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writes:So I have problem and no one really seems to understands my situation.... So over the summer I got into a fight with someone special to me. My whole summer has been stress and painful, many things have happened including getting into a lot of fights with my best friend. And he said that he was done with me,done giving me chances. (even though I know that other people would get mad at things that he says) Anyway i've texed him twice, he never responded. And now that we are back in high school we seem to... bump into each other.(our schedules seem to take us to hallways and everything, its weird) So one day my friends made me say sorry to him, which I have to say was lame I basically said sorry and asked him if he wanted friends he said he was too busy on what he was working on. I'm so confused because one of my friends talked to him and she said that he was just mad at me because I couldn't realized how "awesome" I was. She had reason to lie and he actually got mad at her for telling me...So I wanna say sorry again even though I know i'll never be ready. I know what say its just so hard to express it... I feel like I need to apologize better to him because he's been their for me, he so special to me, even though we'll never be more than friends.(though he kissed me on the lips once) He deserves so much better, and i'm trying to change and I am...i'll do anything for him,I don't know what he wants me to do....
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reader, Newbie31 +, writes (28 November 2010):
 What was your promise?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@ Newbie31 He kissed me on the last day of school, we were at lunch together, I was very nervous but asked him if I could kiss him on the cheek. He said yes, as the bell rang we got up, he showed me his cheek, I closed my eyes and when I opened my eyes I wasn't kissing his cheek, I was kissing him on the lips!! He said kissed me because it was the last day of school and he said that he kisses a lot of his friends...its already been like a month, he won't even look me, even though we seem to bump into each a lot, oh and I almost forgot. when we hung out over summer, we shopped together and I got him shirts. He made me a promise to wear one on the 1st day, which did even though he was mad at me he kept his promise.(random yes, but keeping his promise as to show something right?) I haven't kept my promise though, i'd a song for him that reminded me of him, i've been trying learn it.(collide by howie day) Now i don't think i'll be able to keep my promise..
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reader, Newbie31 +, writes (6 September 2010):
Why and how did he kiss you?? Anyway, so the problem is you are just friends but you think there could possibly be more when he thinks there isn't. I've had this situation before, even though u are just friends it feels more real and serious and at that point you kinda get overpowering. You start picking at little things. I would say, me just losing my best guy friend as well, that you should move on and if he really cares about ur friendship he'll come back to you. And if you can still remain friends, even better. But always be on the look out for more guy friends and possibly a bpyfriend (if you want one)
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@ Newbie31 the fights we haev gotten into have been stupid. (its porbably all my fault) but like it would something he would say and i would get hard and become definsive...and things would gte bad. He says that I have an "anger problem." Like for example I would get a little mad everytime he would ask me "you know we're only friends?" and I would say yes. I would get a little mad because a) it was random b) everytime we seem to talk he brings it up. I've accepted that we're never gonna be more than friends but that doesn't mean it still doesn't hard me asks me. In a way he got mad at me because I started t more feeling for him ever since he kissed me...he's so hot and cold. I still don't know if i can even face him...
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reader, Newbie31 +, writes (6 September 2010):
Maybe he likes you more than you think. Him being mad at you for not having self confidence and faith that you are awesome may make him a little upset bc he might see everything you are and expresses tht to you but if u always shoot urself down it deflects his efforts. Of course I'm not sure what u were fighting over so I could be way off. I would call him up (meeting in person would prob be best) and have a serious talk with him, not a big huge apology ordeal, but just get the facts out there, what happened and now if there is hope to still be friends, how do you make it happen.
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reader, sarahrose20  +, writes (6 September 2010):
i would do something drammatic to show how much you care about him n if that doesnt work whenever you bump into him get his attention even for two min it will be a constant reminder and let him know you still want him as a friend
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