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Archived questions from: 2 September, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

We have different morals. Should I date him anyway?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - I'm in highschool, and the guy I like (who also likes me) and I have different morals. We get along really well and have similar interests as well as have great conversations. But, he and his friends tend to get drunk and do some recreational drugs ...

Should I send her a mixed tape?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

2 September 2010 (M) - My girlfriend has left for boarding school and i won't see her for a month and a bit. Would it be sad to send her a mix tape of songs with missing someone as a meaning?...

I insulted the girl I was dating. Will she forgive me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5200 days ago

2 September 2010 (M) - I insulted the girl I was dating I thought she was cheating and made alot of terrible insults to her and later she told me she wasn't cheating and then I said I was sorry for saying those things. Will she forgive me?...

Is he leading me on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5200 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - Hello, I'm really confused about this situation and wonder if anyone here knows of anything similar. I met this guy at a party about a month ago and it seemed that we both were really interested in each other - he was being quite flirtatious towa...

I'm so confused at where I stand with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

2 September 2010 (M) - Ok so yeah i'm bisexual, this guy is my first sort of boyfriend..except this is the problem i don't know if it is a relationship or not..Everything was fine, one of the problems though is the distance, he lives 3-4 hours away from me on the train so ...

Everything I do is not good enough for him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5199 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - Hi me and my boyfriend have been together almost two years and in the beggining everything was beyond wonderful..like a dream come true.we went on dates every weekend.he surprised me with gifts.and showered me with attention.but the past four months ...

Trying to win someone heart back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

2 September 2010 (M) - Hi Guys, i am trying to win someone back at the moment,could you please tell me how you guys got your guy/girl back when you thought all was lost. I need to hear some positives, but i know its not going to be easy....

Will he cheat or should I trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - I'm sorry this is long guys. but i really need help. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 5 months. and he just recently left for college.....to another state. before he left...we were fighting about some girl he's been talking to. They're both ...

If I don't have sex with him soon will he leave me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - Dearcupid i have been with this guy for a year and couple of months,he now want to have sex with me and iam confused.my mind want to leave him but my heart still loves him,i love him so much,he always tells me that he loves me but it is hard to ...

If a relationship switches to friendship, will it ever switch back to being a sexual relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - I would like to pose this as a general question, to both male and female opinion/perspectives. If a relationship switches to "friendship" on the part of the guy, is there ever hope that it will switch back to sexual? Perhaps there is some kind of ...

Why does my ex keep bringing up the past when we're together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

2 September 2010 (?) - okay i just dont know wat to think... my x boyfriend and i talk like if we were never going out.. last night i went over to seee him we were just chillin and talking but like at one point we didnt have too much to talk about so he brought up the ...

Week alone with a new guy, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5200 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - Okay well I have a week off at the end of my summer classes before my fall classes start and I called that week off from work. I just really need to get out of the house because I still live at home. I've been talking to this guy and he is going to ...

He ALMOST cheated... is this a red flag?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5200 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been together for about 4 years now. I'm 25, he's 33. Our relationship has always been great except for the one thing we have always fought about, which is my lack of trust for him. I would say our first year together, ...

Girl giggles after I kissed her on the cheek?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

2 September 2010 (M) - I went out with this girl for 3 months. She broke up with me, and two months later we started to drink coffee and go to the movies and just being friends. One night after we went and watch a movie, she gave me a hug (not unusual, we always hug each ...

I felt an attraction, but he was just leading me on

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5199 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - This may sound really silly but i like the guy so much I have to ask. I met a really beautiful guy, James, while out the other night, and saw him again another night. He seemed really pleased to see me again and ran up hugging me. We got on so well ...

Do you think there is a chance that my relationship is strong enough but still casual enough to last through highschool?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - Do you think there is a chance that my relationship is strong enough but still casual enough to last through highschool? .. Sorry if this gets long I just really want some peoples advise and thoughts. I am dating this guy and he had liked me sin...

I don't trust her and want her out of my head

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

2 September 2010 (M) - Hey, Theres this chick ive been really close to for awhile and we sorta went out but not officially when i asked her out she turned me down. She than acted like a bit of a slut and i didnt talk to her for a few months cos of how she was acting b...

Can I still ask this girl out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

2 September 2010 (M) - Hey Everyone. My question is this: I used to work in a pet shop with this girl that I always liked, but whenever I told myself "Right, I'm gonna ask her out next time", it's as if my balls dropped off whenever I tried. I THINK she may have liked m...

I'm 21 she's 15. Is morally it ok that I want to date her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

2 September 2010 (M) - So I've recently met this girl, she's 15, but she seems so nice and mature, but ok she can also be quite childish as well. But she seems really into me and I'm 21, now the legal age for stuff I know is 16 but I wouldnt do anything with this girl ...

Should I wait till after her exams to bump into her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

2 September 2010 (M) - does this cause distraction to my crush ? my mutual crush is having some exams for past 1 week,so i am not able to see her or meet her as she doesn't come out of her home ,i am missing her more than usual,so is it ok to bump in to her intention...

