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Archived questions from: July, 2012 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

He ignores me when we talk on webcam, am I expecting to much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4526 days ago

31 July 2012 (F) - Hello Aunts, im in a LDR situation. for about a one year now. but we known each other for two years. we met in singapore when he had a vacation.. so he lived 2760.56 miles apart. we talked on phone eveyday and skype. last night when we video ca...

Is it a good idea to go through with this relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

30 July 2012 (F) - I am an american women dating a turkish guy. We have been talking off and on for the past two years. He comes to virginia beach, virginia every summer on a work visa. We were introdued through texting by my brother which is good friends with my ...

Can I win back b/f emotionally?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4528 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - Hi, I am in LDR with my boyfriend and we see each other at weekends but the last few months Ive been actly extremely clingy, texting him everyday, questioning him about emotions, cheating, other women I hate what Ive become! Other areas in ...

Help with long distance relationship - heart broken

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - I met a man in the US navy 12 years ago..I was too young to be in a LDR at that time and so we both went on our separate ways. 12 years later (present time), we reconnected through the internet and decided to meet up again to see if the "spark" was ...

Why doesn't my LDR boyfriend put forth the same effort that I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4528 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - Hi everyone. Thanks for being there to help all of usm. My problem is my long distance boyfriend was going to get a place for us to stay and then we would marry and I would move there and look for a job. I have been saving to have some money to use ...

I am scared because my online friend says he is coming to take me back to the States!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - Dear Aunts, What am I supposed to do when my boyfriend of 3 years whom I met online decided to come meet me, when everyone in my family thinks that I shouldn't be with him. He is someone that I met on facebook. Although we don't meet on a regula...

My boyfriend seems to be having some commitment issues. Some advice would be appreciated.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I are apart right now but will be back together at college in about a month (we're 4 hours apart now). He randomly basically freaked out because we're apart he said he basically feels single but cannot pursue other women. I let him ...

It's a LDR. But he still hasn't told me he loves me. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - Dear all, I'm currently having a LDR with a guy who I see sometimes every other/weekend for 8 months as his in tbe military. We're very happy and have made and booked future plans for next January his always treating me to holidays and really ...

LDR boyfriend doesn't know the color of my eyes?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

27 July 2012 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship and I have been for about a year. We've been together in person multiple times so I expected the right answer today when I playfully asked him "What color are my eyes?" I could not believe it when he told me he ...

Is my Gf a compulsive liar? Can I or should I trust her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

27 July 2012 (M) - Hi everyone. I've been together with a girl for around 2 months now who I met online. A few months before we got together, she told me that she lived in Japan and was studying at a college to draw Japanese comics. She also told me that she grew up ...

It's early days for us. So am I worrying for no reason, over his reaction to me touching his phone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

27 July 2012 (F) - Am I concerned for no reason? Its fairly early days for me and another guy I met online but we have now met up 3 times (have known each other now for a couple of months). Last night we slept together he stayed at mine. He left his mobile phone ...

I don't if I should start a long distance relationship, because I fear boredom with no physical contact is just gonna kill attraction or do I begin a relationship and hopefully keep it going?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

24 July 2012 (M) - So I started talking to this girl on and off after meeting her at a rave, but the conversations were just mutual and friendly, like to hang out soon. So after a while I haven't heard from her and we met again at a rave and everything changed. We ...

Is it normal if he doesn't talk for half an hour between sentences??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

23 July 2012 (F) - Please help!!!! (btw my age thing is broken, I'm 16) Right. So. February, I started a LDR with an American guy (I'm Irish). We were great- we had that crazy addicted, thoughtful, romantic, always-on-my-mind kind of connection. I was far from per...

I don't feel like I'm a priority in his life.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4533 days ago

23 July 2012 (F) - Hi everyone i really need you aunty aunt your opinions please give me some advice im in a long distance right now we love each other despite of the absence, we have ups and down but still i always open up to him and talk about it to work it out ...

My boyfriend is perfect and makes me happy yet I'm constantly insecure that he would cheat on me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

23 July 2012 (F) - Hi, Im 19 and about two years ago i met a guy and a year later we started dating. He's only my second relationship in my entire life. Everything is great, he's so sweet, he's soo good looking but here's the proublem, he's 1,243 miles away. This has ...

B/f depressed because we're long distance and it worries me that he might end things

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

22 July 2012 (F) - I am currently in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. It is around a four hour drive. Due to us both working for the summer I have only gone to visit him once. It was great when I did. We go to the same college during the year and only ...

