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Archived questions from: October, 2012 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Is my girlfriend getting on line and chatting because she is at home and bored?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

31 October 2012 (M) - While I am out at work my girlfriend does nothing all day except chat to guys and flirt on the internet. I have found out about this now for the fourth time in a year. We almost broke up for good, and now I find she is doing it yet again. It is hard ...

I want a girlfriend, how can I approach the girls I go to college with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4440 days ago

31 October 2012 (M) - i goto college and when i walk around college there are some really attractive girls. what I want to know is what should I say to them. I have never seen them before in my life and I want a girlfriend so what can I say to them when I go up to ...

This situation is a mess, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - Here's a triangle love story that soon enough is going to turn into a disaster.. There this guy let's call him(mark)and a girl(cindy) and me..so mark really liked me,and I wasn't aware of it but I very well knew that cindy liked mark cuz she conf...

Is this how disagreements should pan out? When I argue with her I feel completely emasculated

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

31 October 2012 (M) - Hi there So me and my girlfriend were supposed to go away this weekend leaving on Friday. Now I had a sports game on the Friday afternoon and I needed to sort out the times of the game before I could confirm with her if I would play or if I wou...

Break up or stay with her? She's warned me that she may want to sleep with another guy, just randomly, in the future.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

31 October 2012 (M) - My girlfriend has told me that she thinks there will come a time when she wants to sleep with another guy just randomly. She said she doesn't know when. She said that she now considered us to be only slightly more than friends but wants to stil...

How can I get out of this confused mess that's happened since I split up with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - im in a right mess split up with my ex. A few months back we occasionally slept together i recently found out he was dating this girl. I felt really hurt as he had slept with me two days before i found out. I went mad and messaged her to tell her ...

His family are polygamist. That's why my parents are against me seeing my Bf. How can I get my parents to accept my Bf?,

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4441 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - I am 18 yrs old and in my first year of college. I have been seeing this amazing guy (Matt) since early september. He is sweet,funny, fun and just an all around nice guy. He is very focused on school and works a part time job. My parents met him ...

They actually filmed her having a heart attack and I don't know how to deal with it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

31 October 2012 (M) - My fiance recently had a heart attack, she's fit and healthy so it was surprising for her to have this - it's due to stress, the doctors say but we can't be sure. It's certainly not her diet, she eats well, a mainly Mediterranean diet, due to being ...

When do you know it's the right time to break up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - When do you know when to break up? Me and my boyfriend have been together about 6 months, which might not sound very long, but its by far my most serious and long term relationship. Most of the time I'm so happy with him, but sometimes I feel like ...

Could my boyfriend be watching porn because he's depressed?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - My partner watches porn and says he does it because he feels depressed. So, to the men... Is this just an excuse or could he be telling the truth? Also, how could looking at pictures of naked women help him to feel better without masturbating...

Should there be a spark at the start of a relationship? Or does it grow with time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

31 October 2012 (M) - Hi Aunts and Uncles My questiom is simple Should there be a spark at the start of a relationship? Five months in now and im just not feeling it... She tells me she loves me a lot which makes me think lots there for her.... Should i end this ...

How can I get my boyfriend back? My lies caused the break up. I lied because I knew he would not like the truth.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for over 3 years now, on and off. He has always complained about my lying but the thing is then I did it to protect him since I knew he wouldn't like the truth. I know now it was stupid of me. Everyt...

Should I let her remarks undermine my trust in him? She claims I was second best, that he chose me because her friend didn't want him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - Hi I found out my boyfriend cheated on me a few years ago Anyways we got back on track solved all the problems in our relationship, and everything was going great. We have a child our own home and I am madly in love with him. My problem is a ...

Could my hunch be right? Could he turn into a stuffy old man who doesn't know how to love life and enjoy life

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - I have a new boyfriend and I feel really comfortable with him. But something bothers me. He does not seem to have many friends. Perhaps no close friends at all. He talk about work colleagues. It's as if he arrived in this world and never made ...

He acts like every little problem is doomsday. Is this relationship viable? For a long term future together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - I am losing feelings for my boyfriend. I am 44, he is 47. We have been dating for almost 2 years. He works too much and we hardly ever see each other. I keep telling myself that I'm getting used to it...but I'm not. I feel sorry for myself...

I loaned boyfriend money and he hasn't paid it all back but I may need it! How do I go about this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - Hi everyone. My problem is I grew up poor and I worry about money. I earn enough to pay my bills and save a bit. From time to time I have given my bf money when he needed help, and recently this has happened 2 months in a row. Plus a couple of times ...

Dating for 2.5 years turning into a FWB relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

31 October 2012 (M) - Hi Agony Aunts, I've posted a few questions here as of late (some anonymous), My (now ex) girlfriend broke up with me just under 2 weeks ago saying that we are now on different levels in our lives but that she still loves me - but not sure if she'...

