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Archived questions from: 5 September, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

What would guys think of a girl like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

5 September 2010 (F) - I am a 23yr old virgin. Whenever I go out men are always complimenting me..asking if Im a model.. and trying to get my number. I am tall, i work out, eat healthy, am very stylish/classy, and I love God. I have guys ask me out sometimes (past ...

He won't let me say sorry...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

5 September 2010 (F) - So I have problem and no one really seems to understands my situation.... So over the summer I got into a fight with someone special to me. My whole summer has been stress and painful, many things have happened including getting into a lot of fights ...

Love talk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

5 September 2010 (M) - If a girl and a guy started talking as friends and they say the following hey hun3 and one says hey hunny3, is that meaning a relationship or just true love...

Is he taking me for granted?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

5 September 2010 (F) - Am I being taken for granted? I ma naturally good natured and calm. Recently my boyfriend seems to be taking this for granted. He says he'll do something or be somewhere then cancels. He's more than often late to arrangements. Everything seems...

Wife/ girlfriend sharing. Experiences, thoughts, where does the idea stem from, is the after experience worth it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

5 September 2010 (M) - Guten tag! I've been with my girlfriend for over 2 and a half years. She's an open minded person, and we love each other very deeply. From time to time we discuss our fantasies, and hers tend to be very genital, which is surprising to me. For e...

I'm driving myself crazy!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5197 days ago

5 September 2010 (M) - I'm really driving myself crazy. I always have these irrational fears and worries about myself. Like that one day I am going to realize I am not in love, or one day I will wrong my girl. I also feel really guilty if I look at porn, look at another ...

How can I stop him becoming too overprotective?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

5 September 2010 (F) - hello everyone! I've been in a relationship for 2 and a half years with a wonderful person, but unfortunately quite recently hes been too overprotective and really insecure. An example would be for example: if i moved out of my seat in a restaura...

She kissed another guy and I'm really upset about it. What to do next?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

5 September 2010 (M) - guys i neeed help pleaaaase.. my girlfriend just told me a guy in her class kissed her while they were on a break. they were talkin and he just kissed her :S i dont know what to do. i didnt even shout at her i just said ' okay' and left her. she...

Bi curious, bi sexual... what am I???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

5 September 2010 (F) - Hey my boyfriend thinks i might be bi curious or bi sexual but i dont think i am. So i was wondering how do you know for sure if you are? He thinks i am cause i some times have sexual dreams about girls and i would rather watch girl on girl porn ...

Nasty rumours caused my boyfriend to break up with me...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

5 September 2010 (F) - I am getting called pregnant at school and everyone thinks its by one of the teachers that has just left our school but it isnt, I'm NOT pregnant (not that I know of.) My boyfriend is getting sick of it and he wants to break up, what should I...

Do you think this guy deserves me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

5 September 2010 (F) - Hello guys, I am dating a guy who's at university and I am still in high school. We have been in this relationship gor about 1 year now. I am a virgin and he's not. The thing is that I don't think he deserves me because if we have sex I'll be ...

He just can't stay off the social networking sites!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

5 September 2010 (F) - I am a female who never had any trust issues before. Now i am in a relationship with a man who a week after we had sex sent a female an invite on a site telling her she is the kind of woman he is looking for and sent her his phone number and emai...

Should I hide my feelings from her or should I tell her, even if she doesn't like it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

5 September 2010 (M) - Hey guys im new to this. I would really appreciate as many opinions as possible on this one! Basically, i get down whenever my girlfriend goes out and there is a risk of something happening. This is due to the fact that i have trust issues wit...

How can I stem this flow of rumours that's going about?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

5 September 2010 (M) - ok, so my ex ended things in may, and since then ive got together with a girl i really like, my ex used to lie about a lot of things, like being stalked, or boys going for her in school ect, but i was able to deal with it, because i felt like if i ...

