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*za1971
writes:I have decided to divorce my husband after his second affair in 5 years ( we have been together for fifteen). It is very difficult for me because we moved to a different country with our children and I have no family of my own or close friends. This affair he had was with his cousin's( who is also his best friend) live in girlfriend of 6 years. Their affair began when his cousin was having a brain tumor removed in hospital though i'm sure the foundation of it was layed before this. They asked me not to tell anyone because it would destroy my husbands family and promised they wouldn't see each other anymore. I made my husband tell his mother so I would not feel scared being the only one with this knowledge. She asked me not to tell anyone either. 2 months on and he is still texting, talking to and emailing her. I have talked to both my husband and his lover about this and they said its nothing much and they aren't seeing each other. Needless to say, I don't beleive either of them because what do they have to discuss? I feel like I am participating in this affair now but am too much of a coward to blow the whole thing open because so many people will be affected. What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2007): Hi,I am so sorry to hear your pain what an arsehole!! drop him like shit and tell everyone that will listen what they are doing is morally wrong and by telling everyone this will stop it or better still it will take the light out their candle and you can rest that you have done the right thing no longer shield them they have burdened you for too long get rid of the sleazebag he is not fit to wipe your boots!! what an insult to you, tell the world embarrass them into oblivion you know you have to it is so so wrong what they are doing what kind of people are they do they have NO MORALS!! get shot of him you deserve better and i hope you burst their bubble best of luck.
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reader, hails +, writes (27 February 2007):
 follow your heart an do what u think is best. if i wr in your situation id probably tell a couple of other people an hope it eventually came out lol, but if you dnt want to just walk away, dont make it harder 4 you an the children than it needs to be
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