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Archived questions from: 3 October, 2012 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How can I change my boyfriend's mind about my dogs and convince him they aren't vicious? He wants me to get rid of them!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - Help me please! My boyfriend wants me to get rid of my dogs! My dad is a police dog trainer, and ever since i was a kid i've been used to having big dogs. I live on my own and i have two grown rottweilers and just adopted a pitbull puppy. I have ...

Does the way he act towards other women on Skype mean he isn't as interested in me? Men's opinions please.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - I've been interested in this man who is currently casually dating. We just went out several times. Other than me, I know he has other women he's casually going out with too. I am online almost always and when I see him online at Skype, I wanted to ...

My parents seemed cold towards meeting my black girlfriend, then later mom called and said she wanted bi-racial babies. What do I say?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

3 October 2012 (M) - I'm a senior in college and over the summer I brought my gf home to meet my folks. We had been dating for a year and wanted to wait before meeting each other's families. So the first half of the holiday we went to her parents' in another state---it ...

I don't want to lose her, but we have some trust issues. But could it be that I don't satisfy her sexually?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

3 October 2012 (M) - I'm 45 shes 31 - dating a month. On every other level we have a blast - we click, but when it comes to sex lately I think there are some trust issues that arise. I'm use to doing the pleasing but I'm not seeing that in her, its more shes trying t...

He's my ex and now he's married. So is he just looking for a booty call with me? Based on his actions?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - My ex dumped me a few years back. We were together a long time. It got really bad at the end. He ended up getting a restraining order against me because i would follow him, (not proud of that). Anyway, we bumped into each other last year. It was n...

Should I feel guilt or shame? I am having a relationship with a guy who used to be best friends with my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

3 October 2012 (?) - I am having secret relationship with my ex-husband no longer former best friend's, is this trouble or what? Here is the background of how and why this developed. It started eight months after I left and filed for divorce. That is NOT why I left a...

When he walked by me and smiled I was in shock and didn't do anything. Do I ruin my chances?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - A guy I like who i didnt think even knew i existed, walked past me and smiled really nicely i was so shocked i didnt really do anything except gawk...now he won't even look at me and when i try to smile at him now he looks away as if on purpose :( ...

I no longer know if I want to get married. So how do I bring up the subject to him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - I found out my boyfriend has been looking up engagement rings lately. Im happy and flattered. We talked about marriage before and i used to be excited about it. I love him very much and i know he loves me. We have had our trials but we have gott...

I was ill and worried and acting kind of crazy with him. Did I ruin things?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - I've been dating a guy from work for the past 2.5 months. Things had been great up until 3 weeks ago. He started to become distant and I started to chase him. It took me about a week to realize that was what was happening and so I tried to back off. ...

Just started dating but very little sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

3 October 2012 (M) - I have started seeing this girl (28 I am 34) a 2 months ago. We liked each other right away and after a few times we made love. We where both traveling the first month so we only got together briefly 3 times and made love. She then came to my city ...

How do I deal with this? My Bf is constantly implying how much better things would be when we go all the way

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - hello everybody. i'm in a great relationship for about eight months now - thing is, i'm a virgin, and my boyfriend, who is older and more experienced is not exactly sensitive about it. i mean, he doesn't do anything i'm uncomfortable with, but he's...

My husband contributes and so does my Mom. Is my boyfriend contributing enough to live most of the time in my home?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - I've been separated from my husband for over 2 years. I have a boyfriend and we have been dating for 2 years. I live in a house with my three sons and my Mother. My ex husband presently pays $3500 per month for the mortgage and taxes He also gi...

Is a 6-7 year age gap really that big of a deal in dating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

3 October 2012 (M) - I've recently started dating this girl. She's really nice, I get along with her really well. But there's a slight age difference. I'm 22 (23 soon), she's recently turned 30. I've only told a few of my friends about her (we've only been on a ...

Is his eye contact with other women a red flag?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - me and my friend were talking about how her new boyfriebd would be some where with her and she would catch him exchanging eye contact with women. she told me thats a red flag. so recently I have watched my long term boyfriends eyes (been to...

Is it because she has already done it all? She's been wild sexually in the past with others. Now she is happy with if fortnightly.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

3 October 2012 (M) - I have a question and I was hoping I could get some insight from the females on here. I will try to keep it short, but I feel I have to give a little background so you guys know the full story. Both my girlfriend and I are pretty close to getting...

What is right? My wife is saying she has no problem if one of our unmarried daughters chooses to have sex in our home with a Bf. The thought bothers me.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

3 October 2012 (M) - I have kids. In particular, I have daughters. And in particular I have a daughter who is 19. She took a year off after high school and travelled the world. Now she's back home and is trying her hand at university. OK, so she's "of age", so if ...

I am truly doubting my decision to break up. Despite his failings, did I make a mistake to break up with him? Help!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend last Friday and I'm starting to doubt my decision. Did I make a mistake? We had been together for a little over two years and we had been in a LDR for six months (I was the one who had to move due to my dad's job). I...

My younger girlfriend suddenly left me and I cant get over it. What do I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

3 October 2012 (M) - She is 27 and I am 44. We met at work and were together 5 years through good and tough times. Just as it seems everything is finally settling down, as we can finally move on together,she dumps me saying its not working, a week before she moves into ...

Is it over with this guy? He has lots of reasons he says he is busy. Is this his way of ending the relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - Hello, i met this guy about 4 months ago. everything was going well. Until his mom died. After that he is in charge of all the affairs related, at the same time he is going to be retired soon and he is an executive and has a lot to do at work, and...

My B/f and I decided to take a break but I'm having a hard time dealing with it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4438 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - Hi guys , so my boyfriend and I have a really good relationship. But the thing is lately we've been busy and weve had alot of our own problems to deal with. We decided to take a break cause it didn't seem the right time to be in a relationship, I ...

I am so in love with her. But my friend's actions with her, prior to us being a couple, make me feel bad. How do I learn from this? Stay? Or breakup?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

3 October 2012 (M) - I'm in my first relationship with a girl i am madly in love with and have been dating her for nearly a year. she was the first and only person i've kissed or done anything with physically and are relationship is really really good and we have been...

I get very wound up. But he ends up making me feel guilty. Am I over-reacting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years and we're both in our early twenties. We've never had a proper argument, never had a shouting match, never stormed out on the other. What we do have is probably more of a problem on my part, but his ...

How can this be resolved? I have a feeling that my Bf does not want to tell his family that he has a daughter almost 3 years old.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - Hi, I'm 18, and I have a daughter who turns 3 in December Basically, I fell pregnant and I didn't find out until i was 14 weeks pregnant, I'm still with the childs father but here's the tricky part, 2 weeks before I found out I was pregnant, my...