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Archived questions from: August, 2012 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

Should I accept that I may not be able to lose my extra pregnancy weight?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

31 August 2012 (F) - I'm 27 years old, and I just had my first child, well, not just almost a year ago. I m not nursing anymore and droped about 15 lb since I had my daughter. I m 5.4 and I weigh about 135-137 lb. Everyone around me tells me how beatifull I look and...

Question about the chances of getting pregnant from sex immediately after period

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

31 August 2012 (F) - What are the chances of getting pregnant when you have sex immediately after period? And when does ovulation usually happen?...

Who can I talk to about getting cosmetic surgery?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

30 August 2012 (F) - Who can I talk to about getting cosmetic surgery? I don't want to talk to a surgeon because they'll only tell me facts about what I want to get done. When I look at forums specifically for this, all the people there are always like "go for it" and ...

Is my husband controlling? Now the children are copying his style of communicating too.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

30 August 2012 (F) - Is my husband controlling? We have been married for 21 years and he always wants to know where I am and what I am doing, even what time i will be home. I never go anywhere without one of the kids! He talks to me like i am a child, telling me what...

This don't make sense. How is it possible that he contracted chlamydia if we have both been faithful?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

30 August 2012 (F) - i have been in a four year relationship, i have had many pap smear done and been tested for all std's, my man just went to the health department and got tested, and they told him he would have to come back in a couple of days to know the results, ...

I'm not depressed but I feel so numb!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

30 August 2012 (F) - For the last few years i've felt incredibly numb and emotionaless, i'm not depressed, i'm genuinly a happy person, but I feel like I dont really have any emotions when it comes to major things in my life. I started feeling like this when the pe...

Relationship is going down hill, after boyfriends comment about my weight!!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

30 August 2012 (F) - Good day! Well what I am asking is down to this situation here me and my boyfriend of 8 month have decided to take a break after a long argument that blew the holiday to pieces. About a month ago we had wonderful holidays together. whiles watchi...

Lately I've been getting thicker and lots more discharge than I'd normally get. Is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

30 August 2012 (F) - Hey Agony Aunts/Uncles, Basically, over the past couple of weeks I've been getting thicker and lots more discharge than I'd normally get. I know I've not got an STI because I haven't had sex since I was last given the all clear for any infectio...

How can I handle my abusive toxic Ex? Makes out he cares to my mother. Then abusive tirade at me,

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

30 August 2012 (F) - My ex bf of nine months dumped me in a text message after I had a nervous breakdown. After the breakup we kept having arguments and he blocked me from phones, emails and facebook. I then went on to have an early miscarriage. I didn't know I was pr...

Plenty of emotional intimacy, but no physical

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

30 August 2012 (F) - My bf and I are in our early 50s and have been dating for several years. We have hugged but have never held hands or kissed, let alone made love. The first couple of years that we were dating, he had some health issues (including some ...

Want to be skinny

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

29 August 2012 (?) - i want to get skinny im uk size 8 or 10 but feel really fat i hate my body and need some confidence i have always been a bit chubby and always upset at my body i want to be petit i hate being curvy i find it so unatracctive and fat help me get ...

I had 12 sexual partners in the 4 years prior to my steady relationship. Is that bad? And why did a doctor conclude my relationship wasn't monogamous without asking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

29 August 2012 (F) - Yesterday I had my annual, I was expecting to get on the Mirena (birth control IUD that last 5 years) but when the dr came back she said that I couldn't get it because I'm not a good candidate for it, being as its for people who are in monogamous ...

She is bipolar and said she can't be in our lesbian relationship anymore because it's wrong. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

28 August 2012 (F) - me and my best friend started (same sex) started a sexual relationship we never argured or fighted everything was lovely w plan to move in togehr and start a family then she lost her job and got depressed about bills and stuff. She is bipolar she ...

Can someone with bi polar live a normal life with treatment

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4464 days ago

28 August 2012 (F) - i just had my bf bakeracted . He is bi polar and has run out of his meds since moving back here . He had and appt for this week but i was scared that he wouldnt make it till then so after him trying to hurt himself last night i had him locked up . I ...

I had an abortion two weeks ago and feel lonely and depressed ever since

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

28 August 2012 (F) - I had an abortion two weeks ago, and Im feeling so alone. I got pregnant by this boy I know, and when I told him all he said was get rid of it and I didn't hear off him after (still haven't to this day as he blocked me on Facebook and blo...

Week after we broke up she was sexually active with a new guy. What does this say about how she cares about me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

28 August 2012 (M) - My girlfriend and I share a child together, and had plans on becoming married. Later in our relationship I cheated on her by conversing with other females when things weren't going good between us. When we got into an argument and I pushed her and ...

Any pointers on how to respond to mothers on menopause?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

28 August 2012 (F) - My mom has had menopause for two years now, and it is getting progressively worse. She is very sensitive to medicine, so hormones are out of the question. Problem is that she treats me like trash, she starts nagging me about everything and a...

