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iloveyou2
writes:The girls guide to any guySo nowadays flirting isn’t as simple as batting your eyelashes and boys aren’t as predictable. I decided to make a guide for flirting and making yourself irresistible to any boy and charming to any adults. I will probably include makeup tutorials and fashion ideas since I think your appearance makes up about 60% of getting a boy to fall for you. This guide is intended for one particular guy at a time and you may have to work at it for a bit. As I write this I’m currently going after a boy, not in my class, who I walk with.1. Make yourself known.He can`t like you if he’s never met you properly. Join clubs, groups, extra classes or anything else which you know he’s in. If he doesn’t do any extracurricular ideas join in playing football or basketball with him (only if you’re sporty, if not watch from the sidelines with some friends and cheer for his team). 2. Smile and say hiNow you know him you can smile and say hi whenever you see him. Biting your lip is only good as it makes you look innocent yet sexy at the same time. Smiling will not only make your face look brighter and happier but it will also give him a chance to smile and wave back.3. Start casual conversationSo you’ve smiled at him and he smiled back, the next step is to start a conversation. If you don’t want to talk to him in person yet or he is always around his friends, chat to him on facebook or MSN. Try to keep the conversation interesting and at the end when you say bye make sure to either say talk tomorrow or see you at school. That way he knows that you want to be friends, at this point being his friend is good, and he will probably start the conversation tomorrow. If he doesn’t don’t feel discouraged just say hi and repeat again making some references to last time you talked. Here is an example of what you could say:You: HeyHim: HiYou: Wuu2?Him: Listening to music.You: cool what you listening toHim: (song)You: I love that song have you heard another song by that artistHim: Yeah do you like a similar bandYou: Nope never heard of themHim: Serious, I’ll send u song it’s my favourite song atmYou: you got it on ur iPodHim: Yeah ill bring it to school tomorrow and you can listen to it its greatYou: Cool, gtg I’m going in the shower ;) Speak you u 2morrow k?Him: Yeah see yaIt’s basically got all the things you want to mention and more. As well as finding out things and getting him to like you you’re also arranging to speak the next day AND at school. 4. Meet him in schoolThis step is crucial because now you’re getting closer talking to him in person should have a greater affect on him as he will feel more comfortable knowing its you and not all of your friends telling you to say stuff. So if you see him smile, wave then pretend to remember something and go and talk to him. You can ask him anything, what that band was called, anything about sports, what the homework is literally anything. Something he really likes is ideal because he will spend more time explaining it to you. Then when you have full attention ask tell him some of your form are going to the cinema and ask if he and his friends want to go. Don’t invite the whole form just a few girls boys, that way you two can talk and hang out without anyone distracting you two.5. Outside of schoolIf he said yes then great news, if he said no skip this step. When you meet up give him a hug when you see him and ask him how he is. If you are going to the cinema ask him what kind of popcorn he likes. If you like the same ask if you can go halves on large popcorn because you’re short of money. Not only does guarantee you get to sit next to him you also get a excuse to bump hands in the box. Next, if you are sitting next to him, tell him you are a bit cold and shiver a bit. Most likely he will offer a coat or a hug, both good results. Make sure you take photos and tag him in them so he will remember the great time you had together.6. Back at schoolWhen you go back to school walk past him looking sad, tears in eyes is good, and he will usually ask you what’s wrong. At this point you just shake your head and say nothing. Then he will say something along the lines of “you’re not fine”. Then you give him a hug and tell him you can’t tell him. The suspense will drive him crazy and he will undoubtedly ask what it is. Then you tell him you really like this boy but you don’t think he likes you back, then say never mind. At this point he will usually tell you he likes you and you will live happily ever after.However if he doesn’t say anything or asks you who it is turn away and say I can’t say. Then start casual flirting with his best friend and less time with him and he will get VERY jealous, be careful here, and then you tell him you like him and you are just friends with his best friend.
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 1. I semi agree with this however, I wouldn't join every club he's in, plus try out for the football team. Might make you look stalker-ish. Keep the "coincidental" appearances to a minimum.
2. Yes. Want to really nab his attention? Open your mouth, introduce yourself and start talking. I doubt he will notice you chewing the bottom of your lip, so just stick with the smiling. At that age, boys know that's a good sign. Gotta keep the body language simple.
3. Excellent. For those shy girls they can take advantage of Facebook chat to come a little out of their shells and to get a bit more accustomed. Nice example as well!
4. You don't want to throw yourself at him in between classes, perhaps if he had a class near yours, lunch, or if you two were on talking terms to compare class schedules this would work better. Don't want to come across as being clingy or reverting back to like I said the stalker look. Now if he shows up outside your classes to meet you or walk you to your next one, then you've already bagged this boy.
5. You're not going to be taking photos while watching a movie, are you going to take them outside of the theater? I suppose things have changed since I was your age. Lol.
6. No, just no. Skip the games. Save the crocodile tears. Boys ARE NOT mind readers. You will know he likes you from how much effort he will put into you and him or he will simply ask you out. That's how you know for sure. 13-15, boys are simple, so in return you need to keep it simple.
Flirting with his best friend will quickly make him become uninterested especially if he was interested. Now if he wasn't interested in the first place, then those efforts are wasted (unless you dig his friend).
Note: If you REALLY want to make a guy jealous, you flirt with his enemy.
Great article for teenage girls. I wasn't trying to criticize you, keep in mind I was your age once.
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