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writes:i have been married for 18 years thinking we were fine until he cheated on me 7 years ago said just kissed a girl now we're in middle of leaving each other we fight all the time because he said he wants me to trust him but then i find out he is on the internet emailing women on some sex thing and we have great sex but we fight a lot... what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2007): Sorry to say this but i think this is the end of the road. If that was my bloke i wouldn't be waiting around. I would get out of there now. After all these years you are entitled to half, so get it and make a new start for yourself. Then you won't have to worry about what he is up do, just get on with your future. He doesn't sound like he is connected to you at all. Get rid.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2007): It sounds like you two could be going your separate ways, first you need to find out exactly what he is doing with regards to emailing women on the Internet - how far has it gone?
I suggest if you both want to make it work that you both commit to finding and having counselling together. It seems like it is the best chance for you both to work through your issues and constructively work together for the future. You both have to want for the marriage to work, it's not going to be easy but hopefully you both think it's worth a try.
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reader, Psyche +, writes (21 February 2007):
leave him
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2007): Its clear that your husband is not someone you can trust. You might try telling him you want him to go with you to marital counselling to face up to these issues of emailing women on a sex site.
But if he is not willing to do that, and you say you are in the middle of leaving anyway, you will have to decide what your priorities are.
Why are you still having sex with him when you are preparing to end your marriage? Is it really worth it?
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reader, bloodheartbunny  +, writes (21 February 2007):
Even if you have great sex thats besides the point, some people cant commit, its a shame i know.
Sounds like he still is either cheating or is going to,
and you are both fighting witch isnt a healthy relationship at all im sorry to say, i would say you can try and work it out, but in the end you may never trust him again,
and if you break up
you can do so much better!
even if its on your own!
jaz x
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