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Archived questions from: 14 September, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

What makes a guy shy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

14 September 2010 (F) - 1. would a shy guy ring a girl and ask her out?? or hes too shy to do that?? 2. what make guys shy??? 3. what if you like a shy guy and you think he likes you too..but hes not making any move?? what should the girl do?? thnx..xx...

Dating a military man

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

14 September 2010 (F) - I would really appreciate any advice I can get on this matter because I really need to decide what I should do about my RAF boyfriend and I. I am beginning to realise how hard it is to be involved with a military man after dating him for 4 months...

My boyfriend's brother likes me more than he should and it's embarrassing me... how do I deal with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

14 September 2010 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now. I am 18 and he is 19, he recently moved in with his brother who is 25. So, I see a lot more of his brother than I already did. I've lately gotten the feeling that his brother is attracted to me. ...

My feeling horny all the time is embarrassing me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

14 September 2010 (F) - I really dont know what to do... I get horny so easily!!! Its really bad when I am in school. I get all wet and stuff. I cant help thinking about my boyfriend!!! I am wondering why it smells tho? Should I get it looked at by a doctor. It seems that ...

He has given me 2 weeks to drastically change things or we have to go....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

14 September 2010 (F) - This might be long, so I thank you in advance for reading! Some background: when I was 15, I had a huge crush on a guy who was NOT interested in me at all. I was his exact opposite, loud and wild, and "scared" him. I never forgot him, but moved on ...

What if he was the one for me and I have let him go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

14 September 2010 (F) - I really finding it hard to get over my ex... We broke up over 2 months ago but got back toegther and then broke up again a couple of weeks ago.. We weren't getting on, arguing all the time over differnt things, we were together for over 2 years...

How do I make myself want to have sex more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

14 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and I took his virginity. I have only had sex with one other person. When we have sex he cums in a minute or two the first time. Then we do it again and he lasts for about ten minutes and then he can ...

Have I just wasted 3 years of my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5188 days ago

14 September 2010 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for three years, which is a very long time because I'm only young. I love him to pieces but I don't know if I want to stay with him. He isn't very romantic and has never treated me, we have never been out for ...

How do I give a blowjob to my boyfriend who has a lot of cum?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

14 September 2010 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year. I am 20 and he is 21. I took his virginity right before his 21st birthday. But I had only had sex with one other guy before him and I had only given a bj before sex so I had never ...

I don't have the urge to make out with her any more!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

14 September 2010 (M) - Ok so this one is a little complex so thanks for ur time.. i will make it short.. i love my girlfriend and we have a great relationship.. she wants to wait till marriage to lose her virginity and i am fine with that (this will be important later). ...

How can I get him to talk and not shut down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

14 September 2010 (F) - Ok, I need some help. Been dating this guy for almost a year. We dont spend time at all together maybe once a month, he texts every day. He is very sweet one minute and angry the next especially when i question anything about the relationship and or ...

Relationships and University

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5186 days ago

14 September 2010 (M) - Hey everyone, My name's Joe and i'm just starting my 2nd year of University. Before My Uni life began I was in a relationship with a guy for 4 years. It had it's ups and downs and ended ok. But the problem was during that relationship I was doing my ...

Am I crazy to be insecure? Should I let this pass?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5188 days ago

14 September 2010 (F) - I'm so insecure, my boyfriend lied about his ex. He said he never brought her home then i find out she knew all his family and he had brought her home. I confronted him and he said he didnt like to talk about the past. I feel betrayed, why lie? Now ...

Could he be the one cheating and trying to blame shift?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

14 September 2010 (F) - Hi I've been with my bf over 18 months. Its been turbulent. His highs and lows have taken a toll on me. He constantly accuses me of cheating (I never have) thinks I talk to men online (never have) calls me sneaky all the time. Looks at my cell. Qu...

I have problems with my violent teenager son, who doesn't want me to date!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

14 September 2010 (F) - I am having problems with my teenager. He's 13 and doesn't want me to date or talk to anyone. I decided not to bring any man around until I felt that it was serious. I have found someone who I am very happy with. My son won't accept it. He is very ...

Less than a month and he says he's in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

14 September 2010 (F) - I have sort of been seeing a guy for the past couple of weeks now. I haven't even known him for a full month yet. He's already told me that he thinks he's fallen in love with me and that I am the only girl for him. Suddenly it feels like I find him ...

How should I interpret his lack of communication?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

14 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year and now things are starting to get bad. I text him for a couple hours and then he just stops texting me. I then send a text asking what is going on and he replies that he is busy. I then am ...

