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Archived questions from: February, 2007 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

My husband cheated and we spent 18 months building bridges, but then I find her number in his wallet!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6495 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - I am so lost. My husband of nearly 20yrs had an affair for almost a year. He ended it when I found out and we have been building bridges for the past 18 months. Obviously the trust is very shakey thus the reason why I sometimes check his wallet. ...

She's married... should I tell her how I feel?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6498 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - hi i have this woman i my life and i really like her more than friends.the trouble is she is married should i tell her how i feel.any advice would be good....

How can I get him back or at least get the feelings going again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - how do i get him back or at least get the feelings going again if we only see each other when we drop our daughter off to each other and his girlfriend is always with:?...

Do you think a woman would be happy in a relationship that would never lead to marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Do you think a woman will be happy in a relationship that will never lead to marriage? What's the pros and cons if a couple lives as a common-law vs. as a marriage couple? (kids are out of the question)...

My husband only wants to debate and talk about politics and world issues! It's driving me crazy! Ahhhh!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 6206 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Hello. I'm having a bit of a problem with my marriage. My husband doesn't stop debating and doesn't want to talk about anything other than current events. It's in his nature to debate everything - his father is the exact same way - that's just ...

I shared my fantasies w/ her to spice up our sex life, and she won't tell me her's! How do I get her to be more open?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6507 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - I have been married for a couple of years now and before our wedding me and my wife were seeing each other for a few years more. Our sex life has been good over the years, but i would like to spice it up a bit. I have heard that one way to get clos...

My husbands persisting affair! It's kept a secret but what can I do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - I have decided to divorce my husband after his second affair in 5 years ( we have been together for fifteen). It is very difficult for me because we moved to a different country with our children and I have no family of my own or close friends. ...

I love my wife but she is ALWAYS telling me how to drive from the passenger seat!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6496 days ago

26 February 2007 (M) - I have 1 of 100s of other problems with my wife, for which i need some urgent help. On this specific problem, I would explain as below- when i am driving, she continuously gives instructions, like where to park, how to park, (as a matter of fact, i ...

I lost my husband in December and don't know whether to get involved with an old flame? What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - In December, my husband whom I love very much, passed away suddenly and unexpectedly... We lived in another state, and I've since relocated back to my home town, where I'm staying with my parents for a couple more weeks before I move into my new h...

We got divorced, but I want him back, How can I make it work ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6508 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - me and my ex-husband we got divorced on the phone after a two years spent apart, never seen him once, seperate countries... we come from different religions and that caused another problem, we got divorced 5 month ago after i found out about some ...

My husband has a horrible temper. I've told him we need to work on it and he doesn't take it seriously. I'm attacted to someone else now! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

25 February 2007 (F) - I've been married for just over a year. My husband has a very bad temper to the point where all he does is yell when something bothers him. I tell him he has to calm down, but he doesn't. He never wants to talk things through rationally. He just ...

We live with his mother and she's driving me craaaaaazy!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6509 days ago

25 February 2007 (F) - Ok my husband and i have lived in his mothers house for about 7 months and i have hated it sence we have moved in here. his mother is ocd and she is really getting on my nerves she is always telling me to tell her and anyone what i think about ...

What do you do when your husband does not see the bigger picture?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6509 days ago

24 February 2007 (F) - whre do i go from here , im with my husband 13 years and since having twins 16 months ago life has become hard work ,im not complaining but i miss 1on 1 with my husband talking and just holding each other he thinks im just nagging .. i am only 27 ...

I really like this man but I need support just now more than a man. How can I go there and NOT look attractive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6509 days ago

24 February 2007 (F) - I have been separated from my husband for a year and we are filing for divorce this month. It was terrible, traumatic, both of us did terrible things to each other and I have had post traumatic stress problems for this whole year. So much so, in ...

Me, my husband and his mother! 3's a crowd, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

24 February 2007 (F) - M e and my husband have not really had a sex life sence we had our baby but more and more i am realizing it is becuase be live with his mother and step father i hate it her it is driving me crazy...... but every time i even atempt to talk to my ...

We have been together 10 years and have children together but he won't marry me and I'm so upset about it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6509 days ago

24 February 2007 (F) - We have been together nearly 10 years, have had our ups and downs, a few kids but he refuses to get married. He knows it means a lot to me. I don't even want a big do. Just him and me, to commit to each other. The years have just flown by, ...

Where can my husband and I go for a weekend away from the kids? we need time alone if you know what i mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6510 days ago

24 February 2007 (F) - Where can my husband and I go for a weekend away from the kids? we need time alone if you know what i mean?...

My husband is texting a woman constantly, is he cheating on me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

24 February 2007 (F) - if my husband puts some womans phone number on his phone under a false name and delets all txts he sends and recieves but only from her, and clears his call register twice in as many days is he cheating? several times i have asked him if he is seein...