I don't know how to trust but I really want to!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5197 days ago

5 September 2010 (M) - I've been with a girl for a while now, and we got back together a few days ago after a fight that split us up. The reason we broke up in the first place is because I have extreme trust issues, and I get paranoid and my imagination goes wild. I start ...

He makes plans but never shows up to see me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5197 days ago

5 September 2010 (F) - Ok so I'm been just a bit confused lately , so let me start at the begining. I like my friends brother and he is two years older than me. We stay up all night textin eachother and he is like the only person I talk to in the day. And we have known ...

18 and not had proper kiss

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5197 days ago

5 September 2010 (F) - Hey, Basically, I'm 18 and I still haven't had a proper first kiss. I'm not upset or angry about this, but I'm just wondering... What exactly so with my mouth/tounge?...

Is he just being a flirt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

5 September 2010 (F) - This guy i have liked for ages has recently split with his gf I have slept with him b4 his gf was even on road, so yeah backed off a bit when found out he was seeing someone, anyway even when he was with her he was sending things 2 me on fb like ...

He tells me about other girls but I'm not supposed to talk about other guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

5 September 2010 (F) - ok so i have a boyfriend and we been dating for a month now and be is always telling me about his ex and girls that texy him and expects me not to get mad but when i tell him about a friend he gets all defence with me. also he is always telling me i ...

What to do - Date again? Break-up for good?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5198 days ago

5 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together since grade school. We've had quite a few break-ups over the years, but only the most recent break-up was ever serious. (For the most part the other break-ups were due to immaturity on both our parts) The ...

Sometimes we feel tied down, sometimes we feel the relationship is working. Why the mixed emotions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

5 September 2010 (F) - Because my boyfriend and i are still young, we have feelings of being tied down after being together for so long. We tend to get mad over some pointless things, and feel a little trapped. However on many occasions we also have so much fun and wish ...

I am not sure if my girlfriend is really over her ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

5 September 2010 (M) - Hi A few days back, Me and my girlfriend went into a conversation about her ex. As much as I hate to talk about him with her and I become uncomfortable about it (and she understands it very well), the very fact that she considers me not only as a...

Confused: Does he like me? Or am I a booty call?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

5 September 2010 (F) - So this guy asked me out last Friday, and we were supposed to have a date on last Sunday. An emergency on my end happened and I tried to back out of the date as gracefully as I could under the circumstances through texting. He meant to reply, "you ...

Stressed by peoples' reaction to our inter-racial relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

5 September 2010 (F) - Hey everyone, some insight on this please....? I'm black and my boyfriend is Hispanic. He looks extremely Caucasian though without a tan. Anyway we have that difference and a 15yr age gap, he looks 28 :p. Grocery shopping today, we ran into friends ...

Why when you lose interest do they start liking you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5197 days ago

5 September 2010 (F) - I want to know why is it that when you like someone, they don't notice you at all. but when you lose interest in that person, they finally starts noticing you....

Is he brushing me off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5197 days ago

5 September 2010 (F) - So I really need some help! I've been with my boyfriend for a little more then a year and a half he says he really cares about me/loves me a lot n other people seem to see it to. The problem is I really have trust issues and he just started college. ...

Is it a waste of my time to keep thinking about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

5 September 2010 (F) - First of all i wanted to say thanks for taking the time to read this and for the input, I really appreciate it. So.. I am a 20 years old female, from the midwest. I am over in New Zealand for six months as a nanny living with a single mother and ...

We cant be in the same room for more than 2 min without fighting! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5154 days ago

5 September 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i have ben together for pretty much 4 years now were 20 n living on our own for 2 months now but we lived with his mom for 7 b4 we moved here we love each other and need each other very much but all we do is fight we fight about who ...

Boyfriend seems distant - am I overreacting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5197 days ago

5 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I met online and started dating 3 months ago. We'd text all day, skype, and end the night with a phone call. I recently went to visit him for the first time and we absolutely adored each other, and we discussed the possibility of me ...

