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Archived questions from: May, 2014 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

We are meeting for the first time and her parents want to know my job? Do I say I'm not working?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3824 days ago

31 May 2014 (M) - Hi, I'm in a little bit of a dilemma, and I need some advice. I met this girl in her late twenties on a dating site. She made the first move. We've only traded a couple of messages back and forth, and are planning to meet tomorrow. She...

Does he love me, why does he talk to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3824 days ago

31 May 2014 (F) - i first met my second cousin in 2010,when we were introduced to each other by our grandparents. we don't know anything more about each other and we see each other only one or two times a year. but,whenever he see me,he comes up and talks with me as ...

I should cut the cord, because it is better to have good memories than bad!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3827 days ago

31 May 2014 (F) - Hi, I had a very bad break up a year ago and then after six months. I met a man who is 20 years elder to me and he was interested in me and we soon shared a very understanding relationship. we were very clear that we did not want to make a seriou...

I need to work out access arrangements.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3826 days ago

31 May 2014 (F) - Hi, I will be filing a divorce petition soon and need some guidance for child visit arrangements on what people normally do. My ex stays 4 hours train journey from me and kids (we have 2 children 10 and 5). For the moment just to get away from him I ...

I've got a boyfriend but I have a HUGE crush on his cousin.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3815 days ago

31 May 2014 (F) - Ohkay , so im dating this guy ( lets say his name is ... bob ) bob and I are really close and i really love him , we broke up and then got back together. ( , but when we got back together we werent as close )anyway so then me and his cousin started ...

My teenage daughter is breaking the family apart!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 3826 days ago

30 May 2014 (F) - I've been married for 10 years and when I met my husband he inherited my 3 children too who were very young at the time, we have also had a child together... I had just left a violent marriage 6 months earlier and we were all still recovering (the ...

Are we dating or is this just FWB?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3827 days ago

29 May 2014 (F) - Before I ask this question, I'm going to ask that if you want to answer, just answer respectfully. I recently started seeing a 30 year old man. We have gone on a few dates before about a year ago and once about 6 months ago, but I sort of backed o...

I'm crushing on my friend's older brother.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3826 days ago

29 May 2014 (F) - I met an incredible guy about three and a half months ago through my university’s social dance club. The awkward part is when I say met, I mean I had met him briefly before but never spoken to him…I had seen him around because he is my friend’s ...

My family guilted me into getting back in touch with my LDR

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3828 days ago

28 May 2014 (F) - I have a dilemma… I dated a guy very shortly (less than 4 mo.) and he wanted to do a long distance thing but I didn’t like him enough to do so. He just didn’t “get it” so I had to rudely and abruptly cut contact and block him. My mom gave me a lot...

I'm scared to be a single mum with 2 kids at 20, but I don't think I love my fiance anymore. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

28 May 2014 (F) - I'm in a very tricky dilemma. I don't think I love my fiance anymore. Me and my fiance have been together for over 2 years now and have a daughter together and I'm pregnant again. Although we are constantly arguing, we don't get along anymore, I ...

How do I help my son?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3828 days ago

28 May 2014 (M) - Both my sons have left the house and have been in the military. My youngest is currently home visiting, he has time off. Chatting with him, I realized he seems depressed, he has no inspiration for the future, such as college degree or a good job. ...

My ex gets bored seeing his son and lets him down

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3828 days ago

27 May 2014 (F) - I try and try to encourage a relationship with my ex-boyfriend and our son, but every time he lets us both down. If he isn't drunk or high, he would rather be with his mates or just being a total waste of space. I'm passed the point of anger, ...

I am beginning to hate the husband I once loved like life, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3828 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - Dear cupids, my problem lies with my marriage. We married out of love 4 years ago. Have a daughter and live far away from home. Recently I have been feeling less love for my husband that it disturbs me a lot. I don't feel any pinch when I see him ...

I am falling deeply for my older Boyfriend's cousin. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - I'm 19 and with a 34 year old man a year and half. Please don't comment on the age gap , I prefer older men. About 3 months ago I met his cousin who is 31 for the first time. He told me a lot about this guy how he cheated on his now wife when the...

Is my Bf's outlook on ever or never having children normal?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - So my boyfriend loves kids, and he's so cute playing with them etc. however we've talked and he's on the fence about actually having kids. He's absolutely fine with having them if I want em but he just can't see where people find the time for it. ...

Don't like being friend with my ex, but there is no way

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3820 days ago

26 May 2014 (M) - Hi everybody, Since ever the one in the group that is single and always dating new girls and all the past relations were like heaven. Everybody likes me, even my ex-girlfriends and I love everybody, I was happy. There was a girl whom I always lik...

Why would they be interested in me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - Two childhood sweethearts. . Looked me up after twenty years.. One grade school kept in touch more than the other from Jr high.. they have children and our grandparents. .and from different states .. I finally have a four old daughter and am not ...

