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Dating: Help and advice

Help!!! I think my boyfriend is cheating on me. How do I tell?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

9 September 2010 (F) - Okay, so.. My boyfriend recently tried to leave me, but got back together with me. He started to act aggressively saying things like "To get away from you" when he leaves the phone(We're in a long distance relationship), but that's sort of died ...

My boyfriend seems to have the hots for his neighbour!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

9 September 2010 (F) - please help as this is driving me insane! I'm 36 and been wth my partner for 2 1/2 years, we dont live together, he lives alone and i live with my kids (not his). he has never in the 11 years at his address socialised with the neighbours - he ...

I don't have closure...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

9 September 2010 (F) - I had been seeing this really nice guy for 4 months. We always had problems as we are long distance, and he finds it difficult to communicate and is sometimes away as he is in the military. We tried to stay close by texting often. 2 weeks ago we...

Heartbroken... are we over for good?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5193 days ago

9 September 2010 (F) - I'm hearbroken - is there anything I can do? Do I still have any hope? Its been two weeks since we last saw each other. I was seeing this guy for 4 months, and though it was never perfect, as it was long distance, we had a connection, but ...

Insecurities...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

9 September 2010 (F) - Hello everybody: My problem is similar to some I read here. One of my best friends feels the urge to touch, come close, seduce my boyfriend. I know she's not attracted to him but she flirts. They have just seen each other only a couple of times bu...

It always seems to shrivel up when we make love. I need your help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

9 September 2010 (F) - Whenever me and my significant other are being intimate he can never stay hard, does anyone have tips on how i can help him out, because i would love to have sex and not have to worry about him shrivelling up and making me feel as if i'm not good ...

Another boy kissed me, and now my boyfriend broke up with me! Will he forgive me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

9 September 2010 (F) - I made a huge mistake.two nights ago I went to hang out with my friends brother. She was suppose to meet us there and so when I went over I wasn't expecting for this to go the way they did. His sister called and said she wasn't gonna make it so I ...

Heart says yes but my head says different...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

9 September 2010 (M) - My "ex" (not sure what to call him since we still talk) and I had a long distance relationship for a little over 8 months. I ended it because I felt that we weren't communicating enough, the one thing that I believe should be utmost importance for ...

Fell in love with a married woman who says that God wants her to work on her marriage!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

9 September 2010 (M) - My story started about 6 months back when I met this girl at my work. I felt an immediate attraction to her. It wasn't just a physical one either, I mean she had the perfect personality type to me. We started talking and flirting back and forth at ...

He will not talk about the future with me! I'm scared to be alone again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

9 September 2010 (F) - I am 31 years old and I have been dating a 27year old guy for a year now. I love him very much and he treats me well but I feel very insecure about the future. He never talks about the future with me or include me in his future plans. I think he is ...

Her dad hates me, and I can't figure out his reason!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

9 September 2010 (M) - I am 19 yrs old and have been dating my girlfriend Jillian,who is 18 for a little over 8 months now. From the very beginning her family really liked me, I get along great with her brother and sister, and her parents loved me. We have a great ...

My boyfriend is giving me mixed signals, but he says he loves me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5193 days ago

9 September 2010 (F) - I have been dating this guy for almost a year. We have been going out for drives and movies but he has never tried to kiss me or hold my hand till about 2 months back. Last month we made love for the first time. He says it was the first time for ...

Compatible star signs?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

9 September 2010 (F) - My question is to Sag women in relationships with Aries men. Accoding to the experts, Aries is supposed to be our most compatible sign. I've heard Aries men are short tempered, have child-like tantrums and have anger management problems. I've read ...

Should I just give up on her and be lonely?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

9 September 2010 (M) - I'm in love with a girl in college. We're both in our freshmen years and same class. Anyway, I was trying to come closer her but it looks like she can't see me as anything other than a possible friend... Either way, this is not the main thing,...

I don't want to be seen as just a friend to her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5193 days ago

9 September 2010 (M) - I asked a girl out on a date and it went well, we're meeting up agaian but I would like us to be boyfriend/girlfriend. However the last 2 times I was on a date, the last just saw it as friends hanging out and the one before that had a hunch it was a ...

Could he still be interested? Or should I leave it alone?

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9 September 2010 (F) - During the summer, I met someone and things went really well between us. We would talk a lot, sometimes hang out with friends and sometimes alone. I knew he was interested in me seeing how much effort he made when talking to me. When we first me...

This boy I like is making jokes about my height!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

9 September 2010 (F) - I'm actually 14, I don't know how to change the age. Basically, I've been with this boy for only like 4months so not very long but I'm pretty small and he's always making jokes about my height. He's 16 and always talks about me to his friends and ...

