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Archived questions from: 11 September, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Am I being used or does he like me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - I really need advice! I've been "talking" to this guy for a little over a month now. He's the biggest sweetheart and I really like him but I don't know how he feels. He always makes sure he's the last person I talk to at night by waking me up EVERY ...

The sex is great but that's not all I want

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

11 September 2010 (M) - hi again i have a question about bondage sex the thing is my boyfriend loves to tie me up and stuff and i love it as well but sometimes i am scared that this is what he wants from me and nothing else hes loveing kind and since moveing out here as ...

I know what I want and it's him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - iv been wonderin whether i should even ask this question... met my boyfrend bout 5 mths ago. and i cnt even say in words how madly in love we were. we met every single night and just clung together for the whole night. i finally thought i found the ...

I think she likes me! what do you guys think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 September 2010 (M) - There's this girl in my English class and I think she might like me. You see on the first day of school the teacher made us do this thing where we have contact buddies and she was mine. A contact buddy is someone who you give your number to just in ...

How do I get boyfriend to be more flirty and tender?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - I've known my bf for three years. He is a quiet guy but funny and outgoing around ther right people. We love eachother and stuff but I dnt rele feel the love. -in an ldr- like when we talk txt or I'm he never calls me a pet name or is really ...

I still love him...how can I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - Hi...I've got a problem... It is this guy...we've been togheter for 4 months but last week we broke up... after the break-up we said that we hated each other and alot of mean things... but after 3 days...he called me and he apologized for what he ...

Is coworker interested in me? or just flirting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5150 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - I have been working with him for nearly one 1 year. We are at the same age, at the same department, sit next to each other, and his job is designer, while my job is content writer. At first I don't have any feeling about him, just like a normal wo...

How do I start this conversation with him?? I like him alot!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - ive been getting to know this guy.. he thinks am not your everyday girl theres something different about me and that i amuse him:) hes always complimenting me and really caring. we talk about everything except sex and love. we are...

Should I ask her out? or am I wasting my time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 September 2010 (M) - Hi... I'm asking to see if anyone else thinks theres an opening here for me to become friends and then something more with this girl, I'm just really going to summarize what I think shows a chance and shows a lack there of: * I can swear that I...

G/f such a natural flirt that I'm wondering if its worth it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 September 2010 (M) - I was reading my girlfriends facebook comments when i noticed she has something going on with another guy..they talk a ton and she keeps telling him how much she misses him. It's pretty flirty and he tells her he loves her? I'm sure it's meant to ...

Why is he taking me where other women he dates hang out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - So this turkish guy that goes where i go listen to music stares at me alot which i dont find creepy. He ask for my number after a long while of this. Then he calls alot and i say okay we can do womething. So he tells me he is seeing two other ...

How can I date someone that works so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - So, a few months ago my boyfriend got a job. The problems we were having in our relationship were finally getting resolved, but then once he started to work, things got so much worse. He works so much-especially on weekends, which is usually the ...

Is it ok to tell him that I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - There's this guy that I've know for a couple of months and it's so far so good and I really like him. I want to tell him that I like him because I do feel that there is a connection but it's too soon to be having a full on relationship. I ...

How can I make him notice me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5174 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - I am fourteen years old and I just started highschool a week ago. I love and I know alot of people..freshman through seniors..im in four honors classes and in my biology class I sit near this really cute guy...were friends on facebook but we never ...

How much does appearance matter to men?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - How much does appearance matter to men? For example, I don't put in any effort into my appearance except that my clothes are clean (I usually wear t-shirts and jeans). My boyfriend says that the clothing I wear either makes me look really youn...

How do you know when you've found Mr. Right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - Hey all. How do you know when you've found Mr Right? I've been with my guy for years now. Things aren't perfect, but we love each other unconditionally and we can always make each other laugh. We wake up each day, looking forward to being at...

I want to go to Paris with a friend but boyfriend wants me to wait and go with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5090 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - Hi. My question might sound stupid but i'm just asking people's opinions b/c i'm not sure anymore of my own. I'm going on a vacation with my best fried to london next week (i've known her since high school)and now weve decided that maybe we mi...

The more he tries to pull away, the more I push

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - All the answers to my previous question make sense given the info I provided but I'm not convinced it is the full story. To recap, I met a guy 8 weeks ago and we became intimate and intense very quickly. When we are together he is very loving and I ...

Should I settle with a girl who claims she's pregnant with my baby?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

11 September 2010 (M) - i falld in love with two girl and dated them both.my first girlfriend discoverd that i was seen another girl she conflanted me and i admited.my second girlfrind also discoverd and i admited but i cheated sayaying that it was over and she was now my ...

Bad news--best friend and I like the same guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5155 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - Basicly, I like this guy but so does my bestfriend. She gets extremely jealous whenever he talks or looks at me and espeacaly if he writes on my fb wall. She always tries to make me jealous my telling me in depth what hes said to her and how he l...

Guys--once they get you the game is over?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - why does some guys tell you everything so sweet that you want to hear and than when they finally get you, its like game over and their not the same person you had grown to like....