Is it normal still to have feelings for your first love, even when you're married?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6511 days ago

24 February 2007 (F) - I am 26 years old and have been married for 3 years. I love my husband very much and never want to be without him, but I am feeling very guilty and confused. I recently ran into my high school boyfriend/first love and found myself thinking about ...

What should I do to reassure her that I like being married and have no intention of being unfaithful?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6503 days ago

23 February 2007 (F) - Please help. I am a gay male happily married for 4 years to a wonderful lady. She has always had insecurity issues, thinks I don't love her enough, etc. I have never cheated on her since we've been married, but now she gives me a hard time ...

I feel worthless, useless, unattractive and resentful, what can I do to change all this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6507 days ago

23 February 2007 (F) - married 23 years, husband had an affair a few years ago, I cannot get over it, he never wants sex, I cannot initiate it, I am angry and lonely all the time. Each time I say it's over he uses all sorts of tricks to make me stay, money, children...

I view what he did as deceit and the trust is broken. How can we get back on track?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6511 days ago

23 February 2007 (F) - Advice please from anyone who can help, I have just discovered that my hubby of nearly 30 years has been viewing porn behind my back, now that's probably not so bad most men want to look at porn, but in our case it has caused him to stop making love ...

My hubby worships his ex and I feel threatened! Should I contact her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

22 February 2007 (F) - My husband has an ex that he worshipped. Even though we've been married for years, I still feel threatened by her. I found her profile on myspace. Why would I want to contact her and should I?...

Hubby had an affair and I just found out! Do I throw 10 years away or give him a chance?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6511 days ago

22 February 2007 (F) - I found out three weeks ago my husband has had an affair. We have been married for 10 yrs and he has just turned 40. he has spent since christmas being very moody and distant and said it was just things getting him down, fed up etc, however 3 weeks ...

Hubby treats me like a kid sister! I want him to find me desirable again. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6511 days ago

22 February 2007 (F) - What do men really want in a wife? I’ve been married for only 4 years and I mean I think I’ve lost my husband’s romantic/sexual attention. He sees me as his kid sister. He tells me oh your so cute and hugs and that’s it. I honestly don’t know what ...

My husband wouldn't let me touch him. What should I do or say to him about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

22 February 2007 (F) - my husband has gone off sex - but last night he had a sexy dream which woke him - when I approached him and tried to touch him - he would'nt let me. felt very rejected what do you think i should do/say?...

I really don't know how to take this any more, is she taking me for a mug? What's wrong with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

22 February 2007 (M) - I am married and have been for over 20 years. In that time I have had a few flings, as sex with my wife has always been difficult (she was never that interested). However I decided that for the sake of my 2 children that I would never leave my wife. ...

I can have sex with anybody but my wife!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

22 February 2007 (M) - Married with my wife for 5 years now but lately cannot have sex with her. I love her very much though. I can have sex with everybody else except her. The penis wont help me...sometimes even it does help but half down - it just dies down. I dont wa...

The text he got ended with "x," but it was from a male, so I called an a woman answered! I think my husband is cheating!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6513 days ago

21 February 2007 (F) - i have been having a nagging feeling that my husband has been cheating since just before christmas, you know the tight gut feeling you get? well thats what i have had for so long, little things have not been adding up, ive been checking his phone ...

I have been such an idiot and I love my wife so much but now we're going through a divorce which neither of us really wants, how do I get my wife back?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6508 days ago

21 February 2007 (M) - I cheated on my wife with someone who I would not normally look at( Work colleague), This woman treated me so amaizingly to try to show what I could have!!! She ended up being a nutter and told my wife all about it. My intention at the time was to ...

Can a born again christian and an aethiest marry? I'm really wondering whether this would work or just cause problems.

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

21 February 2007 (M) - Can an Born again christian and an Atheist marry? I've been with my girlfriend for near 10 months now and we have very strong feelings for each other. I am an atheist but I hide under the title of a catholic. I don't believe in Satan, I simply ...

I have been married 18 years, he cheated on me and is not on internet dating sites... what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6514 days ago

21 February 2007 (F) - i have been married for 18 years thinking we were fine until he cheated on me 7 years ago said just kissed a girl now we're in middle of leaving each other we fight all the time because he said he wants me to trust him but then i find out he is on ...

I left my wife and my sister in law left her husband, purely coincidental I might add! We have, through the course of time gotten together and the family think it was planned! It wasn't at all. Are we so wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

21 February 2007 (M) - Here is my situation. My wife's brother's wife, decided to leave him, they have a daughter. At the same time I was going to leave my wife, we have two daughters. I felt i had to wait because the rest of the family would think that she and I had an ...

I think my wife is suffering from some sort of imbalance of late? Can anyone relate to this and give me some advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6514 days ago

20 February 2007 (M) - Ok folks heres a doozy, I am looking for women preferably who may have suffered an imbalance after pregnancy. but the story is; My wife is acting very erraticly of late, she throws things at me and the kids and she has started hitting, we are ...