Should I date 'Luke'? Even though he's in a relationship with 'Lindsay'?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5198 days ago

5 September 2010 (F) - I need help. Im very confused and don't know what to do. Theres this boy, we'll call him "Luke". He currently has a gf (we'll call her "Lindsey"). "Lindsey" moved to Florida with her family (we live in new york) so her and "Luke" kinda have a long ...

I like a girl who's dating another guy! Should I still flirt with her or wait?.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5197 days ago

5 September 2010 (M) - well i'm a guy and 18 this year and basically it's kinda selfish and stupid on my part but i really like this girl who's actually, attached. well i mean she does seem to send out some flirting signals, and like even though the guys sometimes nudge ...

My gf's fingers, feet and calves cramp up during orgasm! What can we do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

5 September 2010 (M) - Hello, My girlfriend and I have been trying to figure this out for a while now. Quite frequently durning orgasm my girlfriends fingers curl and seize up, as do her calves and feet. We are wondering what the cause of this is, if it is unhealth...

I have to wait 3 years before this older guy will date me, but can't wait!! help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5198 days ago

5 September 2010 (F) - Sorry in advance for the length! So here's the story: I'm fifteen. He's twenty. Obviously we can't be together because A, we'd be shunned by society, and B because there would be to much drama from our friends and family if we did. So we agre...

We have relationship issues that I can't forget...can we get past all this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5196 days ago

5 September 2010 (M) - My girlfriend tells me that she has changed her attitude towards guys and how she behaves with them now that she is with me. But this has only just happened 4 weeks ago, and we have been together for over 7 months. The only problem is: There have ...

I regret how I treated her...what should I do to fix this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5197 days ago

5 September 2010 (F) - I'm not too sure if my question's type is common, but I've really found the need to ask for help. The thing is, I recently have broken up with my girlfriend and now I miss her...But it's actually a little more complicated than that. When she and I...

She gives no respect! Should I bail out of this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

5 September 2010 (M) - I'm growing weary and more upset. My girlfriend has been fighting with me (well actually it's been one-sided). She used to say she loved me and still tries her best from time to time to show that. But lately all she does is put me down. So after 10 ...

Is he a Cheater?? Yes or no?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

5 September 2010 (F) - Okay, so I'm going out with this guy who has a rep for being a "player". And the other day I went through his phone and saw that he was calling another girl(not me) "Angel", and "Beautiful" and he's asking for a photo of her...I approached him about ...

My girlfriend's guy friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

5 September 2010 (M) - So my girlfriend has a guy friend that she grew up with since she was like a few months old. She always tells me he is just friends. i saw a text from this guy a while back saying "im craving you rn". so im like wtf? she said he was drunk and i ...

Confidence with girls and in general.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

5 September 2010 (M) - Hi well im 15 soon to be 16 years old and i was wondering if you could offer any tips i sort of lack confidence with girls because although they say im good looking, but i can get really shy, but in general ive had problems with my self esteem as ...

I really want to be with someone again, someone to care for and who will care about me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

5 September 2010 (F) - I'm a little bit of a confused soul at the moment so I hope someone can help me out. I broke up with my boyfriend of 6 years over a year ago. He was cheating and I now find that I have trust issues in all areas of my life, where there weren't any ...

What would guys think of someone like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5196 days ago

He gets offended when I cannot cum!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

5 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have a great relationship. We do have sex, a lot. He has had many other partners, where as i have only had one other. My problem is that i cannot cum! He gets really offended and things it's his fault, but he does turn me on- i ...

Shaky leg problem!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

5 September 2010 (F) - well. I have something to ask. I was having sex with my boyfriend the other day for the first time. He started fingering me and then we were on the bed. Before I know it, his clothes and mine are on the floor. He entered me and then my legs starting ...

Stomach pains after sex...???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5197 days ago

5 September 2010 (F) - Hey everyone! I have a few enquires.. first of all i had sex with my boyfriend for the 3rd time and we were both virgins before we met, after sex i always have stomach pains for a day or 2 is this normal?? Also we had sex today and he used a c...