He stopped texting after we had sex, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - okay so there is this guy that i have been talking to kind of and we before we started talking we were always really flirty and stuff so finally he gave me his number and we talked a little but not to much and then recently we started talking a lot ...

How does a single sexually inexperienced 20 year old lesbian start dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - How does a single sexually inexperienced 20 y/o lesbian female meet other lesbian females? I know it sounds silly, but I honestly do not know how to start dating. I am a 20 y/o female with no sexual experience (virgin) with males or females. ...

There are 3 guys that like me, on one hand I don't want a relationship right now but on the other I am worried about missing an opportunity!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5201 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - I hang around with a lot of guys. I dated one of these guys until I was pressured to break up with him because of my so called 'friend'. But now I find out that they all still like me. They're 3 guys and I'm not really sure what to do. I just don't ...

Is he wanting to be more than friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5199 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - I am confused more than ever about a coworker of mine. Lately, I've been wondering if he wants to be more than friends. I'm 25 and he's 30. We started as lunch buddies. We found out we have a lot in common so naturally we became good friends. We ...

This guy wants to date me, but he slept with other girls before!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - So there's this guy. He's friends with my one friend, Vaughn. Vaughn and I haven't hung out in a while, but he asked if his friend, Eric, could tag along. I was ok with it. So when we met up Eric would NOT stop staring at me. Honestly, Eric isn't my ...

What are the rules when it comes to your friends ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - I'm 15 and I've liked this guy sinse I was 13. I told my friend that I liked him about a year ago and about a month after that he asked her out and she said yes! I wasn't mad at her or anything cause I mean he liked her not me. I was just that sad ...

My best friend is hitting on the guy that asked me out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5201 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - I'm so angry right now because of my "best" friend. My apologies for my long-winded story. I knew this guy for about a year, and he used to come to where I work almost every week. I was pretty "ok" friends with him, but I didn't know him all too...

I'm becoming bitter because of my troubles with men.....

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2 September 2010 (F) - I feel so desperate right now, I need to let this out or I feel I will burst. I fell in love with a man who ended up been married. This relationship has destroyed me so deeply. This guy is military and he happens to be in Iraq. I want to get out of ...

Should I just leave her alone or try to get her out to have fun?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

2 September 2010 (M) - I have this huge crush on a girl and I have let her know several times but the past few days she has become very stressed by her large amounts of homework. When I ask if she wants to talk about her situation or if there is anything I can do to help ...

I need help in restoring faith in man kind!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - I'v been cheated on twice. I have only been in two relationships, no casual sex no friends with beneficts never ever. I always thought those were mistakes that must be avoided. I am having such a big problem getting over those bad experiences. i ...

We were on a break! but he can't forgive me.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now. However last year we split up for 3months he split up with me because we kept arguing as i was abit overprotective. i begged and begged him back he told me no every time said he can never get back, even ...

I love him so much.... he left me please I need advice

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - MOD NOTE: OP's own title please i really need help. i love my fiance more then my life but he just left me today. we were engage alomst three years ago. i hide him about my past . i was victim of rape when i was 11 years old. i did not tell him befo...

I'm pregnant by my younger b/f, I don't want him, or the baby.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - need help fast! I am a 30 year old female and have a boyfriend that is 21 I just found out i was pregnant he doesn't no yet because I didn't want this to happen he already made it clear that he want's a baby by me but lately I have been having a ...

He says he likes me, but dates other girls, whats going on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - So I like this guy in school but I've never talked to him in person. I only text him and he says he likes me and says I'm hot. but then he just goes out with a bunch of other girls. I'm so confused. And he knows i like him but..i don't know I'm just ...

Long time girlfriend suddenly ditches you for friends.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

2 September 2010 (M) - MOD NOTER: OP's own title: My girlfriend and I have been dating since the middle of our sophomore year in high school, and we just started our senior year. So it's been a little over a year and a half. I really really hate her two best friends, so s...

Without being obvious, how can I find out if he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5201 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - There's this guy I go to school with, and I think he's just amazing (he has the intense artist thing going on) and we've sort of been friends for awhile...I actually switched instruments to be in his section and we basically spent all last year ...

My bf's ex wife drives me crazy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - MOD NOTE: OP's own title: Me and my bf are in cooling off stage. Because we need to think things over if we still want to continue our relationship or not. We are ok as a couple as far as I knew, and the only argument that we have is about his ...

Will his big penis always be a problem for me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - Hi, I have a new boyfriend, he is 35 and i'm 42, and finally I seem to have found someone who matches me in personality, sexual appetite and pleasures, however, he has a 'girthy' penis. Monday morning I felt like i'd been kicked in the crotch, ...

Please help me find the strength to leave my abusive b/f

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - I have recently been in a very abusive relationship with a lad who is three years older then me,we had been together for a year and 5 months but continued to keep something going between us. Durin this time i have been with him he has been extremley ...

How do I stop feeling so worthless?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

2 September 2010 (M) - dear cupid, my girlfriend keeps saying im amazing and that im like this superman to her, but the thing is, im just not, im a bi polar self harmer who has gone from one place to another, and i know that she really is the best thing to ever happen t...