Everyone says that long-distance dating is hard... but is it worth it to give it a try?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

22 July 2012 (F) - I recently met this guy, and he's really great; he's good looking, caring, sweet to me and everything I could ask for. The only problem is, he lives 15 hours away, and the only way we can talk is through texting and skype. He said he's really ...

Our relationship is going really well, but I keep getting doubts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

21 July 2012 (M) - Well this is about a relationship im in since 7 months...My gal is a rotary exchange student and that's how we met. I had never been in a relationship before this and neither has she..actually she has but she says it was hardly considerable. She is ...

Will it be the same after such a long time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4537 days ago

20 July 2012 (M) - I met a girl at uni and we both fell for each other. We had just a week together before summer break, and we both really enjoyed it and thought it was amazing. Now, after nearly two months apart, our feelings for each other have basically disapp...

I've lost that loving feeling, question is, why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

19 July 2012 (F) - okay i have been on this site and seeked help many a times...when i had problems with my boyfriend before..now i am in a situation that i never ever imagined i would be in. i was always loving,caring and sensitive sort of girl with my bf .now aft...

Why he cant make a decision about our future together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4538 days ago

19 July 2012 (F) - recently my bf and i really confused about the stage were we are i just got the call the other day and he said he was so confused dont know what to do and and if he can support our future together.ok i know thats not a good sign when a man tells ...

My LDR ex and I are reconnecting. He wants me to visit, should I ask him to buy the ticket?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

19 July 2012 (F) - Long story short. My long distance ex who is four years older than me has decided to pursue his masters degree at my university. He emailed me with the news and we began chatting via smartphone texting app. He made many hints that he still has ...

How can we make it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4538 days ago

19 July 2012 (M) - so i have this lttle problem , ive been talking to this girl for awhile now about(2months) and i really like her.I met her in my delayed entry program for the Navy. but the thing is she leaves in about 5 weeks for bootcamp and i actually leave in ...

His friendship with a work mate is beginning to upset me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

18 July 2012 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend is friends with a work mate and talks about her loads and its beginning to upset me. She always go to him for relationship advice about how she can't meet a nice man and she only likes muscley men and he replies maybe you sho...

How can I forget about him and move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4481 days ago

18 July 2012 (F) - I posted here about a week ago. I have been in a relationship with an international student for awhile but his parents suddenly made a last minute decision for him to return to his home country. So he left a few days ago. It's hard on both of us ...

Should I listen to my dad or should I just marry this awesome guy and relax?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

17 July 2012 (F) - Hi! I'm getting married next month. My beloved fiancé has just found out that he's gonna have to move abroad for the next 7 months and I'm devastated. I've talked about this to my dad (who never supported this marriage in the first place)and he said ...

I'd love to see him more often but don't know if he likes me enough to have a proper relationship but is scared.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

16 July 2012 (F) - I've really liked this guy for about 18 months now. I don't see him that often, just a few times a year, when he comes to visit family next door. We've slept together twice; first time over a year ago when we were drunk, and the second time a few ...

I'm not sure that I can handle this long distance relationship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

16 July 2012 (F) - Hello there, So I need some advice from you guys. I have a met a really wonderful guy recently. We got together at the beginning of May at Uni, unfortunately around revision period and then on June 7th following the end of term we had to separate...

How do I make him break up with me instead?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

16 July 2012 (M) - My love life is crazy now. I met a guy and i really like him and he loves me but we have a long distance relationship and i think i have gotten over him i promised him i would not break his heart. How do i make him break up with me instead?...

LDR b/f sent me a package and says I can't open it until we're on the phone together. What could it be?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

14 July 2012 (F) - So i've been in a long distance relationship with a guy for a little while now (9 months)and he kind of popped the question i think over the phone... obviously there's no ring yet. I told him I wasn't too concerned about a ring. He said he spoke ...

Depressed guy at start of short long distance relationship. Any advice would be great!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

14 July 2012 (?) - Hi I think im suffering from depression from a short long distance stint with my GF. Shes been living with me for the last 8 months and we've spent a lot of time together. Shes now working abroad for a month, will return for a month then will move ...

LDR b/f has never understood that I'm stressed about my studies. Now he hasn't contacted me in a week!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

14 July 2012 (F) - Hello everyone sorry if this is long but please take time to read this, i am 22 years old and have been in a relationship now for 4 years, in the begining we fell in love and it felt like magic but we used to fight alot mainly because he doesn't ...

My boyfriend is mad at me for something that isn't really my fault. I don't know what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

13 July 2012 (F) - Hi, I have a boyfriend working outside the country, he flies back every few months and I have been to see him twicein the pasy year. I bought him a plane ticket to come home for my birthday in April and his first words at the time were'when it's my ...