Should I run or risk a broken heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3832 days ago

26 May 2014 (M) - Hello, well I've been talking to this women on line, we get along ,seems real good, but I think there is some red flags poping up, her car broke down she says, talk to her on the phone she seemed drunk, she told me she was raped about two years ...

Is it my mood swings or is my husband not interested in me anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3831 days ago

25 May 2014 (?) - Hello. I been been with my husband for 5 years and married for over a year. When we got married and had a baby we stayed at my mums till we found a place since 5 months ago but he never likes to stay there and he prefers to stay at my mum which ...

The ex stayed with the family for the funeral so why not me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3831 days ago

25 May 2014 (F) - Hi So I am after some opinions as to whether I am over analysing things and being silly or if I am right to feel upset. I am new to this site and so am expecting there may be some readers who will judge me pretty harshly but that's ok, maybe I dese...

My clock is ticking and I want a baby!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3832 days ago

25 May 2014 (F) - I want a baby and I am dating a guy who is 7 years younger than me, i'm nearly 39 and he is just approaching 32 and we have been on and off for over a year but it was just sex that turned into something more but only the last 2 months we have been ...

I don't feel loved and I think he is cheating again.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3822 days ago

25 May 2014 (F) - I have been married for 24 yrs I have two kids, one just graduated from college the other from high school. I caught my husband cheating on me in 2010. He admitted the affair and said he was so sorry and would never do such a terrible thing to me ...

I feel like I am his enterainment while his wife is waiting for him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3832 days ago

25 May 2014 (F) - hi. i am dating this guy. i am a foreign living in USA for 7 years. he just got here as a refugee. we met 3 months ago. his english is very little but somehow we can communicate, we liked each other so we became friends first. now we are kind of ...

She said she don't love me no more!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3832 days ago

25 May 2014 (M) - My now ex and I have been on and off for 4 years now. Last year we split because she accused me of cheating and to me it felt like she wanted to be single so she didn't have to go with me places. She got pregnant early into our relationship, which ...

My parents hate my boyfriend and I can't see him! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3833 days ago

24 May 2014 (F) - My parents hate my boyfriend Ok so I have been with my boyfriend 8 months now and we are in a happy, comfortable relationship, I love him to pieces and his family are lovely people however my parents hate him here are some bulletpoint reas...

My husband's father insists of making dinner for us every week! How do we deal with the problems with that?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

23 May 2014 (F) - So here goes... My husband's father is a very large man whose in poor health. My mother in law and husband treat the time with him as precious. He could go at any time from a heart attack. We can see his health declining every week. He can ...

Help me support my grieving/depressed wife

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3832 days ago

22 May 2014 (M) - Hi, My wife's mum passed away a few months back and I'm trying my best to be supportive but finding it real difficult. She's a stay at home mum with a 5yr old and 8 yr old, both at school. Our house is so chaotic it's unimaginable. We...

My boyfriend is very upset since his ex is planning on moving farther away with his child!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

22 May 2014 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, and living together for almost 2 years. He has a young daughter from a previous relationship and until recently things have been great between her mum and my boyfriend. Last month, a huge fight kicke...

How do I get him to express his love for me? He and his family withdrew the marriage proposal because of my health!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3835 days ago

22 May 2014 (F) - Hi Agony aunts there, I met a guy a month ago through matrimonial site for marriage alliance.he is 6 years elder to me,both our families met and we both liked each other.After our meet he pinged me in Facebook and we were having short conversa...

How do I get my parents to understand this job is making me ill?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

22 May 2014 (?) - Literally the day I arrived home for the summer from university, I had a job an hour later. My dad pushed me into this job because he is friends with the manager and I'm grateful for the help, but I'm miserable! I understand that every job has it...

How do I deal with an emotional mother-in-law?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3835 days ago

22 May 2014 (F) - Hi, my husband is in the Military and we moved around 3 times to different apartments everytime we moved has been very stressful for me and hard we always ended up fighting about it b/c my mother in law will harass my husband about it she wanted ...

Second thoughts about lending my son money

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3835 days ago

22 May 2014 (M) - My son had been saving for a new car, in the past I have paid for his cars and spent a lot of money on them for him since he passed his test about 7 years ago. This time he has been saving for his own but we saw a very nice car and I did say I will ...

Why is my mother so cruel?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3836 days ago

21 May 2014 (F) - Having just turned 21, I'm still having trouble with my mom. We can never have a mother daughter conversation Whenever she calls me she says I'm a big burden in her life and when she doesn't want me, I'm a waste of money and time. I'm currently ...

My ex might want contact with his son

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3836 days ago

21 May 2014 (F) - I may be over reacting and thinking of the worst possible case but I was recently told my ex has been speaking to someone about gaining access to our son, and although he never has in the five years since I gave birth, I have also never heard any ...