Should I let him be part of my child's life?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

9 September 2010 (F) - Well a few months ago my boyfriend and I were living together, happy relationship, and we find out that we're having a baby. Everything seemed to be going good (or so I thought). Then when I was 5 months pregnant I find out he had been cheating on ...

Boyfriend weird???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

9 September 2010 (F) - I'm have been in a committed long distance relationship for one year and two months. Me and my bf were talking on the phone and I told him that I'm going to watch movies with two of my guy friends on friday.. and then he started teasing me and i ...

My boyfriend is really starting to grate on me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

9 September 2010 (F) - I just moved in with my boyfriend a little over a month ago, and he's really started to grate on me. He doesn't have a job, but his parents pay for his rent and living expenses (he's in his late 20s for what it's worth). This annoys me, becau...

His Facebook status is single, but he has messages from a girl. Should I pursue him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

9 September 2010 (F) - There's a guy that I dated in 9th grade in high school for about a month. We were kids then and not knowledgeable of what a relationship was so we went our seperate ways but I have always felt very drawn and attracted to him...like he was the one. ...

I think I'm attractive but I don't get looked at or hit on!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

9 September 2010 (F) - I have this strange issue. I feel that I am very attractive however, I think I must be the only one as I never get hit on, no one asks me out and no one stares at me in the street. Whenever, I walk into a room I don't even get a glance from one guy, ...

Would you have a problem if boyfriend was still in touch with a Fbuddy?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

9 September 2010 (?) - OK, just a simple question. If your boyfriend stayed in touch with a girl while seeing you, who you know used to be a "f*** buddy" would you be concerned. I mean, even if he told you they were just friends etc... would you have a problem with him ...

What makes a guy want to be with you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5193 days ago

9 September 2010 (F) - what really makes a guy want to be with you? I have somebody who is faraway from school and I keep thinking that if he finds someone else than he won't bother to like me anymore. Can a guy just like you?...

Dating a couple of months and want to marry soon. Rushing things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

9 September 2010 (F) - So, my boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a couple months. We are very much in love and we have great chemistry, both sexual and emotional. We have spent so much time together this summer, because we have lived together at his parents ...

He found out I lied and now he won't respond

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

9 September 2010 (F) - I recently met this guy through mutual friends during a dinner. That same night he invited my friends and me to a party..that we decided to attend. Both me and this guy hit it off..we danced the night away, talking, getting to know each other, etc. ...

How can I tell if my female friend is gay or likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5193 days ago

9 September 2010 (F) - How can I tell if she's gay or likes me? Well, there's a girl that i think i have feelings for. We aren't really friends but I'm friends with her friends so I talk with her sometimes. Compared to everyone else she acts different with me kind of ...

Do most booty calls turn into relationships? Or not?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

9 September 2010 (F) - do most booty calls turn into relationships?...

I don't want to start mothering him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

9 September 2010 (F) - What should I do with an absent minded boyfriend? He's never forgetful about anything important or anything to do with our relationship, it's just little things - like this morning we made sandwiches to take to work because we're both really low on ...

I'm falling for her, but wondering if she's just being nice because I'm helping her out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

9 September 2010 (M) - I know a girl who is 25, and a very sweet girl, with a tough set of issues (she drinks too much and is in her own words,a "beautiful mess"). She is very kind and thoughtful also. Well, I'm older, and she and i met at a restaurant where she worked ...

How should I get this guy to see me in a romantic way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

9 September 2010 (F) - Ok, so first I want to begin with saying that I'm in high school and though I haven't had a BF yet, I have been seriously emotionally hurt by a guy I cared deeply about and have since had a series of "guys who screw me over." Anyways, there's ...

I don't want to get hurt!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

9 September 2010 (F) - So, im dating this guy. I really like him and he says he really likes me too. and weve only dated for a week adn we already hug and junk. which might not sound fast but is for me. But see i dated his bestfriend for 3 weeks before school ended, and i ...

How can I stop psychologically abusing my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5194 days ago

9 September 2010 (F) - I am afraid I am destroying my relationship with my boyfriend. I am always challenging the things he says and making him feel as if he's wrong to have said them, even though they're nothing important - like him expressing that he likes a film I ...

How do I tell the difference between flirting and genuine liking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5194 days ago

9 September 2010 (M) - How do I tell the difference between flirting and genuine liking. My freind flirts with me, but I dont want to take it seriously if its not genuine. I do like her and I hope she is serious....