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Archived questions from: 19 September, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I will not compete with her 'relationship expert' sister!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5183 days ago

19 September 2010 (M) - My girkfriend moved out 3 weeks ago. We were in the process to see if we could work things out, everything was going smoothly even last night she said she loved me and would talk to me tommorrow. Her sister was over this morning and must have gave ...

How can I choose?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

19 September 2010 (F) - When two boys wish for you to be their girlfriend how does one choose?...

Am I being naive, or does he really feel the same?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

19 September 2010 (F) - I need to know the opinion of someone who doesn't know me or anything about the people involved in this situation. So I'm going to explain this entire thing from the beginning. This summer I met a guy who was so different from any guy I'd ever met. ...

Can someone advise me on how to do it right please?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

19 September 2010 (M) - I got this beautiful girls phone number friday night at a club. I called her saturday evening but she didnt answer, I would have left a message but her voice mail isn't set up. When should I call her again? and should I text or call? ...

I wish I was with her please help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

19 September 2010 (M) - MOD NOTE: OP's own title. Hi I've got a not really a problem but just a spot of bother on my mind the thing is I've started college for my second year and over the summer I had these developing feelings for a girl and as soon as I accepted them I to...

I lied... should I tell him the truth?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

19 September 2010 (F) - I'm fourteen and me and my boyffriend's relationship is getting serious. The other day he asked me if I've ever had sex and I lied and said no, should I tell him the truth? ...

We both kissed different people!

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19 September 2010 (F) - me and this guy (both 19) been seeing each other for 8 months(we not together tho and he isnt a slag) we get on so well and really like each other but dont see each other very often as we would like we live 30 mins apart but he drives and we al...

How can I get over this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5170 days ago

19 September 2010 (F) - There is a guy I've liked for 2 years. We see eachother every year at least around the same time. He has a girlfriend and is quite unavailable. Every year, I talk myself out of liking him and when I see him again i want to be with him. How do I get ...

Can a "dog" ever change?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

19 September 2010 (F) - Hi, i've been told by people that a guy i know is a "dog" etc... i think i know what that means, do guys who are "dogs" ever change? Would they still act like a "dog" even if they have a girlfriend?...

Girlfriend interested in someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5183 days ago

19 September 2010 (M) - I'm in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend we met online and in the beginning our love grew quite a bit but lately she's been getting distanced and pushing herself away from me. How can you tell if she's interested in someone else and ...

My interracial relationship does not go over well with my parents!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

19 September 2010 (F) - the guy i love is black and i am white and my parents are completely against it.not only that he just had a baby girl by his exgirlriend.i love him with all my heart.its just hard dealing with everything.what should i do??...

Will I find an honest man?

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19 September 2010 (F) - I am 56 and thinking about getting a divorce, is it hard to find and honest man?...

Do guys mind if their girlfriends talk to their friends about the relationship?

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19 September 2010 (F) - Hey, do guys mind if girls talk to their friends about what's happening in the relationship? Like, I'm dating a guy, and am really excited about it, so have been talking to a friend about it, but he found out about it today (sent him an email meant ...

I've only got myself to blame!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5169 days ago

19 September 2010 (?) - I have been in a LDR, me in Scotland whilst he is in the South and a while back I was having doubts about my boyfriend and about how I felt for him, I didn't think I felt the same. Also I was feeling rather unsettled in myself too and that probably ...

Could this mean he wants to date me?

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19 September 2010 (F) - hi everyone and thanks for reading this. I have a question. i am studying at college as mature student and for the last two years had a teacher who has always been very helpful and supportive. now i do not have him anymore as his subject ...

Realising my ex is the one for me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

19 September 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I recently broken up within the past week. She thought that our relationship, being a long distance relationship, and her being older then me by nine years had no future. She also believed that we both lived two very different ...

It makes me angry that I can get past my fears to have sex...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

19 September 2010 (M) - Dear Aunties... My girlfriend of a solid (And might I say AMAZING) 3 months and myself are talking about sex every day she comes over. Now, being a 17 year old male, my body wants me to have sex, a lot of sex... But I (as a person) dont. The rea...

