34 years. He likes to drink but not everyday. Just on weekends. Last Friday night when him and his friend who is young enough to be our son came home they were both dru...

Husband masturbates to porn so much that he can't have sex with me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

16 June 2012 (F) - my husband prefers watching porn to watching me.he doesnt bath with me anymore and spends the whole day downloading porn videos and the whole night watching and masturbating.he cant keep his erection anymore and each time after sex(thats when he ...

My partner and I are trying for a baby, but he hasn't stopped using steroids. How can I confront him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

16 June 2012 (F) - Please help.my partner and i have been trying for a baby and recently been told he has a low sperm count due to the amount of steroids he use to take. He promised me that he is staying off them do we can have ivf. I know i shouldn't have but i've ...

My wife seems to be in love with her female best friend. Am I right to be jealous?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

16 June 2012 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 18 years, together for 22 and have two kids. For the last half year my wife has been spending more and more time with one particular girlfriend (who is married with 2 kids and 15 years younger). They see each ...

I got drunk and acted out of line with our friend. How do I talk to my husband about this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

16 June 2012 (F) - I (age 26) and my husband are married for last five years. We had a calm peaceful and joyous life. Though there were some disagreements. But recently there are some disturbances popping-up in our way. Our sex life is good. A close friend of my husba...

I've told white lies and now my wife doesn't trust me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

15 June 2012 (M) - My wife does not trust me and I do tell white lies sometimes , I have never cheated on her I tell her that I love her and she just says o thanks!! I used to watch some porn and now just get emails for freinds with some pictures of woman, She found ...

Its hard for me to get in the mood when I don't see my husband that often

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

15 June 2012 (F) - My husband is a workaholic. I don't mind, because I am a competitive equestrian and I have my own life. In the rare times when we see each other all he wants to do is have sex, but I have a hard time getting arroused, because I haven't been around ...

Is my self esteem low because I am pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

15 June 2012 (F) - dear cupid, im married for about a year now with the most loving and caring husband.. Now im pregnant. Recently, my husband and i just moved in our new house. I am sometimes bored in our house. So i thought to open my husbands old laptop.. There i ...

How can I make him see that there is a difference between an accident and an intentional reaction?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 3666 days ago

14 June 2012 (F) - I accidently kicked my husband in the groin (he was standing behind me) as I was explaining to my older son that it was unacceptable to constantly thump my younger son. My husband suddenly ran and lunged at me with his thick MBT shoes on and kick...