Afraid that "standing up for myself" might drive her away

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

14 September 2010 (M) - What can I do because I feel like I'm in a no-win situation. I am madly in love with my girlfriend, who often seems to take me for granted. But at the same time, while I feel I deserve better treatment, I'm afraid to "stand up for myself" because ...

Why does the ex still want my friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

14 September 2010 (F) - Boyfriend and I broke up July 21st. We argued and said some really mean things about each other -back-and-forth (yes, it was very childish) He started dating his current gf 2 days after we broke-up (she's the reason we broke up) and deleted me as a ...

HE has a facebook account but doesn't want me to have one!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4924 days ago

14 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of a year and 7 months has a facebook account but doesn't want me to have one. We have trust issues. Is that like fair? Is it right of him to do that? I dont talk to any of my friends anymore because of our trust issues and i think it ...

Do guys like calm girls or hyper girls?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

14 September 2010 (F) - I read somewhere that guys don't like hyper girls, who are always excited all the time. Like they think that the girl is trying to get attention and its lame that they are so excited about little things. It has been researched that most guys don't ...

Does he really care or what??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5188 days ago

14 September 2010 (F) - Okay so me and my boyfriend have been at it for sometime. But three days ago I called it through a text message bc lately he'd been acting like he was too busy for me. I texted him and said "dont worry about calling me back, i dont want it anymore" ...

25 and have never had a serious girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

14 September 2010 (M) - I am 25 years old and I have never had a serious girlfriend in my life. I have dated quite a bit but it's usually just one date and it never gets anywhere beyond that. They usually stop talking to me, even if the date went really well and we had a ...

Girlfriend wants to move faster in our relationship than I do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5187 days ago

14 September 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly a full year, however we're long distance making our relationship difficult. We've had our ups and lows, and even broke up for a while, but we've been back together for about five months now. The ...

How do I achieve being a one man woman?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

14 September 2010 (F) - I am what you call a "real life Samantha Jones". I'm a 47 year old woman who lost her virginity when she was 12. Throughout my teen years after that, I had seven sex partners. One of which was my first love who I lost my virginity to (we were ...

Long distance and time's running out. How do I win his heart and make him want a future with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

14 September 2010 (F) - He’s 36 and lives in Germany. I’m 27, in London for 2 years now but due to return to Asia next year when my job secondment ends. We met on 5 Apr (5 months ago) when I brought my parents on a month-long DIY / free and easy trip in Europe. Since ...

I don't know whether to keep the stress and the guy or try and shed both!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

14 September 2010 (F) - I think I treat my boyfriend bad, and my mood changes are hard for anyone to keep up with. He's not that happy either but says I treat him well. A part of me wants to break up with him, and get rid of some of the stress for both of us. I know it ...

I hated him now I love him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

14 September 2010 (F) - Has anyone ever fallen for someone they hated at first? It feels so strange and confusing. I feel like I must be crazy!...

The man I love is three hours away and another guy is right here! what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

14 September 2010 (F) - I have been dating a guy for a couple months already, and i really really like him, at a point were i love him. but i moved three hours away to go to school. And there is a guy who likes me and hes alright the thing is hes here where i can see him ...

Whats this guy want from me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5189 days ago

14 September 2010 (F) - so this is my situtation..i met this guy last semester we made out a few times text once in a great while usually at night nothing really happened. this semester he text me out of the blue during the day. "just say you and you didnt say hi haha" i ...

Am I being taken for granted by the love of my Life after 13 years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

14 September 2010 (M) - This is my first time using this and this very complicated, so here goes. I will try and shorten my story up for readability. I really need some solid advice for this group because I feel like I am dying a little every day: Please don't disregard ...

Now that we see each other more what do I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5187 days ago

14 September 2010 (F) - Last year I broke up with my boyfriend right before summer vacation started,we were together for about 4 months.. but now that we're back in school, hes in a few of my classes... and we talk a lot... i broke up with him because i knew we wouldn't...

Does he secretly like me? and if so what should I do about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5188 days ago

14 September 2010 (F) - ok, i need help. my crush is like my best friend, and some of his friends told me that he likes me? my crush touched me (like sexual touching) and now im wonderin if he likes me. he teases me playfully and when we played truth or dare, he ended up ...

He is having marriage problems and we want a fling together? what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

14 September 2010 (F) - So I just got into contact with a guy I had a crush on back in high school. Found out he was very attracted to me as well. We both haven't forgotten each other and would like to have a fling but here's the situation: he's married, I live in one ...