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Archived questions from: 23 October, 2012 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

If I become a Chartered Accountant will it turn off girls? Will they see me as boring?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

23 October 2012 (M) - I'm already a bit shy and not good with girls. I'm trying to figure out what do to as a career, and I'm considering becoming a Chartered Accountant as I'm good at it and it does pay exceedingly well. But I'm worried if it will turn girls off. ...

Being on top does not work for me. Am I doing it wrong? Why do I not like it that well, but he loves it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - Hi, I really need some help. I have the most amazing lover ever in bed. I consider myself to be one of the luckiest ladies ever. This man's not only great to me in bed but emotionally as well. He is my soulmate for sure. However, I have a ...

Best places and best strategies to meet women? What do you suggest? And are my co-workers right about random approaches to meet women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

23 October 2012 (M) - Hello all. I am 23 years old and i just moved into a new city where i barely know anyone. So far it has been 4 months and I feel like my love life has been a bit slower. To be honest I know I am very shy when it comes to approaching women, b...

Psycho girlfriend treats me so badly ever since she thought I was cheating

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

23 October 2012 (M) - What can I do to cover my own butt? My girlfriend of 2 years has anger issues. It all started a year ago at a friend's wedding in New York. my phone died and when I got back into our hometown she refused to pick me up from the airport. she was ...

I could have had her, didn't want her. Now I can't have her and I want her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

23 October 2012 (M) - I saw this girl out who i used to always meet up with on nights out and we'd always chat and get with each other most of the night. We never slept together or pursued it to anything more, i knew she wanted more as in a relationship, but i suppose i ...

Boyfriend's habits have changed. Is he cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - I just need a clarity on this matter. My boyfriend is those kind of guys that wear uniform to work and changes their shirts maybe 3 times in a week. My concern is that this past 2 months he has been acting strangely, he now changes the shirts ...

Ladies: Is it a deal breaker if a guy is bald?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2847 days ago

23 October 2012 (M) - I have a crush on this kinda shy younger girl I work with. She's very cool, shy, friendly and I happen to think she's beautiful. The problem is I'm 10 years older than her and I'm bald. We wear hats where we work so she probably doesn't know thi...

Should I trust my LDR girlfriend? She grinds with other guys

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

23 October 2012 (M) - I recently started dating a girl at the school I just graduated from. It's a semi-long distance relationship; thus far we've been able to see each other at least once a month, if not more. However, there are times when we are apart. I trust her ...

My boyfriend is going to marry someone else to please his parents!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - I'm stuck and don't know what to do. Two years ago I met my current boyfriend(?) He wanted us to get married and for me to live with him and his parents. I agreed but when I met his parents they were horrible to me and my family. Basically they w...

I tell him what I want when we make love, but he always reverts to his basic style. How do I convince him to be more adventurous in bed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4330 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend is my best friend and I love him dearly. That's why it seems soo ridiculous that I fantasize about breaking up with him so I can have sex with other men. When we first got together, things were hot and heavy. The sex was pretty basic...

Is it injurious to my health that daily I only talk to my Bf? I'm tired, sad, and ready to walk out.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - Hi I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years and I moved to the city 6 months ago when he got a new job. I still love him dearly but the problem is I'm lonely have no friends and feel severely depressed. I work from home and have little energy to...

Is my Bf implying that he's a virgin? He changed the subject when I asked.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend and I were speaking about sex when he said "I can't compare my performance to anything? When I asked what he meant he changed the subject? So peeps my question is what are your thoughts on this? I automatically thought ...

A friend of my Bf keeps offering him smokes. My Bf knows I don't like this. Do I have the right to ask him to refuse to smoke?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend of 6 months very occasionally smokes ~ I've only seen him do it a couple of times, and every time this has been when he has been with his one friend who I'll call 'C'. I'm not completely sure what it is that C smokes, but I think it's ...

Am I allowed to play the field in this situation? I don't want to break hearts.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

23 October 2012 (M) - ok so I haven't had a full-on relationship for about almost 3 years now, all I have been doing is going out weekends having one night stands and having fwb. Now however I have 3 girls that I can really have a proper strong relationship with. A...

14 going out with a 12 year old?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - hi, I'm a 14 year old girl and just yesterday, I was asked out by a 12 year old boy that I liked. I'm really scared that people will make judgements about the age difference and my mum fears I will get bullied for it. He is really sweet and caring ...

Would you put up with a jealous man just so you could get the other nice things back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - I recently split up with my boyfriend because I found him on a dating site and even when I confronted him he said it wasn't him and even blamed me for setting it up. Well he wasn't very nice to me, very paranoid, jealous and angry a lot. I decided ...

I'm jealous that his 16 year old daughter is pregnant!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - Ok I know this is going to generate negative responses but here goes. My longtime baby daddy just informed me that his 16 yr old is 5 months pregnant. One, I can't shake off that he waited 5 months to tell me and second, I can't help but to feel ...

Boyfriend is mean and pressuring me for sex. Should I break up with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - I love my boyfriend of 5 months dearly, but i'm still not ready for sex and he pressures me sometimes. We have different religious views and his parents don't want to meet me,and on top of that he can be soo mean to me. But he can also be soo sweet. ...

What hope is there for us? We can't be together right now and we fight weekly

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4419 days ago

23 October 2012 (M) - We saw each other for 5 months, then separated because of distance, continued LDR on and off for 3 months and then finally ended it because she wasn't ready and have never since tried to be friends. I've tried numerous times to just leave her b...

He lies to me. Do I keep putting up with this? I do love him, just tired of being treated like a doormat

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - I found out my partner had cheated gave him a second chance everything seemed to go well but then I found out he wasn't telling the whole truth of his affair I told him the lies are now worse than the affair, he said he knows that but he didn't want ...

Am I too controlling for wanting to help?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

23 October 2012 (M) - Hello all, I was curious to get a second opinion on a situation. Now my girlfriend is notoriously for procrastinating, motivating herself, forgetting to do important things, and is very lazy, to the point where if I ask about something she was supp...