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female
age
41-50,
*oulou
writes:me and my ex-husband we got divorced on the phone after a two years spent apart, never seen him once, seperate countries... we come from different religions and that caused another problem, we got divorced 5 month ago after i found out about some lies and now i decided to go back home and see him, is there a chance to get him back, i always call him but he never calls me.as i initiated our break up, i know he loved me before, but we thrown words about getting over it.. i'm scared to face him i think he's scared too.. can i get get an advice on how i can fix things and bring him back, his mom told me he's not seeing anybody but he seems distant at times but he still asks about if i've been with another person.. he said we'll always be friends and that he would like to see me.. how should i act, what should i do, should i be aloof or not i don't know what to do please help me! i know this seems crazy but we had a history of 4 years before the marriage i love him so much it's crazy...but the most important for me is not to compromise my dignity how should i be.. i couldn't go down before because of my job and financial matters and i was very mad...please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2007): What is there to work on? You said you hardly saw each other in the 2 years you were married. So far, he is not answering your calls meaning he has moved on. I suggest you do the same but try and find someone local who you can have a real relationship with rather than over the phone, internet, whatever.
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reader, ady  +, writes (26 February 2007):
 go direct is the shorten way; so i think it is better to face him with your real feelings and then you can see his reaction.best regardsady
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