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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2013): Imagine if you had officially dated all of the other guys. That's how most men feel about the subject. "Doing stuff" counts too.
In fact lots of men find their GF's casual sex history much harder to accept than her past boyfriends. Your ex-BF's feelings would probably not have been hit as hard if you HAD dated all those other guys.
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reader, fishdish  +, writes (25 August 2013):
 I agree with the others..but I would think it wouldn't be jealousy as much as repulsion.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (25 August 2013):
 Hooking up qualifies as having history. What I'm confused about is why it's your ex's business?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2013): You've done stuff with all 5 of them AND ur ex!?!?! How awkward!!! The history is.. U done stuff with all of them. No wonder he's jealous!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2013): History means you have had a romantic or sexual past with them. There's nothing to be confused about - you say you've done stuff with them and that's what they said. Your ex boyfriend probably doesn't like the fact you have been with all of these guys that he has to see when he goes out.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (25 August 2013):
 We have history = "I've done stuff with all of them"
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