The guy I fancy? Or the guy who fancies me? How do I act and what can I do when they are both in the room together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4472 days ago

27 August 2012 (F) - I have a problem. I fancy this guy at work,and do not know what to do. He shows some signs that he fancies me too The problem is that there is another guy who fancies me. Usually with that guy we joke around. I do not know what to do and how to re...

He's married with 2 children. But WAS very keen on me, but now he's avoiding me. Should I tell the new guy about my (almost) relationship with Manager?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

27 August 2012 (F) - Hi, I met a guy (manager) of different dept. a few months ago. We became good friends. I told him about some tragedies that happened in my life. He was sympathetic and I started having feelings for him. He is married and has 2 sons. I guess he fel...

Years ago he was my foster Dad. No blood relationship. No legal adoption. Can we now legally have a relationship? I am pregnant to him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

27 August 2012 (F) - I grew up in foster care bouncing from home to home and shelter to shelter. When I was 16 I was placed with foster parents that were very close in age 23 and 25. I remained there until I aged out of the system at 18. While living there my fos...

My husband and his family do not believe I was a virgin because I didn't bleed after our first night together. Why did I not bleed?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3391 days ago

26 August 2012 (F) - Hola I am from Mexico . Please forgive my English it is second language to me. I am originally from Mexico but live here in the united states. I am 21 years old and recently got married . I was a virgin when I married . I didn't bleed . My husband ...

Husband's comments about my breasts have left me feeling self-conscious. Am I being too sensitive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4456 days ago

26 August 2012 (F) - My husband has on occasion said some things without thinking them through. Years ago, he told me the space between my breasts was too big and that a cosmetic surgery could fix it. Never thinking there was anything wrong, I became self conscious ...

How do I learn to love myself with a body that still hasn't recovered from having a baby?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

26 August 2012 (F) - Don't know how to love myself anymore. I have a 3 year old daughter and have been really struggling with the weight ever since I had her. My stomach is COVERED with stretch marks still. And I feel as if my body is ruined. I hate this feeling of ...

Cheating b/f gave me genital herpes, is there anything natural I can take?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

25 August 2012 (F) - Hi I really need some advice as I am in bits and don't know what to do I recently caught my boyfriend of nearly 2 years cheating on me so I went to a gum clinic to get myself tested for any stis and I found out I have genital herpes I feel so ...

Married one year. He disgusts me and he will not sleep with me. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

25 August 2012 (F) - My husband and I just passed our 1 year anniversary ... However he disgusts me. I can't stand to be around him, he won't even sleep with me.. So I resent him for that. He won't take showers for days, doesn't even change his underwear, won't brus...

I'm worried about the size of my penis

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4459 days ago

24 August 2012 (M) - hi, so im worried about my penis size... im 19 still a virgin, i have recieved oral sex before and im just worried about the size of my penis, its roughly (ive never had it measured by a doctor) 3 inches depending on how warm/cold i am, i might get ...

Is a water infection a STI?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

24 August 2012 (M) - My wife cheated on me a month ago, we are working on things and hopefully will be able to move on from this. However she now has a water infection, is this an STI? How do you get a water infection?...

How can an ex lover and ex Boyfriend successfully become a friend? Or am I wasting my time caring about him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

24 August 2012 (F) - I have a Ex-boyfriend who I still have feelings for AND miss. When I first started him he was very generous AND kind as he still is. I was scared to get too close to him because we were very different with out race, religion, AND race. From p...

I'm done with dating at moment. But how do I seek or find someone willing to do FWB?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

23 August 2012 (F) - What is the best approach to finding a FWB? I'm not trying to be crude, but I'm done with dating right now and I really just want some good old fashioned sex with no emotions involved. My problem is, I've never done it before. Sure I had sex, but...

I need someone to help push me and motivate me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

22 August 2012 (F) - This is a weird request but here it goes. Im soo fed up of feeling and looking like crap. I have a bad case of PCOS and with that I have the side effects of being over-weight, have more hair than any woman would like and spots. Those are my ma...

What to do down there?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

22 August 2012 (?) - pubic hair , what do i do with it ? i have a long term boyfriend he says he doesnt mind about my pubes but i still shave for him and me as well a litte i guess, but the thing is its starting to hurt me with spots and i heardyou can pass them on ...

Anyone know how I can help my bf who is bi polar get help in alabama

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4465 days ago

22 August 2012 (F) - its so frustrating ... I dont want to let him go but i have to.he loves me and trys his best to treat me right but he is bi polar and wont get it under control . He has outragious oust burst that include breaking things punching things and hurtfull ...

Any advice or experiences to share on dealing with illness in the family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

22 August 2012 (F) - My mum, 46, has COPD, Diabetes and Emphysema. She is on home oxygen and has a portable one for when she goes out. In May 2011 myself and my family almost lost her as her lungs were giving up. Since then she has been in hospital 4 more times. T...

Have any other women used Cerazette before?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

21 August 2012 (F) - I've just been put on the pill, cerazette. Thing is, I went round my friends last night and all of them said how they would avoid that pill because of the side effects and you experience really bad depression and gain so much weight and all these ...

