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writes:This guy i have liked for ages has recently split with his gf I have slept with him b4 his gf was even on road, so yeah backed off a bit when found out he was seeing someone, anyway even when he was with her he was sending things 2 me on fb like u like naughty sex and web cams and stuff Well now there split i would love 2 get to know him more, but am so scared he doesnt like me like that and dont really want 2 say anything just incase, But anyway i picked him up the other nite and took him into town i had a really short dress on with shorts underneath and he said 2 me have u got shorts on underneath and i obviously said yes and then he said have u got tights on which i had and then he touched my leg, verty gently like he wasnt sure if he should be doing it and if he was scared what i would have said(which i didnt say anything )But after mentioning this to my friend she said he must like u a little to do that when i picked him up and say all these things when he was with her But im having second thoughts about this now, i thnk hes just a flirt doesnt like me and never will i often wait for him to chat 2 me on fb but most of the time it never happens and someone said he mite just be waiting for me 2 talk 2 him Guys what do u all think im very confused at the moment and would love to go out with him but cant see it really happening
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reader, SillyB  +, writes (5 September 2010):
 Why get all excited and giddy over physical gestures like that? It doesn't mean he likes you enough to be his gf, it doesn't mean he will love you, it doesn't mean anything except that he wasnt to have sex with you. Don't confuse a mans physical lust for you as something deeper than that. Read, "he's just not that into you" and "Why men marry bitches". It'll help you decipher male actions/language better. And don't listen to your silly friend as she's just confused about mens actions as you are. Time to smarten up, this guy is a cheater who just wants to sleep with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2010): even if you were to enter in a relationship with this guy do you think you would feel confident enough that when he looked or spoke to another girl you could keep on walking without thinking that he might hook up with her later. i mean if he did that to his ex why wouldn't he do it to you? would you want your boyfriend to be sending naughty stuff to anyone but you? he doesn't love you he doesn't love anybody but himself. and he is not flirting either he knows you will give it to him he's just making sure you stay confused that way when he breaks up with his gf he can come to you.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (5 September 2010):
I'm afraid you need to snap out of this slight daze you're in over this guy and see him for what he is. He was having sex with you, then he met another girl. He was still sending you sex stuff and webcams, so he was basically cheating on her. Now suddenly he's single again and feeling you up.
What a charming guy!
He's a lying cheat who will use you. I don't think he's worth bothering about. He'll just use you, then find another woman and keep you around like the spare again.
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