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Archived questions from: 22 October, 2012 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I don't want to hurt this guy but I don't want to date him. How do I let him down gently?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - HI :) Well basically I just wanted to know how to let a guy down gently and tell him that you're not interested in him. So I am in a band and one of the members 'really likes me' and wants to ask me out, I mean don't get me wrong he's a lovely g...

Has my Boyfriend cheated on me with his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - Dear all, I am so hurt and miss my boyfriend after breaking up with him. I will try to keep this short, i meet him last Feb. we hit it off. Initially we started off fine, met him saturday nights with my friend and his, it was difficult to get o...

It's annoying me that I've never had a Bf. What should I do to remedy the situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I have just turned 24 and its annoying me that i have never had a boyfriend i get told nice things about my looks and people are shocked i dont have a boyfriend, i just dont get it. I am shy but i thought if a guy liked you he would make a point...

What do you guys think about a male engagement ring to show that the man is betrothed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - what do guys think about wearing an engagement ring? my bf of 2 years proposed to me out of the blue 6 weeks ago. i was shocked, happy and said yes! when we talked about marriage months ago, i recall he said he thought a man should do the prop...

I love him, but I need to understand if his sexual fetishes are OK or not? One example: He likes me to dress as a school girl when we have sex.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - To give you a bit of background I'm not very sexually experienced. I've slept with two people in long-term relationships before my current partner and he is my third sexual partner (he is 23). In both my previous relationships, I had passionate, ...

I know I get jealous but is it normal for a man to keep so many online pictures of women he has known or knows?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - So my fiance of 10 months now is wonderful. My only concern is that he has a thing for having girl friends on his xbox and facebook. I know I should trust him and I do its just I dont know if this is normal. He doesn't flirt with them really b...

Should I worry that b/f contacted girls while we broke up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend on and off for almost a year. I an not proud but I recently did a search through his phone. I found that he had searched a few girls. I confronted him about this and he admitted they were coworkers he is attracted to. ...

He 'likes' so many sexy girls on FB. What should be my plan of action tl deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - Hi there. I have a bit of an issue and was wondering what you guys and girls think. My boyfriend of less than a year has started "liking" pages on fb that feature bikini-clad/naked girls that post daily pictures. He liked one today and it really h...

How do you people handle loved ones with OCD?? It's driving me nuts!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in a live in relationship for the past 2 years. He is a kind,loving man but I have major issues with his OCD and its driving me nuts. 1)We are not allowed to have house parties because he doesn't want the place to get...

Do guys who are in a committed relationship fantasize about other women in their life like colleagues etc, while masturbating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid Do guys who are in a committed relationship fantasize about other women who come into their life like collegues etc, while masterburating. I am not talking about movie stars or rock stars, just the normal women whom we see almost everyday...

After I asked him to used a condom he lost interest. He's drifting away from me. What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - things has changed he used to text me every hour, checking up on how im doing and made time to see me everynight after work... ever since i told him that we should use a condom we never had sex at all i will tell him that i want him but he doesnt s...

LDR: how do I determine if I'm being played?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I have a question about a 'relationship' I'm in. I am sort of seeing a guy, I say sort of for reasons I'll explain in this question. I met him while I was visiting a friend abroad. I ended up having what I thought to be a one night stand, he ...

I'm so good looking, its annoying! How can I approach a guy for sex without getting into anything serious?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I am good looking to the limit of annoyance, it caused me a great deal of trouble looking the way I do. I had major psychological issues because of my looks, I isolated my self thinking everyone interested in me because I am pretty I felt li...

I try my hardest to be both mum and dad for my son but I'm finding it so hard, and I feel so guilty that his dad isn't there for him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - Hi everyone I need some advice regarding my son. He is 6 and he's very bright. His dad has never been present in his life, he's never met him. He decided when I was pregnant that he had no interest and has remained the same, despite all m...

I haven't felt this sad or hurt in ages and I just don't know what to do. He was so nice and now he just seems to have run away!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I'm 49 and I can't believe I've allowed myself to be put in this position. I've been seeing a guy and it's been like fireworks. Thrilling every time. Now, after telling me he loves getting my messages and texts (some quite racy)...he hasn't replied ...

I'm 19 and I don't understand why I can't find someone to to be my partner. Can you give me some tips on how to find the ONE?.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

22 October 2012 (M) - hi i am a 19 old guy who has a lot of love to give but hard to find someone. looking back on my life i had many crushes but they all had someone. i have tried everything from putting myself out there to lowering my standards and i don't like tha...

Really confused right now. I could really use some advice on dating, please?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

22 October 2012 (M) - I've been dating this girl for about three weeks now. We initially met online and have been chatting and SMS-ing since about June. However due to illness and busy work schedules, we weren't able to meet up until earlier this month. She was the on...

Halloween anniversary. But will we still be together by then? Help

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - So I have been with my boyfriend for three years this halloween. When we first hung out, it was absolutely fun, it came to the point he was calling his mother to see what to do about falling in love with me. We both have been through some horr...

We've already broken up twice. So is there any hope we can have a future together??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - My ex and I had been together 6 months and things seemed to be going just fine. But once school started he began to pull away. After 8 days he told me that i was beginning to annoy him and that wed have to break up if it didn't stop. I started...

But which one? The guy who drinks a lot and is cheating on me versus the nice good looking guy? And why do I still feel so much for the first guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I am confused, i am in a good relationship with a great guy, who loves me and the sex is great. however he's in a relationship with the mother of his daughter.(they stay in the same house, she doesn't have anywhere else to go, plus he loves th...

How to stop Boyfriend taking advantage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - Lately, i've been feeling like my boyfriend is taking advantage. He never seems to give me any notice for anything - always assumes i am free and just demands it instead of asking. If he wants to stay over mine on a friday night (he doesn't alwa...

How do I get my boyfriend to clean up after himself?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years. I live by myself and he still lives with his mom. He comes and stays from Fri-Sun/Mon. Before he comes over, i usually give the house a bit of a clean if it is messy. WHen he leaves, it is like a bomb that ...

We've been fighting every day for months. Is it any wonder I have trust issues over her sexting etc

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years now and we've been fighting nearly everyday for the past few months. We have sat down and talked about this and the arguments stopped for about a week. Now it's the same old arguments. Heres the tricky p...

Is my ex putting me on the back-burner in case her new Bf does not work out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

22 October 2012 (M) - My ex and I had a good 4yr relationship and was going to marry in the future but broke up because she said I didn't give her enough attention which really wasn't true. She found someone else a few months after the break but we're still friends and ...

I'm falling for this guy, but I'm confused as I don't want to hurt him. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - so i am pretty young, 18. i have a child he is 1 1/2 years old. my sons dad has been out of the picture for 1 year. i got a job at a local store and i met this guy we'll call him X. he is 26 has 2 children and works at the same store. we have ...

B/f accuses me of cheating on him but I didnt do anything wrong!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend a year and a half. We live together and have never been apart more than a day. He is constantly accusing me of cheating on him and doesn't trust me at all. (He is 40 and I'm 27 by the way) Every single girl he has ever ...