Some basic rules that will help you to have better dating experiences. Can you add to the list?

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31 October 2012 (M) - It's been a while since I was last here, and I've changed A LOT since then. I'm currently in college, single, and looking into a lot of things I haven't thought about before, until I made the friends I have in college. Haha. Well, I'm learni...

What do you do when a guys mum doesn't want you to date him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - my question is simple.....What do you do when a guys mum doesn't want you to date him?.... Okay, so I like this guy...But there is one problem, His mum simply will not let me date him, according to her I am too young for him... Is 2 years that big...

Would it be ok to ask her out when she turns 16?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

31 October 2012 (M) - ok this is going to sound so wrong to moit of you but its been palying on my mind for do long now i need help badly i am 21 yet i have felaing for a 15 year old i know this is so wrong as of the age gap but i genuinly have fealings for her ITS ...

I can't date him but don't want my friend to date him either!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4442 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - I've recently joined a band and have feelings for member in it. He asked me if I liked him but I didn't want to make things awkward in our band so said know even though I really like him. Over the last few days a friend of mine has been talking to ...

After 3 dates she broke up with me because she said I acted like I didin't like her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

30 October 2012 (M) - hi, this girl i have been seeing has just 'dumped' me, so i was wondering if you help me pleease cos im gutted! basicly i had 3 dates with her, they were all good, i enjoyed them, and she ses she enjoyed them too, and yesterday morning she just...

Timing seems to be my biggest enemy here so will waiting fix that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

30 October 2012 (M) - Hey everyone, I had a general question to ask. A little backstory: I'm dating someone, but we're not bf/gf. Both 17 and seniors in high school. I asked her out and she said she needed to hang out with me a little more. Two months later as I yeste...

Does he still love me? Or there is another girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Im a 15 year old girl and i've dating my bf for 2yrs. We met at school last yr that where we started dating,my problem is that this yr since we in different schools he doen't call or send me sms,when i try to call him he always says "i can't talk ...

Girlfriend is pregnant and wants an abortion but I don't want her to.. How can I deal with this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

30 October 2012 (M) - Hi, I have been dating my girlfriend for a year we just found out she is pregnant - at first she said she was getting an abortion then she changed her mind and was talking to our baby, now she says she is going to get rid of it. I am a very honest ...

Boyfriend often visits Facebook of a sexy bikini girl as an entertainment. Is it okay for a serious relationship with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Hi everyone. The matter I'm going to talk about is: Faithfulness! (oh yeah old issue) *** Brief of the matter: I've just found out he often visits Facebook page of a sexy party clubbing young girl; and sometimes leaves comments, link of song, fl...

Why is it that he only really talks to me when he's horny?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Hey guys so my boyfriend and I and I have been going out for a little over 2 months. Something that I noticed in our relationship is that he only really talks to me when he's horny. I try to make conversation with him but he always runs that...

Random girls? no problem. So why do I have semi-ED with girls I really like ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

30 October 2012 (M) - Hello everyone, i have this lil problem thats driving me crazy :( here is the situation, its about premature ejaculation but the thing is , it never happens to me with random girls that i randomly pick up at clubs and bars. i can last as long as ...

Too many arguments. Where is our relationship going? Whats the best way to handle this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and i have had a few arguments recently. Each time, it comes back to 'where is this going' (our relationship). We have been together for 3+ years but on a few things we can't agree on, so each time, he always brings it back to where is...

For Girls: First Impressions when you meet a guy - is 5 foot six inches tall enough for you? Or do you prefer taller?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

30 October 2012 (M) - Hello This question is mostly for girls Do you find attractive a guy who is 5.6 feet or maybe girls want a guy who is taller. Well I know some responses may be 'a guy must be loyal,caring etc' but my question is related with first impression. T...

Why does he need to date one last girl before he can commit to me? Should I wait while he does this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Help me please ? I am devastated by the fact that the guy I am dating told me he needs meet one girl to be sure he really loves? The guy I date said he thinks he loves me and we have been seeing each other for 3 months now. We were making pla...

Still single and sick of it. How do I put the Zippity Do Dah into my life and Spice things up enough, to learn how to successfully date and become a partner to a nice girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

30 October 2012 (M) - I posted here before 4 years ago. I imagine you probably receive hundreds of messages like this regularly. I thought long and hard about whether to actually send it. I actually wrote something sinilar to this at the beginning of the year ju...

Guys please: Considering that I'm a 20 year old virgin, the question is, am I doing something wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - I am 20 years old and still a virgin. I should also start by pointing out that I'm not fat or ugly, in fact I'm blonde with big boobs (both of which are real), a small waist and really good skin (I swear I'm not super up myself). I've dated (bu...

