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Archived questions from: August, 2013 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

I have a HUGE crush on a co worker.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4099 days ago

31 August 2013 (M) - I am in a great relationship with my girlfriend. We have been together for many years. My girlfriend is bisexual but I cannot admit to her that I am as well. At work, I really like this guy. He makes me laugh and makes me feel good when I see ...

My best friend is hanging out with my ex and lying to me about it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4099 days ago

31 August 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend broke up three months ago and right after this he moved away to another town where my "best" friend lives. He and I stayed in touch at first but were arguing a lot so have been in touch on and off for the past three months. We ...

I hate being part of a list,but all the boys of my age don't want more

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4099 days ago

30 August 2013 (F) - Hi guys. I have an issue i need some advice on! Over the weekend i was at a festival and kissed this guy. We spent e whole night together and he was really sweet. I kind of knew it would be a 'one night thing' (we didnt do anything more than ...

It feels like she is trying to play psychological warfare with me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4099 days ago

30 August 2013 (M) - Recently my gf broke up with me for no real reason at all. But anyways aside from that I have been trying to move on with my life but it’s been really hard. It really feels like she is trying to play psychological warfare with me. She’s flat out ...

Why can't I get over guys quickly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4100 days ago

30 August 2013 (F) - I am "friends" with this guy my problem is he hasn't been texting me or talking to me...I've done something bad, as in texting him multiple times, each day. (I know that is really bad and clingy!) I'm not like this with every guy honestly. It's been ...

She forgot that I'd booked a trip for us and made other plans

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4099 days ago

29 August 2013 (F) - In March I booked a weekend away for me and my girlfriend, as a gift for her birthday. Now, she knew about it when I booked and apparently wrote it in her diary, the weekend away is next weekend...she's just told me she is now going out that weekend ...

Lashed out at a friend, feel awful and need advice

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4068 days ago

29 August 2013 (M) - I need a bit of advice from some random people. I have an idea of what I need to do, but I am always open to others opinions. Anyway, where do I begin. I started hanging out with this girl back in February as friends. We literally started doing ev...

I regret recommending my friend for a job at my workplace

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4100 days ago

29 August 2013 (F) - This is not a relationship question but it's something that is really weighing on my mind. I recently met this girl around my age. We got on well and my first impression of her was good. My boss has been looking for someone to fill a position at ...

I'm a 22 year old virgin, trying to understand and deal with it!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4099 days ago

29 August 2013 (M) - Hi all, I'm 22 and I'm still a virgin. To be honest, it doesn't bother me. It is what it is. I don't believe in sleeping around or getting to know someone for the purpose of sex like most people my age seem to do. I mean, sure there are people w...

Creepy Guy: Ignore or Confront?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

29 August 2013 (F) - Almost all of my friends are males. Most of them also work in my department at work. Usually this has never, ever been a problem. However one of my male friends just... can't take a hint. I'm not interested! A few months back he told me that he ...

I like my friend but she has a boyfriend. Want to end this friendship but don't want to regret it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

29 August 2013 (M) - Hi, so kind of a long question here. So a while ago I ended up telling one of my friends that I liked her as more than a friend and that I had very strong feelings for her. Anyway she was super cool about it but said that she only saw me as a ...

Boyfriend wants us to go travelling with his female friend for 2 weeks but I don't want to do this

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

28 August 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and i are 23 and live together, we've been together 4 years and have lived togther for 3 and a half years! We are happy but do argue evey now and then as couples do! We live about 30 mins away from his parents and friends so he se...

Is possible to maintain a friendship with this person while postponing a romantic relationship for at least a year?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4097 days ago

28 August 2013 (F) - Any advice for maintaining a friendship with a potential love interest? I have fallen head over heels for someone, but neither of us are in a position of getting into a relationship. He lost his job and is living with his parents, and I am in the ...

I'm afraid I'll move in with boyfriend but end up spending most of my time alone

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4103 days ago

27 August 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm looking for some second opinions on my situation if that's ok? So I'm 28 and I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. He is 26. He has just asked me to move in with him but I'm not sure if I want to or not. The main re...

I really don't know whether to have this baby or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4103 days ago

27 August 2013 (F) - In need of some advice. Will try and make it as brief as i can. I have had terrible luck Relationship wise all my life. I dont ask for much or expect much. my last relationship i had been in was with a very troubled person for the last 5 years. ...

Is my boyfriends behavior with 16 year-olds daughter friend appropriate?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4094 days ago

27 August 2013 (F) - Hi Everyone, Thanks for taking the time to read my post. I am a 35 year old women in a relationship with a 38 year old man. We have a good relationship and have been together for about 7 months. Recently, I was at his daughter sweet 16 birthda...

What should I do with an old jealous ex I shared 6 years of my life with?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4103 days ago

27 August 2013 (F) - I dated my ex for a little over six years before I'd had enough of his pessimism and serious lack of a sex drive (believe me, I tried everything to keep him happy and satisfied). Honestly, there wasn't a lot of give and take involved. Clearly, he ...

