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Archived questions from: 18 October, 2012 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Zero success with dating and I need advice!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

18 October 2012 (M) - I thought I’d reach out on the net and ask for some advice or insight on this. I’m soon to be 27 and I've never really had a romantic relationship with a woman. I just don’t understand the why of it. The more I consider the question the more I ...

We have been secretly dating for 6 months and our anniversary is coming up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4397 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - He and I have been a couple for 6 months now, none of our friends, family members, acquaintances, teachers or anybody knowing. We have kept it a secret between the two of us because his friends would NEVER approve of me and our relationship. If you ...

How can I treat my fiance on my low budget?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - Me and my fiance have been together for 6 years now. We are both 23. We love each other so much and the relationship is great.he is a traditional kind of man and has always been about the man pays for the dates and he says he wants to pay and loves ...

He's a good guy but soooo boring!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - I ve met this really nice guy, who I date now for 6 months. He is everything any woman can wish for: handsome, has a good job, good natured, we managed not to have a single fight, gentleman. But, I can't believe I m actually saying it, he i...

My boyfriend wants us to marry but I'm scared and I miss my single life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - Hello, I need a little help. I met my boyfriend a little over a year ago and within a month we were officially together. He was 25 and I was 21. He finished engineering school a few months later and we moved to his new job. It is close enough t...

My partner is in contact with his ex but lies about it. Am I right to be concerned or am I making it more than it is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - Hi, Bit of back ground. Me and my bf started a long distance relationship we met through a long time mutual friend. I was happy being single and he was in limbo with his fiancée. However he was just waiting for the appropriate time to end it. D...

Is she protecting my feelings or is she using me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4422 days ago

18 October 2012 (M) - So I've known a girl for a few years now and when I tried to let her know I had a crush on her she told me she thought I was just a friend. We have hung out, just the two of us since then. I also picked her up from work early when she was sick. Then ...

Who should be the one asking for a second date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4422 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - Hello, a guy I'd known through acquaintances messaged me on facebook just over a week ago. We hit it off, and he asked me out for a drink. It went really well, he's lovely and conversation was easy and interesting. He kissed me at the end, and I ...

My fiance went in for a closer look at a woman. Has your guy ever done this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - I saw her first. This woman was talking to the mail lady in the alley from my fiance's 2nd floor apartment. I saw them talking from the window I was at. The woman was raking leaves and putting them in the wheel barrow. It looks like she was hired to ...

I have self esteem issues over this. How do I learn to cope with my fiance staring at women?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - We attended a job luncheon together and the field is dominated by women. Of course there was a blonde woman sitting not too far from us in a beautiful gray suit dress with her legs crossed and her chair was angled out from the table to hear the...

Seems he might like to still see me for sex. But how should I handle his offer?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - I met a man on an on-line dating site. He kept asking me out finally I met him at a coffee shop well we hit it off I don't recall all that he was saying I just knew I enjoyed his company for hours of sitting and talking. It was strange how ...

Why is he now shrinking from holding my hand in public? Is this a sign that he's less interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4423 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for two years and September 20th is our third year anniversary. We've haven't had sex yet because I'm still a virgin but that hasn't harmed our relationship one bit. The only thing that's been botherin...

The Ex factor. How do I stop becoming obsessed with my partner's ex girlfriends and ex-wife?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4422 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - I am doing my usual self-destructive stuff that is driving my new boyfriend away. Right now I feel sick to the stomach that I am at this again. Nearly every relationship I have become obsessed with their ex girlfriend/wife. Currently I am ...

I'm pregnant, I look after his son. But he's gone cold on me. And he's talking to his ex. Can we make this work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - Dear cupid. I been dating my boyfriend for nine months now. At first he was the best. Now he acts different towards me and my family. He seems so cold like he doesn't care about nothing. He says he is hard on me to make me stronger, but its on...

Does 'taking a break' mean she's broken up with me? Devastated. She is the girl for me. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4422 days ago

18 October 2012 (M) - I'm in a crisis state with my girlfriend (hopefully not soon-to-be-ex) our relationship was largely great. we had our issues, but whenever we fought we always worked through them in the end and would kiss and make up. last week we got into a h...

We're hopelessly incompatible. So how do I prepare myself for the break-up?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - I deeply and truly love this guy and we've been in a committed relationship for the past two years. However, I have realised (he realises it too, but won't admit it) that we're hopelessly incompatible. We make each other miserable but we still st...

I's been a month now and I want her back. How can I put things right with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4423 days ago

18 October 2012 (M) - I want to know if any of you consider I’m worth another chance. I was with my ex for 4 and half years we have done a lot of travel together and been thru a lot and the best thing was the trust well I was the most trusting guy u could get no matte...

Why is it that I seem to be the only one wanting this to work??. What should I do? My guy friend is disinterested

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4422 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - So... Today... Has been a pretty bad day. To start off the day...i almost lost my guy friend. He decided it was ok to talk to his ex gf. I done told him I don't care who he talks to but he insists tht he didn't want me to have any guy friends....

What should I do? Because I'm Falling for my boyfriend's best friend! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4424 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - Hey guys , so I have a boyfriend well ... We have the most complicated relationship. We used to have a great relationship but now he seems to act differently, I've asked if he's okay or if I did something wrong to see if I can fix things but he a...

Friend's obsession with her b/f and their problems is really getting to me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - i have a friend who is dating an raf man. all she ever talks about is him. if he dosent text, she analyses evrything and her moods go from up to down. one minute shes crying, then if he texts shes back to normal. as i live with her, i get it all the ...