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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Here's a triangle love story that soon enough is going to turn into a disaster..There this guy let's call him(mark)and a girl(cindy) and me..so mark really liked me,and I wasn't aware of it but I very well knew that cindy liked mark cuz she confided in me,me and mark are really good friends,he's like my 4 am friend but one night in that 4 am convo he told me he really likes me and if I said yes it would make him the happiest man in the world,I said NO I dint give him a reason but I said no cuz of cindy..and he cried and we kinda drifted away..and I brought him close to cindy and I realised then what I'v lost,and I. Was happy for them..about 3 weeks ago he texted saying he's going to break up with cindy cuz he thought he's over me but he isn't..I want to date him,after he breaks up with cindy.so he broke up with cindy telling he likes me and he's sorry for things not working out..now cindy tells me that I shldnt date him cuz he's a jerk!and if I do then that's the end of our friendship..I told her I like him too,she said then make ur choice its either him or her?what do I do??I tried talking to cindy she's being very stubborn and immature abt the situation..she's told me she can't see her best friend(which is me)and her ex boyfriend together and that it is traumatising for her,which I agree wld be hard,so she wants to drift apart!what do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2012): Let the guy go girl, he can break your heart
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reader, Fender +, writes (1 November 2012):
Look at from her point she so into a guy, had finally went out with her she think going really well. Til sorry i have to break up with you cause i like friend. Either way you looked at her pride was hurt.Now she hurting, and maybe feeling betrays cause, she didnt know you like him. Til after mark dump her cause he like you. No dout she ANgry n confused. Anger is easyer to express then confusion. Give some space to heal n pull-self together. Then try to talk to her explain to the whole story, like how you didnt wanna tell her u like him out respect for her. Trust me having the guy u like, attracted to your close mate is a hard pill to take. But i think a true friend will understand once she got over hurt pride n accepted truth.Also mark has a small part to blame. He like you but when u turn him down he went out with your mate. Maybe not intentionally but he used to reboot his ego, n mess with once then one friendship. It happen i know i think he could gone about it a better way.
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