Your perfect match is out there, waiting to meet you. Never give up hope.

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30 October 2012 (F) - When you are dating, or in a long term relationship, or married, i wouild like to say how to keep it going. Every relationship takes a lot of work and it takes two to tango, and a lot of balance and patence and love. So take your time and dont rus...

Why is he so interested to see the inside of my home? Does this mean he wants to get serious?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Hello y'all , I have been dating a guy for a few months - close to 3, but I have known him for a while. We were friends before anything happend. Things seem to be going well, we don't text every day, more like every other and I see him once, so...

My Gf will not give up on me and yet her loyalties are divided. She's cheating again. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - My gf is torn between two. She left me in the past for this women and she is currently is doing it again. So I broke it off but we still live together and she sits and lies to my face about the situation but when I cough up everything she w...

The problem here is that we can't do certain positions when we make love. Would this problem be the result of the size of my penis? (4 inches)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

30 October 2012 (M) - Ok so me and my gf are living a pretty good sex life.. even though I am young we are sexually active.. Ok so the problem here is that we can't do certain positions and I was wondering if it had anything to do with my penis size.. I am only 4 inches...

How do I come out to my Mom and tell her that I'm a Lesbian?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Modnote: Your very long post was shortened as below is the crux of your question, which is clear,and is below. Your extensive account of prior events do demonstrate that you prefer girls and believe you are a Lesbian. But your question is the ...

Why does his Dad hate me so much? How should I deal with this, considering my Bf is in the middle of all this disagreement about me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - My bf and I have just recently celebrated our one year anniversary. We get along great, hes my best friend. We've had some hardships, however. I have a daughter from a previous relationship. The father isnt in the picture, hasnt been since before s...

My girlfriend and I are at a cross-roads and unsure where to do and both of us seem unwilling to budge.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

30 October 2012 (M) - My GF and I have been together for nearly 4 years. She lives in her own place (with a mortgage) and i live at home (due to other reasons but i can now afford to move out etc which i am looking to do so). I've talked with my GF about this and the ...

My boyfriend ABANDONED ME far from home today!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - THIS IS A LONG ONE BUT PLEASE READ ALL OF IT AND LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU THINK: First of all, we have been together for 3 years. We're both 22 years old. We just moved in together a few months ago. We're both going to the same college full time. ...

Could use a bit of advice... this girl sucks but I can't quit her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

29 October 2012 (M) - So I basically just need to tell someone this story and get some potential advice on what I should do. This is kind of a follow up to an existing post I have here: http://www.dearcupid.o...

Why doesn't my boyfriend say "I love you" to me in person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - my boyfriend said he loved me only two months into the relationship over a message. He then said it over the phone and then said it a few times in person. Now he doesn't say it in person but only over messages. Before when I used to leave him in ...

Am I bad for faking orgasms with my boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - I am a 26(F) with my boyfriend 25(M). We haven't been dating a super long time, but we fell in love and got very close very fast. He is wonderful, and I love the shit out of him and would do most anything for him. I can totally picture myself being ...

If your 15 year old daughter had a boyfriend, how would you react?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - Okay, so i am 15, and i want to tell my mom about my boyfriend. If your daughter came to you and told you this, how would you react? How would you want to be told?...

I like two women. Do I date the one who is single or wait for the one who is separated?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

29 October 2012 (M) - Hello. I am not sure what I should do. I am in a very tough spot. :( This is the story. I like two women and have feelings for both and they both like me. One is single/available and the other is going through a separation. Do I start to date th...

I wish my boyfriend would be a little more affectionate!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend is more of a id rather see you than Text or call you kind of guy. I dont remember him ever wanting to call or text me. Im usually the one who text messages first. I asked him if he feels anything when i txt him and he says no i just see ...

Is 5 sex partners by age 21 ok?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4357 days ago

29 October 2012 (?) - Hi. I am curious whether it is ok/normal for a 21 year old boy to have slept with 5 girls. I am a 20 year old virgin and my boyfriend admitted he slept with 5 girls previously. I shouldn't have asked about his past, but I was curious and didn't want ...

My boyfriend couldn't keep his erection. Is it because he doesn't find me attractive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - Ok so I've been with my boyfriend for over 2 months now and this weekend we finally got some us time. Things began to get physical between us ( it wasn't planned jut felt right at the time) after some foreplay we decided it was time to take our...

Did I ruin things before they could even begin?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - Dear aunts and uncles. Please help me. I have totally muucked things up with a guy who I really like and who I think was perfect for more. I feel sick at what I have done, or more importantly how stupid I have acted. I am 31 and can't beleive...