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Dating: Help and advice

I don't know how to feel about dating an army man. Should I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

1 October 2012 (F) - I went out with some girlfriends to a bar a lot of army guys frequent; my friends really wanted to know what it was like to be with (i.e. sleep with) a military man. i wasn't so much into it because they kind of creep me out. but because i know my ...

One..two..I don't know what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

1 October 2012 (F) - I have been with my bf for almost 3 years. He is a wonderful person who treats me really well and I have been happy. But the other night I was out with friends and I met another guy out. There was some serious chemistry and I ended up kissing him. I ...

I love her so much that I'm scared to death to lose her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

1 October 2012 (M) - i've been dating my gf for two years now, and so far everything's been pretty great. really great. it seems to me like she is my first true relationship. i just entered my 30s and i feel like before that i was just drifting through the dating world ...

I texted him how I felt, and he never responded.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

1 October 2012 (F) - A guy that I like and went on a date with texts me good morning and have a nice day often in the morning. And he always seems to do it right as I open my eyes and wake up. Well when he texted me to have a good day this morning, I just told him how I ...

Is a 13 year gap for dating really such a big deal.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

1 October 2012 (F) - I've recently started casually dating a guy who is 13 years older than me, I'm 24. We're having lots of fun, i enjoy his company and its not serious. I get annoyed when we go out because people stare and comment, with one girl actually saying it ...

Does my ex still love me? Is my best friend right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

1 October 2012 (F) - okay so my ex and i have been broken up 6 months. oct 7 would have made it 2 years. we have a daughter he got married to a girl after being together a month and as from what i hear they have alot of problems, anyway when me and him were dating when ...

Should I tell my Fiance I made-out with another women?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

1 October 2012 (M) - Hello, feeling like a piece of crap and could use some advice. I've been with my fiance for 10yrs and we are planning our marriage here soon, and actually just had our engagement party with our friends last week. I love her dearly, we are m...

My g/f is so mature that I feel like I need a "wilder" girlfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

1 October 2012 (M) - my gf is just 22, so am i, and she's very mature for her age. maybe too mature sometimes. she's very responsible and she once told me she's had to be from an early age because her parents worked a lot and she's the eldest of her four little sisters. ...

Can a guy change this much, to become so devoted to me? I'm worried my insecurities and jealousy will ruin it all.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

1 October 2012 (F) - Can anyone give me some advice on this Jealousy, It's getting me down. I have been wih my current partner for about 10/11 months. At the start he was a complete jack the lad, going out every weekend staying out etc. He had a few girl 'friends...

If a man in a relationship had a choice of sex or a blow job, then why does he so often prefer the latter?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

1 October 2012 (F) - I'm trying to better understand men. Psychologically, what makes them more in the mood for a blow job over sex in the context of a relationship?...

How do I tell my sister and her husband about my new boyfriend? How can I get them to accept this relationship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4431 days ago

1 October 2012 (F) - I live with my sister and her husband and am dating a guy they know the most. This guy usually fixes their computer and we fell in love. We are planning to tell them because we are not free because my sister and her husband have a business so they ...

Do good looking people stay single for longer because people are afraid to approach them?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

1 October 2012 (F) - Is it true that good looking people will stay single for a longer time periods than 'average' looking people, because other people (who are more insecure) won't approach them thinking they won't stand a chance anyway? I read this in an article a ...

I want to enjoy sex like my B/f does but I can't seem to because it hurts too much

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

1 October 2012 (F) - I want I know why sex still hurts for me. My first time with my boyfriend on June 8, it hurt a lot. On June 31st we did it again and it hurt a lot. On September 7th we did it again and it still hurt. Is there something wrong with me? I want to enjoy ...

I think I missed my chance to be with this great girl

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4440 days ago

1 October 2012 (M) - I have no idea what to do with this girl. We'll call her Jane. I met her through one of my friends and we dated freshman year of highschool, it wasn't a very long relationship, we broke up because we could never see each other (going to different ...

My mom acts sexy in front of my boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3531 days ago

1 October 2012 (F) - Ok so i have been with this really great guy he is 26 and I'm 27, But i think that he checks out my mother. I don't really know for sure. I asked him about it and he says thats crazy. But here is something i do know for sure. My mother is 48 years ...

What advice can you give for dating a younger man in university?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

1 October 2012 (F) - I'm a 22 year old senior and I like a 20 year old sophomore. I know age is just a number and whether or not the relationship will work depends on the two people. But does anyone have advice for dating a younger guy? Any insights or tips? Thanks! ...

I forgave my boyfriend for cheating on me but he cant seem to forgive himself and is left with a terrible feeling of guilt and self-loathing

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

1 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend of four years cheated on me with a friend of ours about 4 months ago.. He was very drunk when it happened and he told me later that night when we were in bed together.. He is a very good and sweet guy.. I forgave him and said that it ...

Its been three months so why he doesn't go further than a normal kiss?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

1 October 2012 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for three months, and we live about two and half hours away. We see each other on weekends. We have a lot of fun together and get along great. Just barely recently we had our first kiss. I'm just wondering why he ...

I really liked this man but he did a 180 and I don't know why

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

1 October 2012 (F) - Hi everyone!, I met this guy online a year ago while I was going through a bunch of problems in my marriage with my ex-husband being abusive and all. I ended up losing contact with this person because I left my husband and went to stay in a shelter. ...