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Archived questions from: 24 October, 2012 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Do I stay and hope he can contain his love of gambling? Or do I go?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - me and boyfriend have been together a year, we now live together and i love him very much. i have a daughter from a previous relationship who he is great with. the problem is he likes to gamble, hes currently awaiting his date to join the army, s...

I am concerned for my Bi-polar Bf. Our last meeting was acrimonious. Should I go to see him or wait for him to make contact?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - I'm so upset. My boyfriend has bipolar disorder, and he gets really nasty sometimes when he has drunk alcohol. He had a few drinks today, even though he told me that he wasn't going to get drunk. He also told me that he wasn't going to see his...

When I mention forplay he cringes. How do I encourage him to try to provide more foreplay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am puzzled how to ask my boyfriend for a foreplay and give him hints on what I want. I am trying to be delicate and not sure if my ways are working. We used to have had great sex, he would always listen to my suggestions and try...

Would a guy choose a physical attraction over an emotional attachment?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - I am interested in hearing male and female opinions on my question. If a guy liked two girls, which one would win out in the end, the one he has a physical connection to or the one he has an emotional connection to? Both women are attractive and h...

I've decided to finish it but how do I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - Update http://www.dearcupid.org/question/boyfriend-is-renting-out-spare-room-to-another.html his flatmate moved in and they went out together to celebrate as it has solved both their money troubles , i didnt get invited and he never said about ...

How can I change my boyfriend's lifestyle?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - hi aunts and everyone! i just need some advice! im in a long distance with my boyfriend around 1 year now! we're really far from each other he lives in another country, here's the thing, i know my boyfriend, he's such a hard working person, he's so ...

I have a girlfriend but I just can't shake my feelings for another girl!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

24 October 2012 (M) - I could use some help! I have been seeing my girlfriend for eight months but I just can't shake the feelings I have for another girl. She has been my friend for two years and it started out as just a friendship because she was in another relation...

How to put the spark back into a relationship that is long distance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4417 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - I need some direction back to the less travelled path of loyalty, honesty, and love. I'm lesbian... have been with my lesbian girlfriend for three years. I'm a very emotionally needy person. I need to be contacted every day: emailed, phoned, texted, ...

Girlfriend of 3 years has confused feeling between me and another...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

24 October 2012 (M) - My girlfriend and I had been together for 3 years, it has been the best 3 years of my life, we have conquered every kind of task possible. we even had to do the long distance thing for about year because she went to school elsewhere. we had fought ...

Why doesn't he contact me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for about 4months now, and we can go days not seeing each other with minimal boring texting to days spent together and really happy and intense. He will never tell me if he wants to see me, I always have to be the one to a...

Why do guys want and like you more when you don't give them your attention?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - why is it when you like a guy and you're all affectionate and flirty with each other, you've even made it clear that you like him and that you want more than what you already are, they act oblivious to it or don't say much on the idea and lead you ...

She tells me she loves me but is she just using me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

24 October 2012 (M) - Dear Cupid, I hope you can help? I will try and give you as much history as I can to make the picture clear. I can count on one hand the serious relationships I have had in my life. But everyone of those relationships ended with them ch...

Should I tell him I'd like to go along to his meeting too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - Hi. My boyfriend is interested in new age religion, and is thinking of attending a group meeting about one particular one this weekend, to see how he feels about it. (I won't go into details because the actual religion is unimportant and ...

Could he like me too or is it just coincedence?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4418 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - So, I have this classmate. I think I really like him. Last night we went out together, but as friends, I guess. We were sitting at the bar and were laughing all the time. He layed his arm right next to mine and touched my hand. He just kept it that ...

Am I too needy? I'm a man who likes to snuggle

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

24 October 2012 (M) - hi I generally have a question for the guys but don't mind girls' opinion. if I'm in bed with a woman I tend to snuggle quite a lot. They don't do it to me as much as I do it to them. I hold their hand, carress her shoulders, play with her hair, h...

I can't imagine dating someone else, he's all I want

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

24 October 2012 (M) - I've never had a relationship nor never been in love but god blessed me with the exact type of guy I wonted and saved myself for. We been together for 4 months. We both fell in love with each other. But things started to change with. He started a ...

Have we grown apart since we were young when we met?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - I have been with my current boyfriend for almost 4 years, and I turn 21 next month, he is already 21. Sometimes when I spend time with him I feel really happy to be with him and when he is away I miss him a lot, we have developed a strong bond (e...

I'm 22 dating a 16 year old and have very conflicting feelings about this

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

24 October 2012 (M) - I'll start things off with honesty since that's the best method of any question. I am 22 with some time to come before I am 23. I haven't dated much, only having 2 girlfriends in my whole existence, yes I have had sex but nothing spectacular to say ...

Is it wrong to feel this passion for my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

24 October 2012 (M) - Ok so I'm 18 years old. I've been with a wonderful girlfriend for going on 3 years. I love her with all my heart but I wanna take your opinion. You see we both are virgins and I think I have a slight problem. Everytime I am alone with my girlfriend ...

How can I flirt and impress this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4417 days ago

24 October 2012 (M) - Theres a girl who recently joined my college.she is also from my home town .and she even knows me because we are family friends..and i really like her.shes my junior in my college.. Problem is that i am 21 and she is 17, so she always hesistat...

Should I call to get this ex-player back in my life? I love him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - Yes he talks to other girls while we were dating... Yes I know he was cutting them off one by one as he did not like his behavior but I broke it off before he could cut the last one off so he continues to talk to her. Now it's been eight months, I...

I am seeking people's opinions of my actions in this failed relationship. What do you think?. I did some bad things, so did she.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

24 October 2012 (M) - so i started seeing a girl as friends id heard a lot about her ( she's easy,been with this person,been with that person etc etc) but i didn't care because i make up my own mind about people and me and this girl got on great so after about a month of...

Should be honest with her and break-up or perhaps try to reignite things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4418 days ago

24 October 2012 (M) - 1. Currently dating a girl for 14 months. 2. Dated in the past but had major bumps, those were worked out and then got back together. 3. Major bumps: her communication with her ex during our first trial and family/cultural/...

Should I stick with no contact, or should I be his friend? Is there any chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - I am a 24 year old female and had been dating a 26 year old guy for about 5 months. We go to graduate school together. He's a really sweet guy that has great morals and values. He usually initiates calls/text messages 80% of the time, he's really t...