Was she suddenly aloof? If so, why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4098 days ago

27 August 2013 (M) - Hi, I am an older guy, early 40s, messed up some key choices in life. Am single, have middling job, somewhat shy. Not so much experience with women, though trying to get better. In the beginning of summer, a woman from work called me to tel...

I'm not the funny, entertaining person whom I want to be.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4103 days ago

27 August 2013 (F) - I really want to make the guy I like laugh, but I can't. We're friends and have known each other a while. I'm not sure if he feels the same but if not thats cool I'd like to be good friends. Thing is I've never been a very funny person, I don't ...

I've made out with him a couple of times and he wants to see me again, but I've realised I don't have any romantic feelings for him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4104 days ago

26 August 2013 (F) - Hi, I'm in a bit of a tight spot here. My friend met this guy at a party we went to a couple of days ago, and somehow he ended up at our place afterwards. Apparantly he didn't fancy my friend after all, and neither did she, so she went to bed, ...

Why was my friend trying to force me to kiss him? Is he gay? Jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4097 days ago

25 August 2013 (M) - Hello cuties, I'm here again seeking your advice. As some of you might know, there's something going on with one of my friends. For those not aware of the situation ,you can check out my previous post so you can understand where I am coming from: ...

What did they mean when they said we had 'history'?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4105 days ago

25 August 2013 (F) - What's it mean when a guy says we've has history I was out with my ex the other night and these 5 lads who I know started talking to me and when my ex asked who they were they all said we've had history I've done stuff with all of them just haven't ...

What is this crazy attraction?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4105 days ago

24 August 2013 (F) - I've got a question that's been bugging me for a while and wondering if any of you have had the same thoughts or experience or on the same wavelength. I have fancied this guy ever since I 1st saw him one year ago. But I say 'fancy him' I feel so d...

I fear I am being used and lied to!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4105 days ago

24 August 2013 (F) - I need to know if my boyfriend is lying and using me. The thing is my boyfriend used my computer to go on to Facebook and forgot to log out. I noticed this and automatically went to do so when I saw my name in a concerning way so I read it. I felt ...

I asked him a question and he can't give me an answer. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4104 days ago

24 August 2013 (F) - Hello cupid members, there is a guy friend of mine that I recently asked the questions of whether or not he sees us more than friends and if we could ever be more. His response was a plain 'i don't know' and we never finished the conversation to ...

How do I get my friend to stop liking me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4104 days ago

24 August 2013 (F) - Hello dear aunts and uncles :) I go to college and I have a best guy friend there, we understand each other really well, he's nice and one of the best friends in general I've ever had. I suspected he might be into me and recently he confirmed he ...

Fallen For My Best Friend Who Has Now Come Out. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4097 days ago

24 August 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm after a bit of a help now on a rather confusing situation to say the least. I'll start from the beginning as there are too many bits and bobs adding to the confusion! I'm a 20 year old girl, who did the classic and fell for her...

We aren't dating but she always asks about my love life. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4106 days ago

24 August 2013 (M) - Hello, I was seeing someone for a couple of months but they had to end it. She was having problems in her life and trying to start a relationship on top of it all put too much pressure on her. So we just kept in touch. Now she is seeing someone ...

What could he be thinking and where do I stand?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4105 days ago

24 August 2013 (F) - The situation: we're both in our mid-20s and studying to be teachers. We're not friends but are friendly- have done some group assignments together and sometimes talk before class. He's a quiet guy- generally keeps to himself. I'm not the most ...

The only thing that would make me happy is to have a girlfriend where love is big and realy mutual.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4107 days ago

24 August 2013 (M) - Please give me some advice. I know this is quite something to read, but it could make me very happy. I've had a dream about my ex last night. It was like, she was being really sweet to me, while playing hard to get and we just flirted and had ...

Worth trying? Or pointless? Do you think I can contact her and have coffee and try for the truth?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4105 days ago

23 August 2013 (F) - Thank you Aunts for your time reading my agony...My boyfriend of 2.5 years had a ' friend' that he met up with at her house unbeknownst to me over a year ago, i caught him there, he said they were just friends and were talking about a guy she was ...

My friend doesn't approve of one night stands and now she won't speak to me because I told her that I had one!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4106 days ago

23 August 2013 (F) - So a few months ago I went home with one of my friend's roommates after a party (I was a freshman in college) and we ended up sleeping together. I don't regret a thing, but my best friend from high school doesn't really like how college has changed ...

Could you suggest anything to make myself feel better, please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4107 days ago

22 August 2013 (F) - hey, im in such a bad place at the moment i fell out with one of the girls due to this all the girls arent talking to me, i am single so now have no one day in day out in stick in my house doing nothing, theres no clubs or anything around my a...