How can I make it more clear that I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5155 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - i like this guy and i know he would probably never like me back but i stareat him in class and sometimes he looks back what dose that men how do you tell if a guy likes you. how can i make it more clear that i like him ifen thought he knows?...

Would he not date me because I don't have money or a house yet?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - Hi, I need some advice with regards to a man.. I met him last week in a club with friends, I was in my local bar and he was there and we got chatting. Straight away I liked him and it has been ages since I have liked anyone (Had few ex's still f...

Why won't he say 'I Love You'?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend won't say "I love you". We've been together almost 2 years now. He's 20 and I'm 18. We're even planning on moving in together next summer. When we started going out he just got out of a long relationship about a year ago. ...

I'm too shy to ask anyone out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5192 days ago

11 September 2010 (?) - I need serious help! I am so shy that I never ask any one out. I've never been in a relationship and I want to start now. How do I do it?...

Friend changing himself because of his broken heart

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - Guys AND girls I need both of your opinions. I'm 16 and this I've known this guy for years who is 17 and amazing. We're like brother and sister. He helps me a lot and now he needs it. He is a gentlemen. He isn't perverted, respects girls, ...

My girlfriend hugs other guys

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

11 September 2010 (M) - Ok, so basically my girlfriend hugs other guys. And quite frankly i wouldn't care as long as she didnt do it in front of me or told me about. But there's the problem, she does just that. I have told her numerous times that i don't like it,but she ...

How do I prove to him that things will be ok?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - Okay, lately I've been really depressed and it's getting really bad, and I don't mean to or want to, but I end up hurting my boyfriend so much. It's almost as if something else is taking over me, and he understands and believes that. He keeps ...

What's love to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5192 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - How do younger guys see relationships? I'm 17 and I'm dating a 15 year old guy over the internet. I know, it's silly, and to some, disgusting. But I used to LDR date a LONG time ago, and I quit after I realized how much trust you need to have, an...

How do I kiss my boyfriend right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - How do i kiss my boyfriend right? like if i was to french kiss is there anyway to stop a lot of saliva? cuz that sounds like a major turn off......

Is this a mid life crisis or should I leave my wife for her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 September 2010 (M) - Hi, I have been married to a wonderful woman for 20 years who I still think I love. Back in January I reconnected with an old girlfriend (who is unhappily married) on Facebook. We've been emailing one another and even have met for lunch a couple o...

I am having thoughts of having a one night stand! I'm not a cheater! why am I thinking this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend satisfies me very much in bed but for some stupid reason, I want a one night stand. But, I don't even have anyone in mind! I've only ever slept with my boyfriend and it makes me feel so bad that I think about this! Then, I think I want ...

How soon is too soon to get over someone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - How soon is too soon to get over someone? I *just* got out of my first serious relationship (and we almost made it to our 1 year anniversary). Right now I'm feeling hurt and confused, but I'm wondering how long is it okay to be mopey? And when is it ...

How can I stop obsessing over his ex's?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5192 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - I can't help but still feel insecure when it comes to my boyfriend's ex-flings. I Facebook them often, and have even made fake profiles to try to friend them (which haven't work) so I can keep tabs on them. My boyfriend has had a problem with lying ...

Is he spending to much time playing video games? or am I being needy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - I'm not sure what I want to ask... so I'll just type... I am confused and unhappy in my relationship of over 2 years. I love him and he loves me. I just feel really lonely when I'm with him often, because he likes to spend as much time as he possi...

Broke up with my boyfriend because of my best friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5155 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - Am so confused, despite the fact i can help others with problems i just can't seem to sort my own problem. About a year ago i meet this lad on a night out, i really liked him but he didn't feel the say way. I later became best friends with him...

How can I get this relationship back on track?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for four years now, the last few months have been hard with us falling out and seemingly making up. Most recently we fell out and decided that splitting up was the way forward. It seems that over the last 4 months he ...

How can I take a busy girl's friendship further into a potential relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5159 days ago

11 September 2010 (M) - How can I take a busy girl's friendship further into a potential relationship? ~~~~~~ In detail: She's the average, silent, "I am keeping to my work, and putting it first above all else" kind of girl. I know that she likes me, and her aunt ...

I kissed another woman, It ment nothing, should I tell my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

11 September 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for about 3 years. the first year we where on and off and dating other people. We decided to be a steady couple about 2 years ago and things have been great. I love her, she is wonderful to me. through the ...

I regret what I did to my boyfriend, I want him back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5155 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - This boy and I have been seeing eachother off and on all summer. The other day I had 3 girls tell me that he was cheating on me. One of the girls like brought up her brother like he was interested in me or something. I'm not interested in him. ...

Love, Friendly or Flirting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5190 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - Ok, well there's this amazing guy I know. Seriously, he's the entire package; brains, cutie, plays percussion, super nice, etc. I was helping him fix his uniform one day because I noticed he couldn't get his collar hooked on right (they are the ...

Does he want to get married or is he just stalling? I am wondering if I should walk away.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - I've searched online for an answer for a while, but nothing ever seems to fit just right so I need to go ahead and ask this myself...is it time for me to leave? I want to get married. My BF of 4 years keeps saying, "yeah, lets just go do it" or "...