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Archived questions from: 13 September, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

The love of my life is moving to a different state!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5187 days ago

13 September 2010 (F) - so me and my boyfriend have been together for some time now. I love him to death and he loves me too. when we first got together I knew that him moving back to florida in january was an option. but he just told me a couple of days ago he's going ...

Did he have feelings for her then?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5189 days ago

13 September 2010 (F) - Hey guys, thanks for reading. Straight to the point, i've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and i love him to bits. But looking back at our relationship, he bascily got out of one relationship and into ours. And he had been with his last...

My heart says not to end this buy my head says I should? interracial relationship

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

13 September 2010 (M) - I am a white male, live and have lived in a mainly white suburb all my life, and most of my associations have been with others of my race. We are a pretty liberal family and I have always been raised that everyone is equal, but that being said our ...

I stood up to my ex, did I do the right thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5189 days ago

13 September 2010 (F) - My ex and I broke up about 5 months ago. Right after we broke up I left for 2 months for my job. When I came back we started hooking up again and I was fine with everything for the time being. He does a lot of drugs and parties all the time, wh...

Is he playing mind games or am I paranoid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

13 September 2010 (F) - Basically iv been seeing this guy "bob" for the last few months , its a very casual thing between us , he lives in diffrent town so i never bump into him which i kind of like, im happy this thing we share is not in my face. The thing is he is the f...

I feel we don't see each other often enough...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5189 days ago

13 September 2010 (F) - okay well my boyfriend and i met at an algebra class over the summer. I thought he wuz cute.... and so we starting going out. I really like him. Well he is totally different than what i thought he would be... as in hes innocent. he doesnt know ...

My friends became my worst enemies in a blink of an eye!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

13 September 2010 (F) - First of all, I have to say 'my friends' betrayed me or I don't know what do you call this... I have some big issue with them, they barely talk to me, they are mean and indifferent to me. The thing is I don't know how this happened, we wer...

Do guys prefer French kissing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

13 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i started kissing a month ago and i noticed that the kiss tastes salty.. is this normal?? also, he likes the french kiss better than the lip kiss.. is this a guy thing? do guys prefer french kissing!! ...

I feel like I'm just being used for her convenience and being taken for granted.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5187 days ago

13 September 2010 (M) - My GF and I have been together just over 2 years. She has a 2 and half year old daughter that i also love very much. When we started dating, we would see each other friday nights, saturdays and sundays. We both work so weekdays are kind of ...

We need to meet secretly because of my strict family upbringing!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

13 September 2010 (F) - i am in love with a guy. we both love each other very much. am still a student in my undergrads while he is just fresh out of college into a job. my parents are really of the strictest sort. they consider falling in love sort of somethng really ...

Would I be compared to other girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5189 days ago

13 September 2010 (F) - Me, 14, and my boyfriend, almost 16, have only been together for about 5months and we're not thinking of doing anything this is just simply a wonder. Basically he's had sex and i haven't, i was just wondering if we ever decided to do anything, wou...

I don't want to get worked up for it and then get a no!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

13 September 2010 (M) - I'm going to ask the most common question ever probably, and know full well that the answer will be you've just got to ask/find out but i can't seem to. Basically I've started to really like a girl I work with. For the past year really we've started ...

Did I screw things up with my roommate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5186 days ago

13 September 2010 (M) - Help! I have been living with a roomate for 1 week now, and while we are not a couple as of yet, she has been more happy than ever, and in fact, this week we both agree has been fantastic. She told me she isn't used to being treated so well. Here's ...

Uncomfortable in an interracial relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

13 September 2010 (F) - Is it normal to feel a little uncomfortable in interracial relationships at first? I'm white and he's Chinese, and he's really sweet. It just seems kind of awkward sometimes like if he wants to kiss me in public or something or hold hands when ...

I don't know where I stand in her heart right now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

13 September 2010 (M) - i'm so blur on where actually am i standing in her heart now. i like this girl but i don wanna confess to her yet. but this doesn't help because many weeks ago when she got injured on her ankle i took great care of her. a care that no normal f...

He is married and wont break up with me, Now I think I'm in love!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

13 September 2010 (F) - Hi,i just want to ask some help about my turkish boyfriend now,he is married to a filipina like me ,,,they have two kids now,,i dont know if he really loves me,,how many many times i told him to break up with me ...

Should be concerned if my partner meets other guys without telling me, even if it is purely friendship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

13 September 2010 (M) - Should be concerned if my partner see's other guys without telling me, even if it is purely friendship? My partner sees other guys without mentioning to me that she is doing so. This all came to a head last week when we nearly finished our five yea...

She said she wants a break but I'm terrified I'll lose her...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

13 September 2010 (M) - Hi, I dated one girl for 3 and half months, and about 2 weeks ago we broke up. She said let's take time out until we both go to UK. (We are going to UK for university together). And I might go to UK by end of September. If my visa gets refused I ...

Should I call her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

13 September 2010 (M) - We were in love for 10 months and we were so happy together, the problem was that i hardly got to see her so we wud spend most our time on the phone or i.m-ing each other. then one day she just started ignoring me, she wouldnt answer my calls or ...

His sexual past really doesn't concern me, it's the "lying" that does!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

13 September 2010 (F) - My fiance and I are living together right now, and are getting a house together in a month. Certain things bother me.. and I need help to see if they really should or not... It's mainly about his sexual history. Sometimes he tells me he's ha...

