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writes:how do i get him back or at least get the feelings going again if we only see each other when we drop our daughter off to each other and his girlfriend is always with:? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2007): I'm in a similar position. My ex and I split up 14 months ago after 7 years together, he found someone new after only 3 months. We spent the best part of a year fighting over the gorgeous child we have together until I finally decided that our son deserved better. So we went to Family Mediation. It gave us the chance to talk openly and we discovered that we could be friends again. We agreed that he would not bring his girlfriend with him and we also agreed that doing things together with our son would be of benefit to him. We've grown closer and realise that we still love each other very much. Our complication now is that he needs to tell his girlfriend. Perhaps you could suggest to your daughters father that you do things together with her, like take her to the park, feed the ducks etc. It may make him realise what he has been missing and reignite things. But be prepared to be open minded, he may truly have moved on. Best of luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2007): How do you get the feelings back again? You can't. Although you and he have a daughter, he now has another gf, so forget about trying - he clearly isn't interested.
But, as the other posters say, ask him to drop your daughter off without his gf - IF you have something to discuss with him concerning your child, that is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2007): i would probably ask him out of respect for you and your daughter could he please just pick her up on his own in case of the possibility you have something personal to discuss with him. Tell him its uncomfortable when he brings her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2007): i would catch him when his girlfriend is not there and talk to him then or make yourself a bit more noticable
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