My ex moved to another town and is trying to befriend my friends. Is he trying to make me jealous and get under my skin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4108 days ago

22 August 2013 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I broke up three months ago and he moved immediately afterwards to another town where my best friend lives with her boyfriend and all their friends. In three months I have noticed on his facebook that the only people he has added ...

He broke up with me but keeps changing the reason why!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4107 days ago

22 August 2013 (F) - dear cupid, I have been dating this boy for about two months, I really liked him and I thought he really liked me too. but last night he broke up with me, his original reason was that I was too smart for him and he was too dumb for me. I am prett...

I once let a guy film us having sex, which he then showed to his friends. I'm dating someone new and I'm not sure whether I should tell him about this incident.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4108 days ago

22 August 2013 (?) - Once in my past, I let a guy that I trusted briefly film us having sex. He then showed it to a few of his friends, and for some reason I didn't stop him. I told him no, that I didn't want him to, but he did anyways and I just didn't know what to do ...

My roommate says that I smell but I don't know whether she is being mean or honest

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4108 days ago

21 August 2013 (F) - My roommate and I hate each other and she says I have an odor problem when I’m doing what I know is right hygiene-wise. I’m at my wits end. We’re in the military. We live in a 3-man room. She says that “my smell” infects the entire room. I h...

I gave a guy my phone number but I'm not really interested in him. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

21 August 2013 (F) - I went out on Monday night with some friends and their friends (whom I had never met). One of the guys whom I didn't know asked me for my phone number before I left. He knows I don't have a boyfriend. I gave it to him but I'm not interested at al...

Is he trying to make me jealous using facebook? Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4108 days ago

21 August 2013 (F) - Ok this is really really Weird. This guy I have a major crush on tagged me in a picture on Facebook. The picture was of him, his friend and two girls! None of these people were tagged in the picture,he only said "just having fun right now" and ...

Am I overthinking or I'm just clueless?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

21 August 2013 (M) - I'm 30 years old and she's 32, we both live in Asia but since we're both Americanized I put America as the location; we met on a dating site and have gone on many casual, friendly dates before. Upon our first meet we've been very open and upfront, ...

He dated my best friend, should I try again ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

21 August 2013 (F) - I was dating this guy for a year and a half and we broke up. I couldn't remember the reason why we did because it was a few years ago but I know that it didn't end well. After being broken up for a little bit, my ex started dating my friend...

How do I make my best friend see things my way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

20 August 2013 (F) - I'm really concerned about my Best Friend We've know eachother since elementary school and we've always been neighbors. Back then it was kind of weird if i didnt see her every week. She's super nice and funny, but she's also a bit impulsive and ha...

He's acting like I cheated on him! I did not!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

20 August 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 2 years now. Recently I turned 21, my boyfriend however will not be 21 until June. On my birthday we spent the whole day together and later that night I was going to go out with friends. Since the ...

Why do conversations with my friend always wind up being steered towards sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4110 days ago

20 August 2013 (F) - I really don't know what's going on with my friend. We're pretty close and I guess he's kind of like a brother to me. He might not see it that way, but I see it. I met him almost a year ago. We've exchanged crushes and personal secrets, and the...

How often do guys un-friend zone girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4110 days ago

20 August 2013 (F) - How often does this happen? My situation is this: my guy friend and I have known each other for 3 years but have never been super close because of his Avoidant Personality Disorder. Yet this summer things changed, we had a bit of a fight and made...

Why do people lie and make you out to be something your not? I don't understand.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4108 days ago

19 August 2013 (F) - An element in a typical argument I've never understood. Why do people lie and make you out to be something your not? I don't understand. I won't give you my life story but I had an argument with a friend, well past friend who I fell out with a w...

I'm in love with him but he won't give me any commitment

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4110 days ago

19 August 2013 (F) - Since March this year I have been in touch with a Korean man online. We met on a penpals website so I was not looking for a relationship. He's based in London on a two year student visa. When we first started talking it was very casual but after a ...

My husband has many close female friends.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4110 days ago

19 August 2013 (F) - I'am not the jealous type I'm very laid back and always tried to avoid drama by not hanging out with certain ppl. My husband got a lot of female friends he talked to form day to day I have not met them yet and they called him for advice all the ...

My curvy LDR gets advice from her friends to lose weight. I like her just the way she is. Should she listen to her friends or me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

19 August 2013 (M) - I have been in LDR with an American girl for two years. We met once in South East Asia and spent two weeks together. I'm 32 and she is 34. She is curvy and always asks me whether, "should I lose weight or not?" Also, if she loses weight, he...

Could this man have deeper feelings for this girl? Known this man a long time but he still only appears to flirt, nothing more? Is he attracted to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

19 August 2013 (F) - Dear cupids, is it just normal (attraction is there but no more than friendship) or there are deeper feelings involved when a man who has been friends with a woman for over more than 7 years acted and done the things listed below? First, let's sa...