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36-40,
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writes: recently my bf and i really confused about the stage were we are i just got the call the other day and he said he was so confused dont know what to do and and if he can support our future together.ok i know thats not a good sign when a man tells you hes not sure.. i talked to him and he said that. he doesnt know how to deal with this. if he can visit me here till next year because of his job lots of projects he will do. which is i understand i have my school here. so maybe its ok for me also that he goes here with my graduation next year.i can wait while im busy doin my school also here. but its that make me upset that he said he was thinking if he will backward or stop pursuing this relationship because he said it was unfair for me to wait for him and he said that. he doesnt know what to do and think our future together. im just wondering how come a 36 year old doesnt know how to think our future together. im so confused also why he cant make a decision about his own life our life together.. i know he cant do it alone planning it. i told him im here to help to think about our future we worked it out as a team to make through this..but now i havent heard from him that will do this babe. or our next plan hes said our relationhip needs to level up. its not progressing its been a two years were chatting emailing calling on the phone. maybe this time he want to think our future but he doesnt know how to move and plan about us. and i told him we can doi it together. why he has does things in his mind im so depressed thinking about him, crying all night why is he like that. why he can be a man and try to think that im part of his plan. can you please give me some advice.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (19 July 2012):
 He is established with a job over there so the one to move is you, if you can find a job there. That's not difficult to figure out. The fact he hasn't asked you to move there may mean there's something he is hiding. You can only be sure that you want to move there when a man's supportive but when he is still being wishy washy about it, then you have to end the relationship.
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