Who is this girl on my laptop? Should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

13 September 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together just over a year, its going great. we have had the odd argument here and there but other then that we have been going fine. However, the other night I took my laptop with me to his house as I was staying over ...

Childfree dating - what the hell am I supposed to do??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

13 September 2010 (M) - Genuinely trying to find some SENSIBLE advice from people. This does NOT mean I want advice that just backs me up on my point of view! The basic thing is this. I am 36. I don't want children. I never have done, never will. I have a god daugh...

Does anyone have any tips for delaying my girlfriend in reaching orgasm before me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

13 September 2010 (M) - Through sexual intercourse my girlfriend often reaches orgasm a good few minutes before I ejeculate. Apart from me actually stopping. Does anyone have any tips for delaying my girlfriend in reaching orgasm before me? We have tried different p...

Do I have the obligation to look after him in this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

13 September 2010 (F) - I've married for twenty years. My husband is ten years older than me. Besides finanically supporting the family there isnt much make me feel like to continue this marriage. He never cares when I am not well. Finally I divorced him and found ...

I want to tell him it's over for good... but how!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

13 September 2010 (F) - I hate my boyfriend, he a controlling manipulative SOB ad i just can't stand him anymore, i tried to break up with him 12 times in the last month and nothing worked! i even told that i cheated before 3 days and he still doesn't want to let me go. h...

What do you guys reckon... Does he deserve another chance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

13 September 2010 (F) - I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 18 and we have been going out for 4 months. he lives 40 miles away from me. we have met up once every 3 weeks since we been going out. when we first started going out about a week into it i found out he was still talking ...

We may need to break up because of his mother!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

13 September 2010 (F) - i have been in a relationship for ten years with my boyfriend. we spent five years together and he travelled for five years. everything was fine until he came back and wanted to see my parents and his parents to announce the relationship. his mother ...

I'm in a gay relationship but I would love to see what it feels like having sex with a woman.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

13 September 2010 (M) - I'll start from the top then. (This needs some explaining) I'm a 26 year old guy and I've been in a stable, loving relationship with another guy for 8 years now. We live together and we've been in a Civil Partnership for three years. We enj...

How to make a good relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

13 September 2010 (M) - Hi: I'm offering this tip because an article would take up way to much space, whereas, what I want to offer is all over the place, free and quite simple to use, in my opinion. My tip is: google relationship tips or relationship skills or g...

How do I know if shes the right one for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

13 September 2010 (M) - Im the type of guy who isn't in contact with alot of people. Its not something i wake up and try to accomplish. I tend to focus on things which dont seem important to most people. Being like this in my nature i dont come across many women, and when ...

He friended me on facebook but no contact since. Do I make contact?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

13 September 2010 (F) - This guy in my church friended me on facebook recently. We've never talked but it looks like he's friended a number of other people at church as well. I accepted, somewhat out of curiousity and the assurance that he was already friends with people I ...

I'm falling for a girl who works for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

13 September 2010 (M) - i am falling for a girl who works for me. i'm an average looking guy and she is beutiful. we used to kinda battle a little. we have awalys flirted a little and sometimes touching recently after a argument we both vowed not to fight anymore. since ...

Was she serious in that relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5189 days ago

13 September 2010 (M) - Two months back, my girlfriend dumped and I had to accept her decision with broken heart. We had a breakup before as well but we patched up in just three months. She dumped now saying that because I was not having a good job and she didn’t think...

Is this some sort of a game to keep me around?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

13 September 2010 (F) - Hello I am in need of some help , because male behavior confuses me. The fellow I had been dating for almost 3 years had broke up , we recently started dating again not a realtionship but going out on dates . When we go out we have a great tim...

Liking someone vs thinking that you do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

13 September 2010 (F) - This may come off as an odd question, but.. how can you tell the difference between actually liking/loving someone, verses just thinking that you like/love them? Also, there is a guy that I am sort of dating, but we aren't "official" (my c...

If a guy likes you, he'll let you know..right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

13 September 2010 (F) - I have always firmly believed that if a guy likes you he will let you know. My crush (whom I met about five years ago, we have friends in common but never hung out) and I have slept together twice both times we never bothered to exchange numbers. ...

Now single, and I feel awful about my body

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

13 September 2010 (F) - I'm recently single. I was with my boyfriend for almost 4 years, and he was my first boyfriend and the only guy I've had sex with and who has seen me completely naked. Being with him I discovered many truths of men, that I had been naive and blind ...

I'm so confused. Do I go for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

13 September 2010 (M) - Alright, this is a long one. There's this girl that has been in my youth group for a couple years, but I never really got to know her. I'm the only one from my school in my youth group....the others all go to a school about 15 minutes away. We can ...

Boyfriend is still on online dating and acts weird

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

13 September 2010 (F) - I am 36, a marathon runner (my point is I'm in shape and not fat), and I am told that I am very attractive. I was in a relationship for 14 years, we were separated for 3, and he recently passed away from a heart attack after years of drug abuse. ...

How can I resurect an old crush?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

13 September 2010 (M) - Ok, I'll try to make this as understandable as I can. Basically, I have liked a girl for some time. Back in grade 7 she asked me to dance at our schools Halloween dance, and I just fell in love. She had liked me for some time before that mostly ...

I'm 5'6" and she's 6'2", does it matter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

13 September 2010 (M) - Ok so i'm a guy and im alround 5'6 and im kinda self conscious about my height. me and this girl have been talking for a long time and were kind of a thing but not offically dating. i like her a lot and she likes me a lot and she wants to date. she ...