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writes:Guten tag!I've been with my girlfriend for over 2 and a half years. She's an open minded person, and we love each other very deeply.From time to time we discuss our fantasies, and hers tend to be very genital, which is surprising to me. For example, (and her face becomes a little red when she says is) she likes it when I nibble on her nipplesand gently caress the hood of her clitoris. Mine, on the other hand, tend to more like: Her being with other men, other men enjoying her sexy body, doing a threesome where myself and another man pleasure her beyond reckoning, etc.I've talked to her about this and she seemed to sort of like it, but felt that it wouldn't be how we plan it in the fantasy, and that the other guy would just want to do his thing, and would probably come to fast, etc. I am also worried about her becoming emotionally involved with someone else, and that in the end, it would all just feel....weird. Does anybody have experience with sharing there loved one, andis the aftermath generally negative? I can be slightly jealous, though I tend not to show it- Also, is this desire porno based, or is it some weird freudian thing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2010): I too have this fantasy and my wife says if i bring the idea up again she'll leave me.Where my fantasy stems from I think is when I think about fucking my wife, alot of what I'd like to do I know I can't,.Sex is over too soon and since We had our first child my wife won't let Me go down on Her at all.So the fact I'm deeply in love with My wife and I know I'm satisfied after sex I think the thought of a fitter man ,bigger cock,shagging her in loads of positions ,and really saisfying her really turns me on.I've pestered her to go tru with this and I honestly don't think any bad would happen in our relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2010): My boyfriend wants a threesome with my best friend. at first i hated the idea. i didn't want to picture it. i got jealous just by thinking about it. which is normal. you will compare yourself to the person. But women are different from men. your girlfriend loves you to be with you that long. make sure its a friend you do the threesome with. better the devil you know than you don't know. also tell the man what you want him to do. after my experience i wished it wasn't my best friend. but pick a friend who you only see a few times a year. Also my boyfriend is more loving to me than ever and it was fun for both of us! hope this helps!
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reader, sarahrose20  +, writes (5 September 2010):
my advice is not to do it it will ruin your relationship you might think your okay with it but youll never be able to get the images out of your head or the thought that she enjoyed him more ive been through this personally
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reader, shapoopsy  +, writes (5 September 2010):
 Hello,
I have seen many couples experiment with threesomes and it seems to be the best way to destroy the relationship. If you are concerned about her forming emotional attachments to another man, inviting one into the bedroom might not be the best idea. From what I have witnessed, the aftermath is typically negative. ~Shapoopsy
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