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*arahrose20
writes:my boyfriend and i have ben together for pretty much 4 years now were 20 n living on our own for 2 months now but we lived with his mom for 7 b4 we moved here we love each other and need each other very much but all we do is fight we fight about who made wat mess who paid what for groceries n his bad habits we cant be in the same room for more than 2 min without fighting but we cuddle every morning b4 we get up n no matter how mad we are areat each other we seem to be magnatized together when we go to bed then we tlk it out n repeat the same process the next day but sometimes it gets REALLY out of control n i stay mad for days i dont get it why do i always want to wring his neck? Reply to this Question
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reader, Ven  +, writes (19 October 2010):
Because the two of you are having a hard time communicating. I don't mean that you don't talk, but that your fighting tends to blow steam and not resolve underlying problems.
I would recommend counseling, or at least trying to sit down and work through a book or two on improving your marriage.
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