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writes:Married with my wife for 5 years now but lately cannot have sex with her. I love her very much though.I can have sex with everybody else except her. The penis wont help me...sometimes even it does help but half down - it just dies down.I dont want to cheat anymore. I want to be with my wife and make a happy ever after family. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2007): Hi,
Why after just five years are you cheating? Don't you think you are disrespecting your wife? I think you need a reality check stop the cheating and put all your energy into your wife! You are not doing you ar her any favours by cheating with others i feel that is a poor excuse i think you just want to shag as many as you can get and if you don't stop it will spiral out of control believe me you don't want to go there you would be as well getting divorced if you continue to cheat quit now and try winning back your wife take her out buy her sexy lingerie ask her to do things that get you aroused COMMUNICATE!! stop thinking of yourself you are being a prat wake up and smell the coffe and realise if you love your wife you would not be doing this i am telling you stop now or you will be on your own.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2007): Has to be either guilt or resentment.You probably know which. Should be addressed by a therapist.
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (22 February 2007):
 Which came first, the cheating or the lack of interest? If the cheating started first, then it may be that you feel guilty. Also, if you eliminate the cheating, Mr. Penis will be more apt to stand at attention if he knows there is only one way he's going to get satisfied, and that's with your wife.
If you can stop cheating and be a faithful and loving husband, things might start looking up again (pun intended).
Good luck!
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