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female
age
36-40,
*tar2010
writes:I am a 23yr old virgin. Whenever I go out men are always complimenting me..asking if Im a model.. and trying to get my number. I am tall, i work out, eat healthy, am very stylish/classy, and I love God. I have guys ask me out sometimes (past aquaintances from college, not new guys) but I don't trust many of them and the ones I met drink, curse, have pre-marital sex and still hang out in clubs. I've never even been to a club in my entire life!I am a fun and good hearted girl who has a close relationship with God. I believe that sex is only for marriage and when I am in a relationship with someone...I want there to be a purpose. I have had crushes and "talked" to guys in the past but it never led to a relationship. I fell hard for this one dude in college but he led me on for 2yrs and then got engaged to someone else. And I only kissed one guy in my entire life when I was 19yrs old. (which is fine with me) I have had my mother and other family members spread lies about me and betray me because of their own issues. Since then, I am not the same free spirited and "happy" innocent 18yr old college freshman that I once was. I tend to view most if not all people as dishonest and no good potential liars....I'm really trying not to be that way. I usually spend my time at home practicing my music to perform live. Other than that, I have not met any new people and definitely ZERO new guys which I'm okay with. I have no social life though, most young people my age don't think like me.The other day my friend called me up and told me about one of her guy friends who she wants me to meet. She said he is 26 and never had a gf. She also told me that he reminded her of me and that she talks to him about me all the time. As she mentioned that; my body got so hot (in an uncomfy way) and I quickly brushed her offer off. Guys make me nervous because I can't trust anybody anymore. I've never even been on a date yet.My question is....what would guys my age think of a chick like me?? Be Honest...I can handle it. xo
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2010): There are guys who would think you were odd, but there are certainly guys out there who would respect you.
The players wont be interested, or only interested in the challenge...but there are a lot of truly nice guys out there who would love to find someone like you. Dont change who you are, mal
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