What can we do to prove to my boyfriend's parents that we aren't just another high school relationship and that we have a real future?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

13 July 2012 (F) - Okay, so I am 19 and my boyfriend just 20 last week. We have been together since we were 16 and have been through so much together. Last year he, and his family, moved 1,200 miles away and we made the choice to break up. His parents, who claimed ...

I am confused by my male friend

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

12 July 2012 (F) - Hello everyone, I am so grateful for this wonderful site and would really value your advice on a new contact I have made. I will outline my question and then maybe you well meaning folk out there can tell me if I need to be worried or not. I'm a ...

Please help! LDR, does she love the same way that I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

12 July 2012 (M) - I met a wonderful girl and im such in love with her, but everything happened very fast and im a little bit skceptical. I met her a year ago but we didnt go out until last month, we spent a whole month together but now she is back to her country....

I'm thinking about moving there to be with him, is it possible with this age gap?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

12 July 2012 (F) - Hi.. First thing excuses for my English. I will try to explain myself the best I can. I been separated for one year and a half. We didnt divorced yet. I live alone and have my own/independent life so I started to meet people here and there. ...

What can I do to make myself less upset about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

12 July 2012 (F) - I started dating my best friend (of three years) two weeks ago. She is currently in a different state and has been gone for a month. I have seen her once in the month, and I think not being able to see her more often is causing me to become ...

How do you stand the pain of separation in an LDR?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4547 days ago

10 July 2012 (F) - So my boyfriend is going to the east coast to finish up his schooling and I'm staying on the west coast because he's a school year older than I am. We are going to do the long distance thing for sure. But I'm just wondering, how do you stand the ...

It's hard to be half a planet away from somebody, especially when you're aching to be in their arms.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

10 July 2012 (F) - After talking for 6 months to the same man online, admittedly "love" eachother and talking almost daily when given the chance I'm still confused. Maybe it's because I've never been in a LDR. This is easier than it should be but also more difficult. ...

I'm confused about a guy abroad...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4511 days ago

9 July 2012 (F) - i have known this guy who is a year younger than me through an online chat site. He's not in the same country as me but we've talked and all for more than a couple of years now. Ive been in a relationship with someone from my own country during this ...

I found his latest sext offensive!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

8 July 2012 (F) - Hi, me and my LDR boyfriend have recently started sexting which I started (weve been together 7 months and started having sex after 4). I recently received a text saying how(this has been edited) he "can't wait to p***d a vi****** into you and hear ...

Is it a guy thing, or should I expect him to make more of an effort

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

8 July 2012 (F) - Hi, I've been in a long distance relationship for 8 months. we have always been two hours apart and never in the same city. we started talking through facebook and chatted for about 6 months before ever going on a date or anything. it was going re...

I want him to actually sit down, look me in the eye, and discuss!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

8 July 2012 (F) - I'm in a stable, loving rollercoaster relationship with an amazing guy. It's been fantastic right from the start and despite our very volatile ups and downs, it's been great. However in 7 weeks time I am due to return home (we met abroad) to start...

I don't understand my parents. Why are they objecting to my LDR BF, and his family, so firmly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

7 July 2012 (F) - Hello! I am stuck in a very difficult situation at the moment. I have been in an amazing relationship for the past year. I feel so happy and complete, where I genuinely feel I found my other half even if it does sound a bit cliché. He is an i...

Why is my boyfriend so distant?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

7 July 2012 (F) - hi everyone im in a ldr situation. and ny boyfriend is cold to me like hes always grumpy at me. and bot mood to talk, i dont know whats going on to him, whats bothering him. theres one time i ask him if he is ok? and he said hes fine! but hes bery ...

How broke is too broke in a relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

6 July 2012 (F) - I have asked twice before. I still didn't break up with my long distance boyfriend in spite of aunts and uncles telling me so. Some aunts told me his insecurity would cause problems. One uncle said this is a fantasy relationship. My mom told me t...

Do I move with my boyfriend? My parents are against it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

6 July 2012 (F) - Hey, My boyfriend recently got offered a job in another part of the country, I really want to go with him as he said that he can financially support me till I get a job, and we don't want to lose our relationship! Although we started off long...

My boyfriend can't orgasm during intercourse?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

4 July 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together around 9 months. We slept together for the first time around 3 months in, and it was my first time. As we live far away from each other, we only see each other every 2-4 weeks so in our 9 months we haven't slept ...

LDR boyfriend and I can't agree on vacation plans!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

4 July 2012 (F) - im in a ldr situation. my boyfriend and i plan to have vacation together. but theres an arguing thing about me and him like i want to go to beach but he knows it that i want to go there but he always asking me if i really want to go and why i like ...