My husband told me he loves me but is not passionate/crazy about me. Now I'm hurt, scared and confused....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6401 days ago

20 February 2007 (F) - I have been with my husband for 11 years, married 6. We have a 3 year old daughter and I'm currently 5 1/2 months pregnant. Just two months ago my husband told me that he is sure he loves me, but he doesn't feel he is madly/crazy in love with me ...

I don't love my wife, but if we get divorced she can't stay in the country! This is all my fault. What can I do??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6508 days ago

20 February 2007 (M) - First of all, let it be clear that I know I am the only one to blame for my situation and that most women will probably despise me. Nonetheless I want some advice on what I should do. Ok, well im married and live in the UK. My wife is foreign ...

I'm worried that my husband is cheating! We've had trust issues recently, but am I just being silly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6514 days ago

20 February 2007 (F) - Hi this may sound as though i am worrying over nothing so here goes... I am worried that my husband is cheating. We have had problems with trust recently(not ref another woman)but i know he would be capable of hiding something from me. Most week...

Should I take the safe option or follow my heart??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6514 days ago

20 February 2007 (F) - I have been with my bf for over 4 years and although it hasn't been easy, i love him dearly. My best friend, who introduced us, has recently told me that my bf is going to propose soon. The thing is, I think my best friend, my soulmate, and I have ...

After 6 months of marriage my husband has asked for time out to clear his head! I'm so hurt, I don't think I have any tears left...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6514 days ago

19 February 2007 (F) - Hi, after serious discussion and after just 6 months of marriage, my husband has decided there is something wrong in our relationship and wants a break to see if he can clear his head, he moved out last night, i also felt that there was something ...

I have acted like an idiot, should I text him back and tell him I'm sorry?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6514 days ago

19 February 2007 (F) - Hi, I wonder if you might give me some advice as Ive acted really foolishly over a guy and feel so bad about it. In December I had a one night fling with a married friend of mine who Ive known for a long time. We both knew it was wrong and afterw...

Why do I feel like "Billy-No-Mates?"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6515 days ago

19 February 2007 (F) - I am supposed to be getting married in two months time. What is the problem. Well, we have both been married before. He has been married twice before. We both had the big wedding stuff in the past and don't want it now. or i thought i didn't! He has ...

Together 32 years, he cheated I left...He doesnt want to be on his own so has'nt left her, but wants me back!!!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6501 days ago

19 February 2007 (F) - Please can you help me ! My husband is having an affair. We have been together for 32 years. We have had a very good marraige until the last 12 months when we drifted apart. I left him and he felt that i would not come back so he says that he ...

My wife has been cheating for the last 3 years of our 10yr marriage, I dont know what to do!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6515 days ago

19 February 2007 (M) - I have been married 10 years now and have learnt that my wife has been cheating for the last 3 years. I had always been faithful to her all along and she is unable to give me any reply and just say's I don't know how I did it. I have 2 kids and ...

Can love come back again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6511 days ago

19 February 2007 (F) - I have been with my husband 8and half years been married 18months. I have fallen out of love with him. Hes absolutley devastated as he hasnt seen it coming ive hidden it very well. Can love come back?...

I know we have no future together and I have broken it off with him but HOW do I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6515 days ago

18 February 2007 (F) - I'm 40yrs old and for the past 2.5yrs I have been seeing a married man whose 38, has 3 kids (10,13,17 - there abouts)and from what he has told me, happy in his marriage. This is an area that he really doesn't talk about nor wishes to discuss. We ...

Why is he so apathetic towards marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6515 days ago

18 February 2007 (F) - I am having some trouble trying to process or make peace with a differing opinion on marriage between my boyfriend and me. We have been together for about 2.5 years now and the relationship has always been strong, less my self doubt with the ...

Am I falling for this guy??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6515 days ago

18 February 2007 (F) - dear cupid, I am a 28 yr old female,married and have a 5 yr old son. One of my coworkers who is an extremly good looking guy started emailing me and i started emailing him back as a joke but didn't realize when things got serious and we actually ...

I believe I still love him, I'm just not IN love with him any more.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

17 February 2007 (F) - Do I still love him? My husband was in a severe depression for the last 5 years. Then last May I told him I wanted to separate and he promised he would change back to the man I married. He has been trying severely and doing everything I asked, ...

Always been a faithful wife but another man is interested and I'm tempted! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6515 days ago

17 February 2007 (F) - i need help! i am a married woman who has been faithful to her husband, but the problem is, hes away working for long periods sometimes 2-3 months. its not possible for me to go with him, but i miss him and i get so lonely sometimes, another married ...

I panic and freeze whenever my husband wants sex! What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

17 February 2007 (F) - my husband and i split up last year for four months, i found the sexual part of the relationship difficult. we got back together, i thought it might be ok, i bleed each time we have intercourse and get pains, now my body goes into a panic at the ...