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anonymous
writes:I am getting called pregnant at school and everyone thinks its by one of the teachers that has just left our school but it isnt, I'm NOT pregnant (not that I know of.) My boyfriend is getting sick of it and he wants to break up, what should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell my bf is popuolar but so am
i sent not that much time with him {the teacher} apart from a dentention that i had and i stayed after school one day for abit but we just talked.
thankz for the help guys
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reader, eternallyinfinite  +, writes (6 September 2010):
If the rumor is not true, then it should have nothing to do with your boyfriend. He should trust you.
That said - you should talk to him about why the rumor bothers him. If he wants to break up with you because of a rumor, I don't think he's worth it anyway.
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reader, jodieleigh  +, writes (5 September 2010):
 say to your boyfriend before you let go remember why you were hanging on.. your relationship is between you and him not the whole school. and don't give those girls a reaction they will think you are not bothered and hopefully it will all stop and you and your boyfriend will be okay
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2010): lets start with your bf here to start off with
how much time did you spend with him
1. alot
2. some
3. evidently not enough
how well does he know you
1. heaps and gobs
2. some
3. evidently not enough
how much does he trust you
1. alot
2. some
3. evidently not enough
next lets adress possible situations involving you
are you mostly honest with him
1. always
2. some
3. sometimes i hedge some
4. i lie like a hound dog
ever ditched on a date or called off a date mysteriously
1. never
2. a couple of times
3. well maybe a few more than a couple times
4. quite often
ever give him reason to suspect something going on
1. never
2. he thinks something did but didn't happen
3. he thinks something did but i couldn't tell him why
4. well its complicated situation so i'm denying it
have you been gaining wieght recently
1. yes my boyfriend takes me out to these good restraunts and yummy food.
2. yes when i get excited or emotional i pig out on junk food.
3. no i'm still the same wieght and size i've always been
4. ya but its a physical problem do to genes and heritics.
now school people
are you someone popular or the guy popular
1. we both are
2. he is i'm not
3. i am he isn't
4. no we both aren't
are the other girls that might like to date your bf?
1. no none that i'm aware of
2. not sure but possibly
3. yes a couple of them that i'm aware of
4. ya he's definitly a hot dude so ya a bunch could be
would a rumor rather true or not be something that an unfriendly person towards you might use to get to your bf.
1. that possiblity has occurred to me
2. ya and it is making things rough for us (or me) at present
would a doctors appoint to verify pregancty or not help convence your bf that your not pregnate
1. if he saw the conclusive proof i'm not preggy ya
2. don't know it might
3. why should i have to prove anything
the teacher that left the school did you spend any time with him that might have been construted by anyone as to say that the rumor could be true.
1. ya i was over at his home/office/seen in public with him
2. ya but just detention time because of something minor
3. other than class time no
4. others thought i was his pet student
5. i don't understand it he didn't even like me so how come they would say that.
ok i know some of this was abit humourous but do think on some of this might help explain some things.
one last thought here if your bf knows you well enough why would he be influcented by a rumor. besides if you were wouldn't that make him the father unless you've never did anything with him like that. it makes me wonder if maybe he might be using the curcumstances to dump you if he is unfairly believing this rumor.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell wat cause the rumors is that a girl started them of
that hates me coz of something in the past i thought we were friends but she started this and we got in to fights and people started say that the teacher had sex with me when he didnt even like me and i didnt like him.
and i haven`t cheat or nothing i love him so much i.
want this not to hapeen i so confused
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reader, eternallyinfinite +, writes (5 September 2010):
Well - have you done anything to encourage these rumors? Like why would people say this about you? If you have been a good girlfriend (no cheating, emotional games, etc), and your boyfriend is sick of it and wants to break up .. well .. is he worth it? Breaking up with someone over such a rumor seems kind of small (and suggests that perhaps a bigger issue is at hand)
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2010): What made them think this. Are they jealous of you, do you fool around? What caused them to spread rumors?
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