Feeling single in this relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

21 August 2012 (M) - Ok, here's my problem. My girlfriend and I started dating back in November of 2011, and we were great. She was always happy around me, any time we had together she seemed to love, and always wanted to spend more time always told me she missed me. B...

His Mom undermines my ability to discipline my child. We live with her. Would it be wrong to leave my Bf?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

21 August 2012 (F) - I have been in a relationship for the last 3 years, the last year and a half has been nothing but an emotional roller coaster. Earlier this year we had financial troubles and so we moved back into my mother in laws house. I have a daughter...

My father saps my confidence but my real problem is how do I forgive my mother for not protecting me enough, when I was a child?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

21 August 2012 (F) - Hi, small background of the situation being: When i was 12-14 i got regularly mentally, physically, emotionally and verbally abused by my father for years. My mother had just has my younger brother and states she did not know , but the reality ...

I started dating a gorgeous, model-like, ambitious, cheeky guy, and he's now turned into an overweight, boozy, attention seeking boy!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

21 August 2012 (F) - This is really tricky and I'd appreciate both male and female help with this. I've been with my lovely boyfriend who I care deeply for for two and a half years. When I met him he had model looks, a great body and I couldn't keep my hands off him....

How do you deal with pubic hair growing back?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

21 August 2012 (F) - For people who have sex regularly, how do you deal with the growing back of shaved pubic hair? It loses the smoothness after only 1-2 days, so doesn't it get uncomfortable for your partner with the stubble? Shaving the stubble creates hell for me. ...

I was diagnosed with something I can't find anything about. Can anyone help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

20 August 2012 (F) - im not sure where else to ask this question or if anyone on this site can help me out, but i was recently diagnosed with red cell antibodies or anti-d antibodies. i've tried to look stuff up online and there just isnt much about it. im not sure i ...

Is it likely that he's really cheating? Or just boasting? If true, then I feel as though I'm not attractive enough for him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4481 days ago

20 August 2012 (F) - My partner recently put password locks on his mobile phones, I was suspicious and managed to get into his phone and found he's frequently sending txts to his mate about all the hot women he's seeing while making deliveries. Plus how he's going to ...

So much pain. I don't know what to do now. save marriage? how? then what? Or divorce?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4481 days ago

20 August 2012 (F) - I need help. I have not been married for long. when dating my future husband, he was quite emotionally abusive, and i ended up cheating with another guy. i got pregnant, and only realised i was pregnant after i got married. I told hubby and ...

I'm not as interested in sex now. Plus he complains that he has to do too much. Have I been cool? Is my behaviour rational?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4474 days ago

20 August 2012 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for a year. We became friends through my ex-boyfriend - who was his friend - while I was living abroad. My new boyfriend and I started dating a week before I was returning home. Shortly after I'd moved back, it j...

How do I get my mom to send me to a mental ward?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

20 August 2012 (F) - Lately depression has been taking control again, it's been really hard to fight it again. I've always been a negative person, which makes it harder for me to deal with depression, or the begining of it even. I'm happy, usually a while in a day, but ...

Girls- Bleeding during and after sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

19 August 2012 (F) - Hi, I have a question about bleeding during sex. I'm a 20yr old girl who was in a relationship for about a year and a half, during this time my partner and I were regularly having sex. Sometimes if we hadn't had intercourse for a while, I would ...

Penis Surgery has left me unable to connect fully with my girlfriend, How can I make it pleasurable again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4481 days ago

19 August 2012 (M) - Hi there, I am a 28 year old male and about 5 years ago I had a small cyst removed from the underside of my foreskin. However I was naive to the consequences and was unaware of how much skin they would remove and the whole underside of my foreskin...

Second time around and I feel suffocated in this relationship. What can or should I do? Or are there too many problems?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

19 August 2012 (F) - I'm in a relationship with someone, this is the second time around we are together. First time he couldn't decide what he wanted and I moved on. I need advice please, he is 10 years older than I am. I'm just irritated with some things he does. F...

I still love her. We have a child together. How can I get over the fact that she has rejected me? It hurts.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

19 August 2012 (M) - Hello all Last April my partner of 7 years suddenly broke off our relationship, saying she no longer felt happy. She had been going to see a therapist about her life in general, and ending our relationship seemed to be part of what she felt sh...

Met a girl, we got naked, though no condom. Then I stopped the sex. But could I have caught a STD or made her pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

19 August 2012 (M) - Hi there, I hope someone can help me. A couple of weeks ago I met this girl in a bar and we were both really drunk. We ended up going back to her flat and started ripping each others clothes off. We got naked, although I think I left my underwea...

Does my Bf just say that I'm "fine" even though I am overweight, just to be kind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

19 August 2012 (F) - Im over-weight and my bf says he loves me just how I am. He's the tall, dark and handsome type with not an ounce of fat on him. He calls me beautiful, says Im perfect just how I am even though he knows Im trying to loose weight because I cant s...