I don't want to meet his daughter until we have discussed our relationship's future!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3835 days ago

21 May 2014 (F) - I'm in a relationship with a man I've been with for about a year and a half. We are happy and very much in love. However, there is a catch. He has a young daughter. He and I have talked and I have met her a couple times with other friends of his. ...

My child's Grandmother is trying to take my son!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3836 days ago

21 May 2014 (F) - My son's biological father, we'll call him "Cord", his mother "Jackie" is trying to get visitation with my son. Cord is deceased, he got drunk on Father's day, never called to see my son or ever acknowledged that my son was his, and he fell off of a ...

This is a babyshower question. I want to make a good impression.What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3836 days ago

20 May 2014 (F) - hi, I know this isn't a relationship question, but this question site is the only one I like, I don not like any others so help would be appreciated, thankyou I am holding a baby shower on sunday and have a few cakes to bake - as well as all of t...

A family, torn apart by congenital and mental disease - how can we help? What do we do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3837 days ago

20 May 2014 (M) - I am 64 years old, happly married and living in a Mediterranaean Island. My daughter who is 36 is living in Dubin, Ireland with her daughter and her partner. My daughter's partner is probably bipolar and suffereing from other personality ...

Should I try again with my ex? We have 2 daughters and have been apart for 4 years.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3837 days ago

19 May 2014 (F) - My question is whether it is a good idea to try have a relationship with an ex again when there is children involved? My ex wants to get back together after 4 years apart, and even though I would like to try, I have a fear it would affect our...

My wife gave her phone number to a former lover and says I am over reacting!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3837 days ago

19 May 2014 (M) - Through the wonders of Facebook my wife was contacted by one of her former lovers. I don't know why but she gave him her cell phone number and he started calling her. I discovered one of these voicemail messages when she asked me to check somethin...

How do I get over all this hurt and move on from this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3837 days ago

18 May 2014 (F) - Hi everyone I'm just looking for a bit of advice, I'm really hurting and angry infact confused and I just don't know how to get over this or move on from it. I'll tell u briefly about the history. 3 years with a guy a few years older than me (3...

My friend told me she can't throw my baby shower and I'm scrambling for ideas! Help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3838 days ago

18 May 2014 (F) - in desperate need of some ideas my "friend" was all set for throwing me a baby shower, which I was very very excited about. I asked for it to be held in my house so I didn't have to bother about traveling anywere whilst tired afterwards, which I ...

My siblings had bad relationships so I'm not allowed to date

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3837 days ago

18 May 2014 (F) - My dad won't let me date because of my siblings' past relationships! I have four sisters and one brother who are all in their late 20's and 30's. Their relationships would sink and my parents would baby them! I don't know what to do. I'm almost 18 ...

How do I ignore the judgmental and stupid comments she makes and how do I get past it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3841 days ago

16 May 2014 (F) - I've been with my bf for over four years. I know his mom very well too. Over the course of our relationship I found that she is really difficult to talk or relate to. Overall she is a nice lady but ALL (and I mean ALL) she talks about is Gucci this ...

Moving back home has changed the relationship with my Mother

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3841 days ago

16 May 2014 (M) - Hi, I apologise for what might be an essay-length post in advance. In 2011 I left home to attend university and spent two years living away. Without overemphasising its importance too much, this was an enjoyable and changing experience for m...

Wife said I could leave so she can take care of ailing mother.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3837 days ago

15 May 2014 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 3 years and been together for 6. We are very happy and close and I couldn't ask for a better partner! Sometime before we met her mother was diagnosed with a rare cancer and given a very brief life expectancy, ...

What’s wrong with my friend? How can I help her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3841 days ago

14 May 2014 (F) - I have a friend. She’s like a sister to me. I’ve known her since she was born, which is 6 months after me. Our moms were best friends and they were both single moms. I had no father and her parents were divorced. For years I’ve thought that she has ...

I'm so sick and tired of being leeched off of.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3842 days ago

14 May 2014 (M) - Here's the situation. I use to live alone in a two bedroom apartment. One room for me to sleep, use computer, hang out, etc. The other room was my workout room with all my weights, benchs, punching bag, etc. I enjoyed the solitary lifestyle. My own ...

Should I confront my sister over her affair with a married professor?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3842 days ago

14 May 2014 (F) - My little sister (age 20) and I have always been so close and tell each other everything. She has always been very conservative and reserved. I've never had to worry about her because she has never given me a reason to. Well just recently, I notice...

He found a smudge on the wall .........

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3843 days ago

13 May 2014 (F) - I have been living with my partner for 10 years. We have 2 kids. My name is not on anything because I am trying to up my credit score (bad credit). He is an ocd neat freak. I am messy. The house isn't a nightmare, but it's not pristine either. He ...