Having trouble going below his belt line!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

19 September 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 6 weeks and I really do love him and he loves me too and he tells me all the time. We are both virgins and havent gone very far and I want to be able to please him sexually so we talked about me giving him ...

Since our break up I feel so alone. I know he still loves me so how can we make this work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5183 days ago

19 September 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm a mess, me and my ex were together nearly two years, were engaged ready to move in together, had found a flat but about 4 weeks ago he ended it. We had been arguing for a while over small petty things but as we are both stubborn the row...

My girlfriend and alcohol is a bad combination!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

19 September 2010 (M) - Hello everyone, I got a little problem over here... I'm since 1 month together with my girlfriend now. Everything is just fine with her; she is the best thing that happened in my life (you know what I mean right? :) ). But as soon alcohol comes in...

How do I convince my girlfriend to go topless?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5184 days ago

19 September 2010 (M) - my girl frnd is a shy type. how can i convince her to get nude or topless or even braless in front of me. she is indian and u know that most of the indian girls fear to expose and a little conservative type. please suggest how to convince her. she...

Is he in love with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

19 September 2010 (F) - Ok I need help!!!! I have been in a relationship with someone I thought I could spend the rest of my life with, however I dont beleive he is interested in me anymore:( Over the last 2 years it is very rarely that we are intimate. I understa...

He broke up with me, promised to get back together, but I'm worried..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5184 days ago

19 September 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend had been going out with each other for atleast 2 weeks and a half. When, he brought up the question "Should we break up?" I was shocked he would ask that. I was hurt and was about to break down in tears. He told me, he was only ...

I want to allow my boyfriend a three way but want to hear feedback on how it will affect the relationship

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

19 September 2010 (F) - Sex with my boyfriend has been lackluster. I love him deeply and would never cheat or leave him. I think he feels the same way about me but the sex is not the reason we are together. We both agree that our bond is deeper. The reason I'm writing is ...

Could this scatterbrain move have offended him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

19 September 2010 (F) - I've done something stupid! Been asked on a date by a lovely guy from work. He's organised it, told me it'll be outside, hands on, and a new experience. Asked him for another clue, and he said "you'll have to take responsibility for a situation". ...

I fantasized about my straight boyfriend being with a MAN.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

19 September 2010 (F) - Hello all, thanks in advance for reading this. Me and my boyfriend have been in this relationship for a long time and it's been great. Our sex life is full of fantasies and excitement. He is very open minded, just like me and we always try new thin...

It bothers him if I hang out with my friends, but he hangs with his

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5183 days ago

19 September 2010 (F) - Lately i have been feeling like i am more "Go with the flow" when it comes to my boyfriend doing the things he wants to do. I feel that i am restricted to doing only the things he feels is alright for me to do. Since i was little i'd always been ...

We get along well at work, I'd like to ask her out, but heard she has a b/f

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5170 days ago

19 September 2010 (M) - There's a girl I work with - she's been at the company longer than me, and for the first few months after I started we didn't really speak much. I'm a bit shy, she works on a different department and the company is very strict on chatting during ...

Did fingering injure me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

19 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend fingered me and I think my vagina ripped a little into the space between my anus and vagina. What do I do and how do I know if its really ripped?...

Had sex with my boyfriend once but he now wants to wait till marriage!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

19 September 2010 (F) - I am 16 and my boyfriends 19. He still doesnt want to have sex and i do. We did it once but he doesnt wanna do it again till he is married. I want it so bad all the time, its all i think about when im with him. I just want to do it. I need help to ...

I still love my first boyfriend even although I accepted this other man's proposal!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

19 September 2010 (F) - I am so worried.. i have two options.. when I got my first i was so happy but he left me after 3 years.. he ditched me for a girl.. so after that i got a new friend.. he became my best friend.. he proposed to me many times but i refused.. then when ...

Trying my hardest to get out of this relationship... help!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

19 September 2010 (M) - My question to all of you is how do I get out of my relationship? History: me and my girlfriend have been dating for going on two years now, we dated in high school and now in college. the problems started over a year ago when we first went to ...

Do I just give up on him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5184 days ago

19 September 2010 (F) - Was in and out a 5 year relationship. It ended 6 months ago, been trying to make contact, he starts to talk to me then stops. I try calling, but he will not answer. What should I do?...